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spirit
08-15-2008, 01:41 PM
Plastic surgeries. Are we living in a day of the plastic surgeries being "in fashion" or a must? More and more people are going "under the knife" to meet someone's "expectations." It all started not so long ago with celebrities, actresses and super-models... however, we may observe a rapidly growing new "industry" - a new "need" among common people. Every year, more and younger women decide have a plastic surgery; men are being more concerned about their appearance. Media insanely promote "extreme body makeovers" leading the society to a belief that we are ugly, unattractive... and so on.. unhappy about ourselves. An "ideal" image "of beauty" being promoted is nothing but a lie of distorted proportions...
How many of us (you) feel the pressure?
Have any of you ever considered having a plastic surgery? If yes, what would you like to change and why?
How many of you believe that a plastic surgery might help someone?
Or that sometimes it's "the only solution"?

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AyumiBee
08-15-2008, 02:04 PM
It can help soemone, for example if someone had an accident it can be a great help. For example we have a singer(hungarian) who had an accident her face was injured seriously, she had a surgery and now her face is ok. I would never lie under a knife. And for those who can't accept their apperance, it can't be helped... If they think that this is the best and not doing sport or change things in their life... it's their choice, but there are cases when I laugh at them cuz they are insane, for example that women who has got as big lips as my 3middle fingers....

monsoon 10
08-15-2008, 03:16 PM
Personally I've never wanted a plastic surgery. The whole thing stems out of self-esteem problems, which further stems from unhappiness. Therefore, I would believe that while plastic surgery is an option, I would opt to nip the problem right in the bud.

spirit
08-15-2008, 03:57 PM
Personally I've never wanted a plastic surgery. The whole thing stems out of self-esteem problems, which further stems from unhappiness. Therefore, I would believe that while plastic surgery is an option, I would opt to nip the problem right in the bud.wow. Your reply is actually on the topic! amazing.. ; )
I do agree, that most of the times "the problem" exists only in someone's psyche... But for it we could blame media, sick influence on ppl as well as manipulations.

Rincewind
08-15-2008, 04:01 PM
I think that if you get , lets say your fase smashed etc, its great to be able to reconstruct the persons face , but if you operate wen you allready are beautiful, its just snobbish and egoistic , money wasting, and un nessesary... but if you have a bad self image and get depressed by your body , then I feel like its right to do it....

analogZero
08-15-2008, 04:12 PM
Well the added pressure of everyday media portraying the pinnacle of human appearance doesn't seem to help people's self esteem, and the reinforcement of realizing all the people of 'celebration' and 'idolization' are upkept to meet these standards as well doesn't really boost confidence levels. I can help by saying that about 97% of all models you'll meet are either annoying, stuck up, quite stupid, or a combination of the three. They most definitely balance out with the content of their character. unfortunately you can't take a sexy photo of your personality and spread in on a magazine cover.
ayumibee points out the good side though. reconstructive plastic surgery can be more than just a means to make you pretty again, but can also help you live the life you have as you always have. skin grafting, breast and testicular implants for cancer survivors, even dental reconstruction. A traumatic event doesn't have to be the end of the life you knew. My one friend had troubles with his nose because it'd been broken on numerous occasions and had a little work done on it to make it so he could breath properly again and not have to blow snot out of it every 2 seconds. Sure we ragged him for getting a nose job, but nobody would venture to say that it wasn't a sound choice. He can breath properly....
in conclusion, don't get carried away.
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kiki
08-15-2008, 04:23 PM
Well I have thought about going under the knife to get a breast reduction because everyday after I get off the computer my back crack and its sore and I just come from a family with...knockers lol. But I dont have any self esteem issues I think I'm fine the way I am I just would to prefer to go a day without having a backache. Now people get Botulinum Toxin or botox (which is a poison) injected into their face or get lipo instead of getting on a treadmill thats different.

Dolly
08-15-2008, 04:29 PM
Personally, I have never really thought about it and doubt I ever will in my life. As far as influences go, I think there's a limit as to how far someone will go to change themselves unless they need it.

After all, surgery isn't a simple process.

Like hinted at before, I think it'd really need a visible problem. Thus, I don't really worry about it and I doubt many do. The few who go over the line for small changes are likely people who have done it before. There lies little satisfaction in a change like that, normally, and people tend to do it again.

