only for ppl who r 20 or younger [Archive]

wi_sam

10-28-2008, 02:50 PM

Are you still a virgin or did u .......... ???

i just wanna know how many ppl r still virgins and how many have lost it befor gettin to 20 .
cuz now adays alot of young people especially young girls are being victims to their people's ignorance .......some of them are gettin married soo young like 17,16 and even 15 years old AND they let them have babys
and there is those ppl who just do IT for FUN, they may have sex with someone they dont even know. I just cant imagine what the hell are they thinkin ???......................................yes , i know that humans have sexual neads but thats not the way to do it .....i know that im not fuckin anyone who im not going to spend the rest of my life with , love and HAVE CHILDREN with .....
........oh , and this has nothing to do with religion, its just commkon sense , right ??

aezgaga

10-28-2008, 02:56 PM

well I guess that at least that the love is real and that they are togheter for some time it's okay.... I agree with you under 15 is too young ... (what a thread ^^')

wi_sam

10-28-2008, 03:14 PM

well I guess that at least that the love is real and that they are togheter for some time it's okay.... I agree with you under 15 is too young ... (what a thread ^^')

i wouldnt know if it is ok or not but wen they r together and then they had sex they may OR may not got married , rite ??
besides if they r doin each other then ther is NO NEAD for them to get married ........ AND if they really love each other and they know theyll be together then iguss thats ok ....oh , an why did u post FIRST if u didnt like the thread ??

Ryuuzaki

10-28-2008, 03:15 PM

No, I have not yet lost mine. Nor do I intend to anytime soon.

lemonek

10-28-2008, 03:17 PM

Shigami

10-28-2008, 03:19 PM

Correct your spelling and/or grammar dude.
Anyway from the little i read,I dont agree with your point of view.

badluckcat

10-28-2008, 03:24 PM

Well i don't think that if you are in love you should have sex , especially at my age . Personally i don't think i'm ready , so i plan on keeping my virginity until a more suitable age .

wi_sam

10-28-2008, 03:25 PM

well, i just believe that sex is another way to express each other's affection. I do agree that there r certain ages that are way to young to be doing that, and no, not because u have had sex u must get married, unless u live in certain places were if the subject is known u must get married.

its like U said i DO live in a place were if the subject is known u must get married , but if it is NOT going to be known there is still ppl who would do it ..............................and becouse sex is another way to xpress each others affiction ppl must not use it the way they r now if u did some1 dont even know or u know ur not going to be with , then ur telling him/her that u LOVE him while u actually dont , rite ??

lemonek

10-28-2008, 03:29 PM

its like U said i DO live in a place were if the subject is known u must get married , but if it is NOT going to be known there is still ppl who would do it ..............................and becouse sex is another way to xpress each others affiction ppl must not use it the way they r now if u did some1 dont even know or u know ur not going to be with , then ur telling him/her that u LOVE him while u actually dont , rite ??

well actually thats known as a casual sex. and i meant it in the way that when u love that person and both of u are ready, why not. ur not going to fall in love many times in the same month are you? that would be disguising ur actual whorehood

aezgaga

10-28-2008, 03:31 PM

i wouldnt know if it is ok or not but wen they r together and then they had sex they may OR may not got married , rite ??
besides if they r doin each other then ther is NO NEAD for them to get married ........ AND if they really love each other and they know theyll be together then iguss thats ok ....oh , an why did u post FIRST if u didnt like the thread ??

I didn't say that I didn't like it ? XD I say it in the humoristic way lool^^ Well and ... these day be married is not that important ... well there is no more link with sexuality... I don't knew anyone who wait for get married (excep for a religious friend lol) people get maried to start a family ... or get married after start it so... these day it's more a question of love (or need) that wedding... (that's my opinion still :P)

suune

10-28-2008, 03:38 PM

I don't plan doing it for a long time, yet.

Holly-Sama

10-28-2008, 04:52 PM

I'm nineteen and still a virgin. I'm in no hurry to lose my virginity.

I don't like the idea of teenagers having sex. Just because you've hit puberty doesn't mean that you should go out and have sex. The body (or mind frame) of a fourteen-year-old isn't quite ready for something like that. I think it's serious business. However, if you think you're ready, then go for it. Everyone's different.

I'm a firm believer in waiting until you have found someone that you could spend the rest of your life with. I don't see the point of having sex with different people all the time.

Dolly

10-29-2008, 01:15 AM

Yes, I'm still a virgin.

stanmarsh

10-29-2008, 01:22 AM

Yep I'm still a virgin i'm twelve but so I guess I have alot of time, dont nessasarly plan on sex anytime soon, I look down upon people who've had sex at my age....Dolly in the past three threads I've been in i've been posting under you. Odd

sousuke

10-29-2008, 01:24 AM

having sex is a way to show emotion but there are some skanks that will leave you after that, an i hate it when the boys most of the time get blamed for rushing, neither the boy or girl rushes it is more of the "moment"

suigintou

10-29-2008, 01:40 AM

I'm still a virgin, yeah. However, I really do not want to wait until marriage, because I want to have that closeness to my future lover before giving the okay for the "legally binding" commitment.

