[Zaraki]

Originally Posted by hsb39

And I am arguing against that because I more that believe that it is incorrect. Put it this way, could you choose? Try it, start having a sexual attraction towards your gender... now! Your sexual preference is not about feeling comfortable or influence from parents, or thinking that it is wrong, it is a sexual feeling. It's fairly easy to tell. As I have said before, people kill themselves because they think that they have a choice when they do not.

Actually the environment a child grows up in will mostly likely have a effect on how they might turn out when they get older. Both of my aunts on my dad's side are liberal. Their kids are liberal as well because that's how they were raised and they also lived in a very liberal community. I have a friend back in high school who grew up with gay parents. He isn't gay in fact he's one hell of a ladies man. His parents would tell him he would have no choice in the matter he was going to be gay and like it. My friend didn't like that lifestyle his dads had and decided he doesn't want to end up like them and tell his kids why they don't have a mother.

No offense but just saying it's not a choice and come up w/ a excuse to make it sound like being gay is natural really doesn't make a whole lot of sense. People who commit suicide because of that are being told by other people that you have no choice and start to believe them then eventually when they are so in the dumps they kill themselves because of that. You have a free will. The choice on how you want to run your life is up to you. You always always have a choice.

The gay and bi friends I have say it's a choice. They have chosen that kind of lifestyle because they do feel comfortable with it. They have tried being w/ the opposite and doesn't work out for them. Then they decided maybe they could do better with the same.