But, if I could think of something to change without any hassle, I'd wish that my nose was a bit smaller.

Kenshy
08-16-2008, 01:18 AM
Plastic surgery should only be made available to physically deformed people. Using it for vanity is a waste of resources and money.

Koopaking
08-16-2008, 01:28 AM
Plastic Surgery really is sort of stupid. It's great if you've had some sort of accident, and can help people who were disfigured, disabled, etc.

Plastic Surgery for purely cosmetic purposes... Well all I can say is that it LOOKS nice. Sure, that super duper boob job LOOKS nice and all, but it's heavy, impractical, can cause health problems by leaking, becoming irritated, crushing your lungs, and totally spoiling it when a person who feels up on them only to get a handful of Silicon sacks. On top of that, it cost you like $10,000. I mean c'mon, there are bras that can make a woman look several sizes bigger that are like below $50.

And as for the paranoid people that look totally normal but think they are hideous monsters... if you truly think you are so ugly, why spend so much on a surgery? A Paper bag is so much cheaper.

And the gender reassignment surgeries... ugh...

monsoon 10
08-16-2008, 05:29 PM
Plastic surgery should only be made available to physically deformed people. Using it for vanity is a waste of resources and money.

A person has a right to do with their body as they please. It's normally on their own damn dime anyway.

analogZero
08-16-2008, 07:12 PM
A person has a right to do with their body as they please. It's normally on their own damn dime anyway.

or on their sugar daddy's dime.

spirit
08-17-2008, 11:01 AM
Kind of ironic. Plastic surgeries are much more popular among women, yet seems like guys have way more to say (up)on this matter than females... hmmm
Guys tend to think plastic surgeries are 'silly' or 'stupid' or 'unnecessary' because you don't have to deal with such a pressure when it comes to your body appearance. Plus, women suffer more from getting older, likewise experience all of the body changes more personally than men.
I've never seen a man who would put some anti-wrinkle cream on... lol... while it is a 'common procedure' for most of women.
Women do those things because they are expected (mostly by men) to take care of themselves, to do everything in their power to stay young, slim and attractive. Therefore, they would even go 'under the knife' ...

Kenshy
08-17-2008, 02:29 PM
A person has a right to do with their body as they please. It's normally on their own damn dime anyway.Yep, because changing their appearance via plastic surgery will do more good to the homeless and people living in third world countrys than giving them the money it costs to do so. You are so backward, it's unreal.

suune
08-17-2008, 06:42 PM
Plastic surgery... well... Personally I wouldn't have one unless I really needed to... Example: you have a really big scar or something that really bothers you, like a big nose or something like that. I think the whole point of plastic surgery is to help people to be happy with their selves. But in the end it all comes to the old saying: If you are happy n the inside, that will apply on the outside.

Koopaking
08-17-2008, 06:44 PM
True, people can do whatever with their bodies as they please granted they have the money. California cosmetic Surgeons' Hummers and mansions don't grow on trees you know. This discussion makes me think of that show Nip/Tuck, although I only watched one episode.

Russkie
08-17-2008, 08:28 PM
I'm not so sure how I would explain my opinion on this.

The best I can say is I frown on the idea, and thats about it.

tennis
08-17-2008, 08:40 PM
I wouldn't get plastic surgery lol. If guys started doing that for anything but injuries, then, it'd be pretty creepy. >_> Just look at Michael Jackson's nose. *@*

monsoon 10
08-18-2008, 02:39 AM
Yep, because changing their appearance via plastic surgery will do more good to the homeless and people living in third world countrys than giving them the money it costs to do so. You are so backward, it's unreal.

Oh that's right they're forced to give their money, like I said it's their money they can choose what to do with it. As a side note, I wasn't aware small African children could digest twenty dollar bills.

soulten
08-18-2008, 02:54 AM
As long as it doesn't affect me I don't mind...but it would be akward if your wife had plastic surgery befor you met her...it would make me feel decieved.So I have to go with if you have the money go for it, just don't mess with me.

Maydraie
08-26-2008, 11:15 PM
You would need plastic surgery when your flesh has rotted to the point its falling off.

spirit
08-26-2008, 11:34 PM
I know what Russkie would say - that it's always a good time to go under his knife... lol
Sick.