That doesn't mean that I need to know I'm going to be with someone for the rest of my life to have sex with them, though. Hell, if I had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) and I was comfortable enough with him/her, I'd have no problem losing my virginity right now. Why not? Might be fun. Well, not the first time, but whatever.

As for the idea of a "friend with benefits," as in someone who you're not really romantic with but you have sex with regularly anyway, that might be kind of cool I guess if he/she was extremely careful to keep that a secret between us.

Oh, and I'm 19 by the way.

alexei

10-29-2008, 05:18 AM

last year n my country th rate of married ppl was so high and most of thm were highschool girls who decided 2 leave studying and get married...and thts really weird coz th guys was actually th one's who told thm 2 leave school and stay home 2 take of him and th children f there will ever b...i guess tht guys jst want 2 prove tht thy r better thn women and women actually can't do better thn thm t least tht wat i guys n my country thnk....:P
and bout wanting 2 hv sex n early age well thnx 4 th movies ....one time my little sis (10yrs old) asked me wat does it feel 2 b kissed coz she saw it n one of th movies....i didnt know wat 2 answer, how would i f even i didn't try it n my life?....
im still a virgin...dont thnk tht ill lose any time soon...^_^

xXWENWENXx

10-29-2008, 05:39 AM

me say no no to sex
after all im onli 13

Dolly

10-29-2008, 11:17 AM

Dolly in the past three threads I've been in i've been posting under you. Odd

Hmm, post faster!

and @ Sousuke, I'll have to disagree with you. A lot of it "is" the boy's fault, even if the movement is often mutual. It's common knowledge that a majority of the time, the guy is going to be stressing the girl (esp. in a relationship), for a virgin guy means something completely different from a virgin girl in the respect to popular culture.

monster111

10-29-2008, 11:40 AM

No, I have not yet lost mine. Nor do I intend to anytime soon.

i think i will keep mine a little longer

aya143

10-29-2008, 02:01 PM

dude eew.....thats gross..........makes me think that i dont wanna get married anymore.......><

meraychan

10-29-2008, 02:11 PM

i'm a certified virgin and only plans to give it to d right guy or to d person i'll marry...for me sex is sacred so it's a no no for me n besides i'm too young 4 dat...^_^

RACHER

10-29-2008, 02:17 PM

wehehehehehewenks

strike7785

10-29-2008, 02:55 PM

wi_sam

10-29-2008, 03:41 PM

dude eew.....thats gross..........makes me think that i dont wanna get married anymore.......><

how is that mz/mr AYA ?

sousuke

10-29-2008, 08:21 PM

Hmm, post faster!

and @ Sousuke, I'll have to disagree with you. A lot of it "is" the boy's fault, even if the movement is often mutual. It's common knowledge that a majority of the time, the guy is going to be stressing the girl (esp. in a relationship), for a virgin guy means something completely different from a virgin girl in the respect to popular culture.

i know that it is true that guys sometimes pressure, at this school every guy gets blamed for "pressuring" a girl into it, i can understand that but there are some people that don't even talk about it at all until it actually happens. I am just saying that people seem to just focus on that the guy pressured the girl and sometimes the girl agrees with the person who said he pressured her, i mean it is hurtful to be known as someone that pressures =/

Narutorox

10-29-2008, 08:45 PM

nope i am not

animex09

10-29-2008, 08:54 PM

i am still a virgin. i say the farther you are from loosing your virgenity, the farther you are from getting STD's.

Vakarak

10-29-2008, 08:56 PM

does rape count?

animex09

10-29-2008, 09:10 PM

does rape count?

it does..........u got raped?

Vakarak

10-29-2008, 09:29 PM

nope im just screwing round. i still have my virginity and i personally believe that i cannot fall in love at my age. but i wouldn't mind having "crazy beat the sh!t out of you" sex.

jyuukai

10-29-2008, 10:58 PM

suigintou

10-29-2008, 11:16 PM

I think falling in love before you're about 20-25 is a crock of shit. No offense to ppl who are in relationships and love their significant other but like I tell everyone "YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!" and you won't unless you get a bit older. But 'loving' someone and being 'IN LOVE' with someone are two totally different things

Considering that there's no solid definition of love for all people and that everyone's "love" is different, it's pretty much impossible to say whether there's an age requirement or not.

Sahaqiel

10-30-2008, 12:32 AM

Honestly, I would rather make love than have sex, so to speak.
I have not lost my virginity, being a healthy sixteen-year-old who wants to stay that way.

And why should it matter that you're married? I mean, if you truly love each other, why would you have children during marriage to seal yourselves together purely on financial status? I mean, has anyone forgot about the kid?

Let me explain.

