Originally Posted by Tovarishch
For the love of anything holy left on this planet, stop posting these ridiculous, nonsensical lists of "love." You are 18. You have no idea what the concept of love even is, let alone a true relationship. To make things work between oneself and a "significant other," one must make comprimises. Love is not all kissing and perfect nights under the stars or whatever other garbage ideas that movies and music have crammed into your head. A good relationship is based on the understanding and acceptance of another's shortcomings and strengths, not this idealistic fairytale bullshit that you are fed by the media and hormones.
P.S. If I don't feel like kissing, then damn it, I'm not going to kiss.
Wow, where to start.
First off, a majority of people in this thread seem to have appreciated its content, so I don't see where you get off on telling someone to stop posting.
Second, you base that because someone is 18 they don't know what the concept of love is. Sorry, but your definition of love isn't what everyone else will think.
Love isn't kissing and perfect nights? Maybe for you, but that sounds favorably romantic to me. By your logic, this mutual understanding of each other doesn't include "kissing" or, well, love, in any distinct form. I would just call what you're describing an ideal friendship, actually.
Love has flirtations and things that may seem pointless. That's surely what I think when I see it, but I have enough sense to know it could mean a lot more if I was in the actual situation. Please, get off your high chair, you aren't blinding anyone with epiphanies.