Should i Or Shouldn't?

Nyx · 05-21-2010

I was wondering about something from a long time ... Am not really sure about it .. Cause it's actually a broke up friendship ...The story is ..
I had a friend ..that she's a girl .. (I had more than her actually)... She's nice friendly one .. I introdused her to my friends ..And in that time ..I had no doubt about her .. After few years (The introducing time was when i was in the 1st year of the high school)... In the 2nd ..everything was fine ..But the problem happened in the 3rd one ...
In the 3rd year "the last year"... Everyone should do his/her best to have a good grades ..So for me i'm tring to make that happen .. But her ..NOT..
She always count on me And espacially in the English class (Am not an english person) .. Cheat on the exams ... In short ..She don't do anything on her own... One day ..I was bagging the books to my bag ..But unfortunatly ..The Eng book wasn't there ..So Directly I blamed her ..When i arrived to the class ..I yelled at her to bring back my book ..But badly it wasn't with her ..it was with the one whom next her (I was angry cause it wasn't the 1st time)..So i calm ..And started to do somethings .. But then ..My pen had gone ..When the 2st class has done .. I found it with her ..So i told her ..The pen with her is mine "With an angry voice"... She said to me:What a stingy person you are "With a Ridiculed voice"... After few classes ..She requested the homework of the english ... I told her:...Didn't you said i'm stingy??...So if i'm a stingy one ..you won't have it.
For the meantime .. She always look at me ..And feel jealous from the grades i have (Cause she was good than me)...And for me ..I don't talk with her ..or even look at her face.
Sorry for saying too much things ..But what do you think guyz ..Shouldn't be hated for this?

**fazenda** · 05-21-2010

First apologize forgetting so mad about the pen and being childish about being called stingy and emphasize that your not apologizing for not letting her cheat.
(if the pen has some special meaning like it was a gift or something, explain why you seemed to overreact)
(when she asked for the homework I don't know if you were saying she wanted to cheat or something)

Second(it is "2nd" not "2st") Try to get her ask before borrowing anything.

Seriously, she cheats off your English homework.

Nyx · 05-23-2010

Well seriously .... It's not a treasury pen ..But it just when i come to the school ..I come with a lot of blue pens (three/five)(The blue pen is what we most use)
So ..when i use one in the classes ..Just like that ..It disappear ..So i use another one ..And the same thing happen .. After few mins ..I found out the pen is with her or with the one whom next her ..But 'cause those days we were friends so ..I didn't mind at all ..But 'cause she didn't stop her attitude ..So i my patient had lost ..And my resisting gone ..So ..I exploded as a Volcano ...And the rest as what i said ..;_;

Csylene · 06-01-2010

well, tell her that even though you are friends, she really needs to ask permission from you when borrowing things.

well, apologize for the outburst.

no offense meant, but why do you allow her to cheat? I mean, you guys are friends, right? then why do you tolerate her doing wrong things then? shouldn't you help each other on how to be good persons?

just asking...

Nyx · 06-03-2010

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Originally Posted by Csylene

well, tell her that even though you are friends, she really needs to ask permission from you when borrowing things.

well, apologize for the outburst.

no offense meant, but why do you allow her to cheat? I mean, you guys are friends, right? then why do you tolerate her doing wrong things then? shouldn't you help each other on how to be good persons?

just asking...

Good questions ... Well ..even though that the cheating is a bad habit ..But for real ..It's very common in the school ..Which it's like ..If you won't help the others in cheating ..You won't be a popular person

**Tyranno** · 06-03-2010

...... :(

**DjKuato** · 06-24-2010

you keep treatin her like that she may not want to be your friend

the way i see it if she takes your pen and uses your helping her by supplying a writing utensil
if she takes your book shes using it for work
if she cheats off you on a test she has faith in your answers
granted stealing and cheating bad you should try to look at the brighter side
it also sounds to me as if your under pressure, stressed, depressed, aggravated, or mad if you get angry that easily you should relax a lil chief ya know