Some people want to marry for the wrong reasons.
For instance, when you're married, if there is a divorce and there is a child involved, then half the money is taken from the one with the best financial status, I think.
Why get married just to have something to force you together like that? I mean, if you truly want a child, then shouldn't you be able to stay together without having to have something threaten you if you separate?
Now that would be truly impressive.

I don't see the whole point in marrying each other to have sex/make love anyways.
Marriage, in my opinion, is a vow you take with the one whom you mutually exist with, to be together for the rest of your life, and even past it, in a sense.
You can take this vow without having to marry each other.

xXWENWENXx

10-30-2008, 06:17 AM

there's no point going in a relationship before 20. most of the couples just break up and causes more pain but the liking of someone is uncontorlable. is not like u r going to marry them at that age...who noes wat might happend after the years

aezgaga

10-30-2008, 12:39 PM

Well it's not impossible :P my parent's friend have like 37 and they are togheter from the age of 16 ^^ :P and they still in love ^^

jamjfly

10-30-2008, 01:05 PM

i know that im not fuckin any1 who im not goona spend the rest of my life with , love and HAVE CHILDREN from .....

I agree. I myself am a virgin and plan to keep it that way until I get married.

aezgaga

10-30-2008, 02:45 PM

I don't even know if I want to be maried.... Because if it fail I lost Half of Everything that I possess and If I have a child I'll need to give to her a big part of my pay ¬¬ so... and need to pay for devorce like layer and all this shit so.... wedding is maybe not for me ^^'

analogZero

10-31-2008, 03:43 AM

well, not a virging, threw it out the window at...um? 16 or 17? 16 I think. I gave it up to a great gal, and don't regret it. Now I wouldn't condone it to any youngsters, that their virginity, and sex is something to take lightly and jump right into. It is a serious endeavour, and if you're too immature to handle it then you're likely to become one of the many statistics related to sex.
The whole waiting til marriage thing doesn't much fly with me though, so don't get me wrong. nowadays, marriage is only sensible for tax purposes and to help a friend gain their citizenship. Otherwise I don't see much more than two people trying to starve one another's insecurities together.

AyumiBee

10-31-2008, 06:49 AM

All of you who are under the age of 20 shouldn't be falling in love anyway. You are still to young.. maybe at the age of 18 but everything below.... you need to enjoy life, have fun, study so you can what you want in life...

Haha Strike I have fallen in love at age 14! And i did enjoy the life. But I thought that I don't want to loose my virginity until I turn 16 and my bf didn't rush anything ^^ He waited for me. So yeah I lost it age 16 but I think if you're mentally prepared and you think the relationship is serious why not? But in my opinion you don't need to rush things just because you want to do it.

And for those who think we can't have serious relationship under the age 20 well THERE ARE ALWAYS EXCEPTIONS! Sorry to say that but 4 and a half years old relationship and I will marry him in the future (we agreed on this). And about marriage ... well if you don't get married but have a child maybe in school he will be bullied because it's strange that the parents aren't or was married it's kinda outstanding. But yeah it doesn't matter if you are married or not it's up to you if you want that peice of paper or not.

momji_2

10-31-2008, 10:16 AM

listerlee

10-31-2008, 10:22 AM

i'm still virgin..^^

wi_sam

11-01-2008, 02:58 PM

lol wow.....XD

ahaha im still virgin of course because im only 13....

o yeah ive got friends who already have
girlfriends

engaged

and preparing to be married

his gonna marry nxt yr ahahha yeah!!gratz to them

(and also their all below 18 and higher then 10)
(im serious no joke)

:scaried: shit ......i give them 2 or 3 years till they KILL each other or GET A DIVORCE .....if they didnt then they r a meracle .....lol

leerock89

11-01-2008, 03:14 PM

You know I didn't click on this cause it said it was for 20 and under. I see why now. What a ridiculous question. I wonder how many of the answers were honest.

wi_sam

11-01-2008, 03:23 PM

You know I didn't click on this cause it said it was for 20 and under. I see why now. What a ridiculous question. I wonder how many of the answers were honest.

can u in anyway tell me way is that ??

leerock89

11-01-2008, 03:27 PM

Uh don't worry about me. Just passing by and commenting. See ya!

wi_sam

11-01-2008, 03:32 PM

Uh don't worry about me. Just passing by and commenting. See ya!

will , thanxs for ur comment leerock .

angiela

11-02-2008, 12:41 AM

i'm only 13 so i dont want to be losing my virginity any time soon
not that i want to, so my advice is enjoy life and always know wat ur doing...

ichigogirl

11-02-2008, 12:56 AM

Are you still a virgin or did u .......... ???

i just wanna know how many ppl r still virgins and how many have lost it befor gettin to 20 .
cuz now adays alot of kids especially young girls r being victims to their ppl's ignorance .......some of them r gettin married soo young like 15,14 and even 13 years old AND they let them have bbs
and there is those ppl who just do ITor FUN they may have sex with some1 they dont even know OMG i just cant imagine wat r they thinkin ???......................................yes , i know that humans have sexual neads but thats not the way to do it .....i know that im not fuckin any1 who im not goona spend the rest of my life with , love and HAVE CHILDREN from .....
........oh , and this has nothing to do with religion or anything like that .

