What is love? - Page 3

wi_sam · 01-26-2009

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Originally Posted by suigintou

To put it simply, love is lust, passion and trust incarnate.

Boy, that was cheesy.

Actually it was pickley (8

BUT

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Originally Posted by Trisha5958

love is hard to explane and i don't think there can be a wrong answer. peoples views of the world are different. to me, love is when you can't stop thinking about a person, when you wish they were with you at all times, when you would rather cuddle up on the couch on a cold winter night infront of the fire place and just talk. i'm not one to talk about the physical parts of love, because i have yet to go through it, but i know when i do, it will be with that one person that i know i will spend the rest of my life with. and i am in no rush to find him--it's out fate that we will cross paths one day... not on my time, but on God's

i can't belive im actually having second thuts about it . it might be destiny after all ..... but some people say that "love comes after marriage" ....

**suigintou** · 01-26-2009

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Originally Posted by wi_sam

but some people say that "love comes after marriage" ....

I think that saying is a bunch of bullshit, myself. Marriage is a growth of love, not the precursor to it. At least, that's the way it's supposed to be. Obviously marriage isn't really used correctly often times.

**Russkie** · 01-26-2009

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Originally Posted by analogZero

overrated.

Agreed.

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Originally Posted by jyuukai

I'm emo...love is very hard to find for me

Whiner.

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Originally Posted by AkiTorrien

This is my own definition of love

(Ignore my spelling)
Love is defined in many ways:

Love is a union between two people or between something. When you love someone you respect the fact of oneness and dont claim that you own that person. Relationships based on dominance and submission are doomed to fail, yet when you love someone and respect them and know that they are there own person, the relationship will work. Love also lets someone go outside of them self, it is a doing word. For example a Man voleeters there time at a hospital for the elderly. He helps the Wheel chair bond outside, listens to a man who is a old war veteren and keep a widowed old women company by listens to her story about her grandchildren and her own children and her late husband. After those 3 hours a week he leaves feeling good of himself becuase someone eles got satisfaction, and made there lives more better. Love comes in all forms, sexual, sprititual, prenatal and such. When we are first created we are attached to our mothers womb and it is like we are one person. When we are born we become two people and as we get older we seek that comfort that womb provided. It was perfect temperature, warm and safe. So we seek that. When we find someone to love we can feel safe with them and you become one person. Love removes lonelines and provides “Shelter from the storm”. You have a person who lives in solitary comfinment, has no contact with the world, they are anti social and feel alone. Humans no matter what they say all fear one thing in common – being alone. Haveing someone will remove the lonelineness is someone;s or your selfs life. It dosent matter what you love, its the quility of love you provide. Example- An elderly lady lives in an apearment in the city, she has lost her husband, her four children have grown up and have families of there own, and she is retired. But she has a dog. She loves this dog with all her heart. She gets up every day to feed it, cuddle it, walk it and cuddle. Because she gets to walk this dog she has made friends with her neighbors who she never got to before. Becuase of this dog, it motivates her to get up every day and love it and provide for it. In return the dog loves her back and she gets positive results back. Love is not about haveing sex with someone. Its not about haveing one night stands, love is not coming home from work and wanting sex all the time. Love is when you take the time to realize the little things in life are important.

"Love is also friendship that has been caught and ablazed on Fire" <---- Not mine.

"Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things <----- Not mine

...What was that? No, seriously, what is this? I mean... granted, these kind of (stupid) philosophical questions are expected to come up with all kinds of bias-filled-answers. But you think drowning us in a cesspool of regurgitated vomit-words is something that would be tolerated?

GTFO, Lumber Jack.

wi_sam · 01-26-2009

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Originally Posted by suigintou

I think that saying is a bunch of bullshit, myself. Marriage is a growth of love, not the precursor to it. At least, that's the way it's supposed to be. Obviously marriage isn't really used correctly often times.

It is bullshit, most of the time anyway .

01-27-2009

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Originally Posted by wi_sam

i can't belive im actually having second thuts about it . it might be destiny after all ..... but some people say that "love comes after marriage" ....

but why would you marrie some one who you don't love? i don't see how people do that. i want to say my vows to some one i love

... not some one i might come to love in the future.

strike7785 · 01-27-2009

What is love.... baby dont hurt me..... dont hurt me... no more

Love is damn near complicated. In my oppinion its something you really can't explain but only experience through life.