Oh ma, what am I doing

[1,000,000]

That girl I talked about in my other thread wants to hang out again, as well as I.
Problem is, she's my bestfriends ex. Am I falling into a mind game? Do you think it's possible for me and her to just be friends without him getting mad.

I'm getting a little worried. usually I have more sense. But she's really cool

[Gogo]

I would go hang out with her, even if she's the ex of your bestfriend. If he's your bestfriend he can understand you have other friends, couple of which might be ex's. I'm friends with a lot of my good buddies ex's and they don't care at all. But if he has a problem with it then that's his problem trying to control who you see as a friend.

Just my 2 cents though.

[1,000,000]

Well things didn't go well, and now i'm in an odd position.
Consumed by my looping thoughts.
I'm in Hell. I want to see her again, but I don't want to lose a decent friendship.
I hate feeling like i'm being disloyal

[sasnin14]

Well things didn't go well, and now i'm in an odd position.
Consumed by my looping thoughts.
I'm in Hell. I want to see her again, but I don't want to lose a decent friendship.
I hate feeling like i'm being disloyal

aww! well, even though i'm kinda of the same position and what i'm going to tell u didn't work with me, it might work for u. Is there like a way u and him and her can all talk? maybe he will understand what ur going through and he'll calm the f*** down..

[Anita W]

hmm i say.. just be "normal" =]

-Anita-

[Kairos]

I say, be yourself and have your friends and if your "bestfriend" doesn't like you being friends with his ex then it's his problem. And don't let yourself be pushed around by people who call themselves your friends. Because they aren't.

[Lelouch]

Seriously man if your friend tells you "don't go out with her/don't hang out/have fun or w/e with her cuz she's my ex well ask yourself if is he really your friend. I wouldn't ask my friend to stop seeing my ex just cuz I hate her.
BUT
I personaly think it's wrong from your part(I mean I persoanly wouldn't go out with my bestfriend or w/e's ex I just think it's wrong).In the end you'll probably lose one of the 2; depends on which one is stronger as a relationship.
Either way you look at it it's wrong and write at the same time, just throw yourself in and see what happens.

[1,000,000]

Well, see there are lot of things I left out concerning their recent relationship, which doesn't make me feel so bad. I'm in the friend zone right now anyways lmao, a degrading place to be

[xDebug]

Friends zone is like a "Room for improvement" on your school report ; )

[Murdak]

All I can say is its deffinetly easier to ask for forgiveness than permission so do what you want and work out the complications and problems later.

Good Luck :):D:)

[nejih94]

well,if your just looking to be friends,then it should be fine and if he jumps to the wrong conclusion then explain and if hes your best friend he SHOULD forgive you

[RuDe]

That girl I talked about in my other thread wants to hang out again, as well as I.
Problem is, she's my bestfriends ex. Am I falling into a mind game? Do you think it's possible for me and her to just be friends without him getting mad.

I'm getting a little worried. usually I have more sense. But she's really cool

Dude, you never EVER ever EVER mess with your friends ex's! It's just an unspoken rule.

Bro's before Ho's!

[nejih94]

but if there just trying to be friends(wich i agree is unlikly)then its fine

[RuDe]

but if there just trying to be friends(which i agree is unlikly)then its fine

which i agree is unlikly

nuff said.

In a situation like this you have to ask yourself...

Would I want him messing with my ex?!

[nejih94]

well if there over then it shoudnt matter any way im friends with all of my bestfriends girlfriends and he still is too

[1,000,000]

Honestly I wouldn't care who tried to get with my ex.

It doesn't even matter. This thread is pointless now. The decision has been made


Thanks for the input everyone

[Jack]

You heard the man.

Closed
-Jack