I agree with you all the way... Im 20 and still a virgin I for the life of me can't figure out why these kids at are freaking 15 and under are walking around and fucking like they no what they are doing...

sousuke

11-02-2008, 01:18 AM

I agree with you all the way... Im 20 and still a virgin I for the life of me can't figure out why these kids at are freaking 15 and under are walking around and fucking like they no what they are doing...

there some that just go around and do it like crazy but there are some that do it cause there in a sserious relationship

partyprobe

11-02-2008, 01:55 AM

yet it is hard to beleive i am yet still a virgin.

analogZero

11-02-2008, 01:13 AM

Also, from the perspective of someone out of the virginity range, And perhaps because it's long gone, but sex has way more mystery, amazement, implication and backward meaning around it when you're younger. It's something that a virgin doesn't understand, but figure they know the world around on the topic when they find out somebody's had sex. It's viewed much the same way as drugs are, to be quite honest. When you're younger, and a virgin, sex will seems like a distant shore, an island within eye's reach. You suspect there's something grand and beyond your thought there, and likely there is. The fool will rush the waves and swim with all their might, the smart will wait out the tide and sail when the water's calm, and perhaps the wise are content with where they are and know that what's on the distant shore will come to them. Sex will change in meaning, and you'll find purpose in it's pleasure, but it's a matter of whether your a kid buying 40oz's to get slammed at a party with your friends, or the connoisseur who'll savour every sip of a fine wine for it's true worth.

atomsk

11-02-2008, 01:13 AM

bein 14 you probobly all gonna die b4 me

ichigogirl

11-02-2008, 06:29 AM

yet it is hard to beleive i am yet still a virgin.

WOW party that is a surprise a big surprise, good for you.

AyumiBee

11-02-2008, 07:02 AM

there some that just go around and do it like crazy but there are some that do it cause there in a sserious relationship

Very true. Just because someone is younger than 20 why can't she/he have sex and a serious relationship?

wi_sam

11-02-2008, 07:07 AM

Very true. Just because someone is younger than 20 why can't she/he have sex and a serious relationship?

evry1 can do whaterver he or she wawnts i didnt say ppl shouldnt have sex or get envolved just becouse they r below 20 ...........

Daina_Sama

11-02-2008, 08:07 AM

I am a virgin

LOl

This question is random
:dancing::dancing:

aezgaga

11-02-2008, 02:22 PM

I am a virgin

LOl

This question is random
:dancing::dancing:

... nobody force you to answer ....

wi_sam

11-02-2008, 04:29 PM

... nobody force you to answer ....

i agree with that

BlueSano

11-02-2008, 07:27 PM

nothing is wrong with relation shipss under 20....but i thin every one who is over 20 knows that your personality changes drastically through the teen age years ... but i do agree with ichigo and every one who said that they are not having sex untill they are ready or married..i for one consider sex to be sacred ...and i'm not going to loose my virginity till i get married... as for what you commented analogZero... yes some of us might not know the pleasure but i thin you agree when i say that being that young and experiencing it for the first time ..may take a little off that pleasure... cuz you know very well that at that age ..most ppl are confused and doing it for the wrong reasons ... as oppose to being the proper age ..with your full grown state.

frokid17

11-02-2008, 07:46 PM

wow like its 80% to 20%

and its not really a mystery to some people but a need. it becomes a drug and once you go to college it doesn't stop if you are single. it comes up everyday. drinking leads to it. drugs do as well. so far in my college experience, literally 70% of the school are active and filming and junk. what you learn from your parents, from school, from anywhere loses its power and you have to rely on ur own self will. i say be strong everyone!!

couples are the only ones that have it under control and just ya......

Ino

11-02-2008, 10:04 PM

I'm a virgin. Never had sex and never will.

a2ng0d

11-02-2008, 11:35 PM

I'm still a virgin. I'm not trying to lose it, but I'm not trying to save it either. There is a 50% chance I'm losing it by the end of the year. Just a heads up.

Whats the big deal about it anyways? Purity? Psh. So theoretically, all your mothers and fathers are 'impure'. HA. If sex was such a dirty bad thing, then people wouldnt do it at all.

suigintou

11-03-2008, 04:15 AM

I'm a virgin. Never had sex and never will.

Haha, what? You're asexual (not the "asexually reproducing" kind. The I'm-never-having-sex kind)?

"Good luck" is all I have to say.

cappedkey

11-03-2008, 04:54 AM

Well, I have had uhhh, some fun times. But lets not go into detail. Believe at your own risk!
Lol

aezgaga

11-03-2008, 04:58 AM

Well .... It's great ^^' and um... If love is here I think that is okay..... sex without love shouldn't exist ¬¬

carolyn07

11-04-2008, 09:00 AM

...too bad im a virgin still!,.even my lips,.i havent kissed!,.hai!,.♥

pager

11-05-2008, 07:57 AM

im a guy my first was 2 months befor i turned 20 and i really wish i wouldnt have but o well i cant go back in time.

Inulove17

11-05-2008, 02:43 PM

19 almost 20 and still a virgin, I don't intend on rushing anyways. I understand if you love someone enough and know that they are really the one then perhaps it would be interesting. Don't get me wrong I'm curious.. but I;'m not about to rush into something that could be fun but also problematic. I think getting pregnant would be my worst fear. And theres not limit.. and I don't think their should be.. but kids these days need to be smarter.. know when it's right.. not rush into things for the fun of it. I thinkit's almost like doing drugs.. some people do it because they think it's cool and want to fit in. I highly doubt doing drugs or having sex makes you look cooler.

*sighs* but i'm not trying to offend anyone here.. and I appologize if I did.. but no one is rushing you to do something.. and if they are then they can't possibly love you as much as they admit to it. If someone gets together with you just to get you in bed.. it's not sincere. But yeah.. I'm not saying anyone should wait until you are married to have sex.. but still, people need to be smart and think before they act.

aezgaga

11-05-2008, 05:13 PM

Personnaly I would probably never get maried.... even if i'm with a girl all my life ... I dont want to be maried ^^' It's too much trouble if it break ...... this is mean i would stay virgin all my life ???

LoKiWorlD

11-05-2008, 08:47 PM

Tried to avoid this thread, but i got bored. No, I am not a virgin and losing it before marriage doesn't bother me at all. The only way i can justify it, is by saying "She Seduced Me!!!"

Vakarak

11-05-2008, 09:58 PM

nope im just screwing round. i still have my virginity and i personally believe that i cannot fall in love at my age. but i wouldn't mind having "crazy beat the sh!t out of you" sex.

okay screw that im not a virgin anymore... btw does oral count?

suigintou

11-05-2008, 10:09 PM

okay screw that im not a virgin anymore... btw does oral count?

Just depends on your own personal definition of virginity, really. The old, technical definition is the lack of penetration. So by that definition, no, oral wouldn't count.

That old definition is the one I still use, but if I were to count oral and stuff as virginity-breaking sex activities, then I wouldn't be a virgin.

analogZero

11-05-2008, 10:17 PM

also depends if your the giver or the receiver of said oral, i'd say. or if the word knuckle is used to describe the encounter.

but ya, vague area.

gray18

11-07-2008, 10:45 AM

I'm still a virgin. not really saving it for my wedding night or anything just haven't found the right girl.

animegurl7

11-28-2008, 05:29 PM

Well i don't think that if you are in love you should have sex , especially at my age . Personally i don't think i'm ready , so i plan on keeping my virginity until a more suitable age .

i agree. teens girls these days are in such a rush to have sex because they're in "love". i plan on keeping my virginity until i know i'm ready to have a baby.

Guardgirl

11-28-2008, 09:29 PM

i am a virgin to guys........ so i count myself as a virgin

I'm a Bitch

01-19-2009, 08:30 PM

well... i for one am a virgin and i love it. when i do get married it will be the best experience of my life! ^//^

phi-life

01-19-2009, 08:48 PM

hahahaha ohhh deer. >.> <.< looks like im one of the few non virgins here. XD

jamjfly

01-19-2009, 09:05 PM

wi_sam

01-19-2009, 09:30 PM

Sex itself is not a bad, dirty thing, its the misuse of sex that is a bad thing.

i could'nt agree more .

cutieB

01-19-2009, 09:30 PM

well... i for one am a virgin and i love it. when i do get married it will be the best experience of my life! ^//^

i'm with trisha on this one i'm waiting.

acelomado

01-19-2009, 10:14 PM

huahuahuahu, all of you wait for the enchanted prince or princess and used to use your hands or fingers to have orgasm.... HA HA HA HA...
http://www.animefuel.com/forum/picture.php?albumid=1256&pictureid=14677

atomsk

01-19-2009, 10:36 PM

lol look at the count48-13 to the virgins and that dont count the liars
virgin sadly

C0nspiracy

01-19-2009, 11:44 PM

Sex is a privilege, not a right, dude.

Kira_

01-20-2009, 07:57 AM

suune

01-20-2009, 11:57 AM

Nope. I don't plan on any time soon.

Abarai

01-20-2009, 12:17 PM

i lost my virginity 3 months ago..i did it with someone i know and i am in a relationship with for two years..it was great!don't rush into having sex!wait for it..wait for the perfect opportunity..if you want to just have "sex" do it..it isn't proving something!but if you wait someone great and someone you are deeply in love with will come up..and then you won't want to lose this chance!that's my opinion :)

AyumiBee

01-20-2009, 12:26 PM

Well i have a strong opinion on this subject.

Now, if a young person is dating someone, and they decide to go that limit, then great for them. If thats what they so choose, then let them be.
BUT
If a young person bases ALL their relationships off of sex, they arent going to head anywhere happy in life, im sure, plus i have proof, i see lives who are so effed up now its not even funny.
A 12 year old girl here is pregnant, and not because she took the chance and made the decision, because she slept with 3 men all in one weekend.
Now that, is just wrong.
A 12 year old shouldnt even be THINKING about losing her virginity at all.
Thats a year older than my 5th grade sister, its just...not right..

I dont like the overuse of sex. I dont like people who base their relationships around their sex life. People who have sex with their partner every night, or something like that, i mean seriously is that all there is to a relationship? its almost like a pattern, i dont want to be involved in that trust me.
Also, moms who try to act 16 again, are giving a bad image to their daughters, for their self esteem and much more. Trust me.

Im a virgin, and i dont plan on losing it soon either.

I agree. I was 14 when I met my current bf and I told him we won't have sex until I become 16. And he waited. a 12 years old girl or boy is far away from understanding the sex meaning (I mean even lost of adults just do it for reason having sex and not for becoming one with your loved one and sharing pleasure). So I'm happy my relationship is not about just sex. I was complaning to my friend that I haven't got time with my bf to have sex cuz his mother or sister is at home. She said what's big deal, go to the bathroom and do it there. :o.o: Ehhh Where are the emotions?! Quick run? Noooo way, I won't do it. Less but more memorable ones in my opinion.
So I agree whole heartedly with this.I dont like the overuse of sex. I dont like people who base their relationships around their sex life. People who have sex with their partner every night, or something like that, i mean seriously is that all there is to a relationship?

tenten24

01-20-2009, 01:39 PM

I agree. I was 14 when I met my current bf and I told him we won't have sex until I become 16. And he waited. a 12 years old girl or boy is far away from understanding the sex meaning (I mean even lost of adults just do it for reason having sex and not for becoming one with your loved one and sharing pleasure). So I'm happy my relationship is not about just sex. I was complaning to my friend that I haven't got time with my bf to have sex cuz his mother or sister is at home. She said what's big deal, go to the bathroom and do it there. :o.o: Ehhh Where are the emotions?! Quick run? Noooo way, I won't do it. Less but more memorable ones in my opinion.
So I agree whole heartedly with this.

i agree... as for me.. well i plan on having sex wit my boyfriend when im ready. and when im a month on birthcontrol.. its been 4 months into the relationship.. but i plan on waiting a little longer to see wht i have going for me in the future.....so yea...

Zaraki

01-23-2009, 12:45 AM

still a virgin proud of it.

shadow16

01-26-2009, 07:49 AM

well i guess i have to join the non-virgins here sigh yes i'm not virgin

Ishlitor

01-27-2009, 03:59 PM

I'm a virgin myself and I'm not quite sure if I'm proud of that fact or not. Its not that I've had the restraint not to, its just that I've never really had the option to do anything of that sort. So yea tis my own little dilemma on whether or not to be proud or just like, pitiful, of myself.

SmokedBoo

01-27-2009, 04:02 PM

With the way I talk, people would think I got laid a lot. LOL! i don't think sex should be the basis of a relationship. If the couple thinks they are ready for it then by all means do it. If there are any consequences that might come up though, then think through it thoroughly. You don't want something to happen that you think will potentially "ruin your life". But of course, I think couples should at least be 17 before even considering having sex. Below is too young in my opinion.

puppetz

01-27-2009, 04:07 PM

well i lost my virginity at 16. i have a healthy sexual relationship with my girlfriend and i think theres nothing wrong with that. ive been with the same girl for about a year now and shes the one i lost my virginity to. i have more options but choose to ignore them. cheating is bad mmkay.

Wonnetz

01-27-2009, 04:13 PM

eww u all r nasty well im a virgin of course im only 11

cutieB

02-02-2009, 12:04 AM

Yep still a virgin and proud of it. I'm waiting for the right man (my husband) to come along before i have sex.

Neoliger

02-02-2009, 12:13 AM

Still a virgin, I do agree though that you should wait till married or at least a certain age. We had a 6th grader five months preg it was an omg moment.

black cat

02-02-2009, 12:16 AM

Yep still a virgin and proud of it. I'm waiting for the right man (my husband) to come along before i have sex.

"Go Girl" I hv 2 agree with u
and I'm still virgin coz i'm only 13.hehe

Solo Wing

02-02-2009, 09:03 PM

Virgin. Only problem I get is people getting too "declassified" when talking about it.

a2ng0d

02-02-2009, 09:18 PM

i wonder what happens if you voted on the poll as 'virgin' but then later on (for example recently) lose said virginity......hmmm.

I'm a Bitch

02-02-2009, 10:13 PM

good question. it'll be a few years for me to wonder about it though. :cute:

Bee_Chan

02-03-2009, 02:40 AM

I'm surprised with how many people said they're still virgins. It seems like the thing to do now is lose your virginity. I lost mine horribly last year and if it weren't for that, I would still have it. I'm disappointed with young kids these days.

SkY93

02-03-2009, 03:42 AM

kinda in between in a way but i consider myself a virgin

AyumiBee

02-03-2009, 02:56 PM

The only thing what surprises me is not that we have lots of virgins but the fact that people seems to think sex is something dirty and "shame on you" you aren't a virgin already. Is it just me who see this? Paranoia?
If you do it just to loose your virginity or you want to be cool then it's your choice but that way, well it's stupidity and yes maybe you will feel dirty.
Sex isn't just two body and meat but emotions. Sharing and giving.

Kc.

02-03-2009, 03:16 PM

I am still a V, haven't had any great desire to hook up with any girl, and I doubt I could. Besides that, even if I did, I also doubt that I would be tempted to seduce her, or BE seduced by her. Well... maybe I was lying about the second part, but... go virgins.. woot. :dance:

SmokedBoo

02-03-2009, 03:19 PM

Sex isn't just two body and meat but emotions. Sharing and giving.

I've known it to be something similar to that. To most, sex is clothes thrown in random directions, some kissing, a hole is filled, the end. >.>

And I think sex should be because you want to show how much you love that person. But I'm not gonna do it just because I love them. They have to return the feelings.

tenten24

02-03-2009, 03:26 PM

well for me.... im still a virgin but idc....
its kinda good to have ur virginity becuze then u kno tht ur still pure and u r waiting for the rite person to come along.... but im not saying tht u have to wait to give it to someone u kno and trust and love... but for me thts kinda my opinion... but at the same time... im going to be a month and a half on birthcontrol before i even have sex.... cuz id rather be safe than get pregnant at the age of 16.... so idc..... im already with the one i love.... and i plan on waiting till im ready and hopefully he understands... and if he loves me back then he will wait...and if not... then i guess im just wasting my time...

Axe Man

02-03-2009, 05:16 PM

hmmmmm well I'm 16 still a virgin

Ryuuzaki

02-03-2009, 05:19 PM

I believe that when I first posted on here I hadn't had sex yet... Well, then update time! Not a virgin and I be 15. =o

Mugen

02-03-2009, 08:33 PM

analog and I have been having rough and dirty van sex every other monday. but way-to-go ryuu. cherry popped!!! woooo

Utauh

02-03-2009, 08:51 PM

i would agree that those age are too young but is this even an true story

Kc.

02-03-2009, 09:07 PM

wow this thread is already on page twelve...

light91

02-03-2009, 09:26 PM

WOW what a Q but ya the thing is with the virgen or not it up to the person if it is right or not some people think differently so to them it maybe what you think is wrong to them but what ever ether way good luck with what ever your trying to find out :p

cindy

02-03-2009, 10:54 PM

this question is very personal to ask ppl -_____-

i agree ... what are teens thinking about having sex at such a young age >< its nasty ...

truth for me: sex should not happen until ur married ^^ ... those that didn't graduate from college or are less than 25-year-old should not have sex ... no arguement ... its just my opinion ...

AyumiBee

02-04-2009, 02:38 PM

For gods sake Iin the Middle ages girls already had 1 child at age 16 and it wasn't anything dirty this is how life. You can't say you can have only sex after collage after you became 25 years old why why? Give me a reason an accapteable one pls.

I don't want to hurt you. I lost my virginity at age 16 i'm still with that bf and i'm happy and i'm not dirty not shamless.

P.S.: I'M in bad mood right now don't take it to heart -____-

tenten24

02-04-2009, 02:57 PM

well rite now... i think im going to have to agree wit ayumibee....
whts wrong wit tht.. i mean.... it happens at a young age like this..and sometimes... maybe its meant to happen at tht age....
lol.. oh and by the way.... i dont think my brother is ever going to have sex... cuz he doesnt even kno how to put on a condom.. and i had to have one of my guy friends show him... and it still didnt work....lol...he opened up the condom and unraveled it and then tried to put it on..... no no no no.... thts not how u do it....god.. im kinda ashamed of him rite now...wow.. to think tht my 14 year old brother wants to have sex and he cant even put on a condom rite..*sighs*... someone shoot me plz...????

AyumiBee

02-04-2009, 07:15 PM

Eh tenten that's not a big deal actually we (my bf and me) had some problems with condome so I use antibaby it's more easier and safer.

wi_sam

02-10-2009, 08:56 PM

Sex isn't just two body and meat but emotions. Sharing and giving.

Sooo if you dont have a "bf" or "gf' then you would go share with a hooker, someone you don't even know ITS name ?
Or perhaps with a school mate or the guy next door,eh ??

this question is very personal to ask ppl -_____-
Don't answer .

i agree ... what are teens thinking about having sex at such a young age >< its nasty ...

truth for me: sex should not happen until ur married ^^ ... those that didn't graduate from college or are less than 25-year-old should not have sex ... no arguement ... its just my opinion ...

Thats exactly what i'm trying to say .

AyumiBee

02-11-2009, 07:18 PM

Sooo if you dont have a "bf" or "gf' then you would go share with a hooker, someone you don't even know ITS name ?
Or perhaps with a school mate or the guy next door,eh ??

Ehem... I said sharing emotions! If you haven't got a feeling for him/her and you don't want a one night relationship then forget it!
For me love can't be separated from sex. You misunderstood my words :/
-___- it's stupid to have sex just the sake of for having sex. Though there are ppl who don't care about it. But it's not my right to judge them.

And again why can't you have sex before university or before 25?
Give me explanation!

wi_sam

02-11-2009, 07:43 PM

And again why can't you have sex before university or before 25?
Give me explanation!

I didn't say you can't, you actually can have sex when you hit 3 years old.But would that be morally and psycologically right ??

AyumiBee

02-11-2009, 07:56 PM

I didn't say you can't, you actually can have sex when you hit 3 years old.But would that be morally and psycologically right ??

You know I didn't meant 3 years old children. And you know it too. I'm not a perv. Of course you need to be least 14 or 15 (though many people are not mentally prepared for it at that age) but there are always exceptions. Okey I will ask this somebody said it's nasty. Is a person bad because she/he hadn't married before sex. Is he/she had sex at age 16 she is nasty? In traditional gypsy families at age 18 the girls have 1 child, least... Though having a baby is an other topic. That's what I think you shouldn't have at a young age.

Errh all in all I still haven't got an anserw. Is it morally and physiologically not right to have sex between 15-25?

wi_sam

02-11-2009, 08:18 PM

Okey I will ask this somebody said it's nasty. Is a person bad because she/he hadn't married before sex. Is he/she had sex at age 16 she is nasty?
No they are just acting like animals, feels like having sex then go and have it with the first possable person.(cuz i personally do not think that a human being would actually spends all his life with someone whom he met when he was 15 or 16)

In traditional gypsy families at age 18 the girls have 1 child, least... Though having a baby is an other topic. That's what I think you shouldn't have at a young age.

Well,some countries have their females married at a very young age starting at 13 ....
Errh all in all I still haven't got an anserw. Is it morally and physiologically not right to have sex between 15-25?
I (personally) think that morally its wrong to have sex with someone you KNOW that you're not going to be with for the rest of your life,mentaly and PSYCHOLOGICALLY its up to the person, I am ready, but i deside not to do it .

Ashiya

02-12-2009, 12:13 AM

Interesting thread.
In my opinion, I think one should wait until they get married.

Basil

02-12-2009, 01:37 AM

well, really, it depends on the person's frame of mind.
if they think they're ready to have sex, and if they're in love, then by all means, go for it.

if you lose your virginity just to lose it, and to have fun, then i have the feeling you're going to regret your actions later - be it the next day, month, year, or ten years from now. one day you'll regret that decision.

as for myself, i'm a virgin. :3
actually, i really haven't even kissed a boy. >>
the one boy who kissed me kind of sort of... stole my first kiss.
yeah.
^^;;

anywayy.
that's what i think, i guess.

Vakarak

02-12-2009, 01:40 AM

as for myself, i'm a virgin. :3
actually, i really haven't even kissed a boy. >>

::D: Gents this one is mine. Go find your own xP.

Basil

02-12-2009, 01:49 AM

::D: Gents this one is mine. Go find your own xP.

.///.
ohmai.

but wait.
aren't you jailbait material?

AyumiBee

02-12-2009, 04:38 PM

No they are just acting like animals, feels like having sex then go and have it with the first possable person.(cuz i personally do not think that a human being would actually spends all his life with someone whom he met when he was 15 or 16)

I (personally) think that morally its wrong to have sex with someone you KNOW that you're not going to be with for the rest of your life,mentaly and PSYCHOLOGICALLY its up to the person, I am ready, but i deside not to do it .

Okay so I'm an animal... I had met my bf during primary school he is 3 years older than me. We became a coupla when I was 14 I told him to wait until I reach 16 cuz I felt that I must wait. He waited 1 and a half year (!) for me. We had sex. I'm still with him after 4 and a half year and I will be in the future too. Or there's my friend she thought this boy is the big love. After 3 years the boy started to change and now she wants to leave him. She was wrong when she had sex? And those families where the parents got divorice after 10-14 years? They were wrong too?

aezgaga

03-05-2009, 03:52 PM

Nothing last forever.... you must know that. So It's better to live and have fun with the person you love when you are with her/him. It would be stupid to not doing anything with the one you love just because you Know that it will not last... With a mentallity like that... relationship would suck lol Just love who you love , give her all your heart and body , then hope really hard that it will last as longest as possible. If you forbid yourself of having fun you could regret it... Sure I am against the ''one night'' you must wait to see if the relationship is serious. But anyway life is boring enough already don't put yourself restriction ^^ That's my point :P