Boy troubles!!!!! Help Me!!!!!!!!!

[Guardgirl]

Ok so i have two guys that like me and one i think that likes me and i like them too... but i cant choose which one i like most.... i mean it really does make me sound like a hore...... but i really dont want to hurt them either......ugh someone help please!!!!!!!

[gunbound15]

choose none of them and go out with......cindy, atomicwarz, or corwin.
or you can roll a dice. god and fate does not lie. but if you're like me, you'll choose the one that's the hottest but not stupid. (that's very hard if not impossible just so you know)

[Guardgirl]

well it is not that easy for me only cause i dont just go by how hot they r i also go by how sweet they are and .... ugh...

[quietchat]

The answer is simple: You don't like one more than the other. Don't date them, wait until you have reason to choose one person over the other. THEN worry.

[gunbound15]

well then take out a paintball gun and start shooting them. the first one to go down is usually the sweetest one. but i would suggest that you pick out their worst traits and write them down on a piece of paper, find out the traits that you can't accept, and then throw those guys down into the pit of doom, then choose the one that's left.

[cindy]

choose none of them and go out with......cindy, atomicwarz, or corwin.
or you can roll a dice. god and fate does not lie. but if you're like me, you'll choose the one that's the hottest but not stupid. (that's very hard if not impossible just so you know)

LMAO gun ... wat do u mean to go out with me ... -__________-

here's my advice ... do u like both of them like as if ur in love with both of them ... or like ... u don't know if one is someone u love and the other one is just a love as in a friendship ... ????
Gun's advice isn't that bad "choose none of them" ... because if u don't want them to feel bad or if u don't know which one u like ... then choose none of them ...
OR ... u can talk to each one of them and see which one u actually like like and be with him ... and tell the other one that u just want to be good friends with him ... ^^

[Guardgirl]

that is all good advice thanks

[animex09]

i say you get to know them better untill ur sure witch u want to pik...but u have to be absolutely shore u want one from the other so that u dont have any regrets late. this is my advice to you.

[Guardgirl]

hey thanks that sounds good

[AyumiBee]

If u are not sure which one u like better then don't go out with either of them.I always say that if I have only a little trace of doubt about him I won't go out with him. If u go out with one of them cuz they are just sweet and u want a bf and not for love it's pointless. This is my opinion.

[partyprobe]

Well you can forget about everything and start thinking about me.

[monsoon 10]

Ok so i have two guys that like me and one i think that likes me and i like them too... but i cant choose which one i like most.... i mean it really does make me sound like a hore...... but i really dont want to hurt them either......ugh someone help please!!!!!!!

One word: Threesome.

[leerock89]

As Toucan Sam would say,"Follow your nose!!"

[analogZero]

1. if they're well acquainted individuals, ie. super friends. don't bother. there's about an 80-85% chance that you'll destroy their friendship and you'll be caught in the middle of it. That is fact. I've seen that happen more than enough times cuz guy's like girls get jealous that they can't have exactly what they want......
2. monsoon's got the right idea if you want to have some fun. you're young, you never know when the opportunity for a threesome's gonna come along. just put a sign on you saying, "come and get it, big boys!" and you'll be ravaged in a primitive fashion.
3. pick the one that's hottest. chances are you'll break up with him and end up with the better one. it's not about looks, but when you're junior it is. you don't have to settle for the bald guy with a heart of gold just yet. Instead let some people f*ck around with your emotions so that you appreciate it more later when you've got a sweety.
4. go with cindy.

edit:
I totally forgot the deal breaker! what you do is, find some third party dude, and start "dating" him, or at least focus your attention on him. doesn't have to be long, you can drop his ass once the effect's worn off. anyway, if either of them back off or start to think poorly of you, then it's a 95% shot they just wanted to play with your junk. the 5% compensation is that they're shy.....but likely still wanted to play with your junk.
any guy will be sweet, and any hot guy will be hot. but...... no point in taking the fun and surprise of life from your joyful galavanting.

[Guardgirl]

thanks they is the best thing i have heard out of even my family lol

[Mcrgrl1]

If you're really confused and you dont want to hurt them just say i like you as a friend and that will never change. But i would choose the one that makes you're heart skip a beat evertime you see them or hear about them. The one that makes you feel different when you're around them is the one:cute: ... I hope my advice helps a little :)

[Guardgirl]

thanks it does help

[Klard]

I have a novel idea, just stay single. There are no social commitments involved(usually) and you don't have problems with people breaking up with you.

But don't listen to me, I'm the guy who won't go out with anyone because I don't want to have it blow up in my face.

P.S. If the **** hits the fan, go with Cindy.

[Bishop]

heres what i would do if i was a girl, start with the guy you know better, get to know him more... find out the intrests of each guy and then think hard on what guy you like more. or you can stay friends with both and then one day you will know for sure wich guy you like.

[soulten]

Get them together and start a mortal kombat, then you go with the winner, because he is stonger, and the other is weak...and a loser.

[gunbound15]

One word: Threesome.

SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T WANNA BE SEEN AS A *.*ORE. :ramen:
besides you're only allowed to have a harem in anime, not real life.
excuse my manners......excuse what's left of my manners anyways.

[Klard]

Why don't you just stay single until you make up your mind?

[analogZero]

SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T WANNA BE SEEN AS A *.*ORE. :ramen:
besides you're only allowed to have a harem in anime, not real life.
excuse my manners......excuse what's left of my manners anyways.

maybe if she had both guys, a couple girls and a bottle of whiskey she'd be a wh*re, but trying both pieces of cake to see which one tastes best.

ps. guardgirl, have you asked cindy yet. maybe she'd be down to bring the whiskey ***wink***

[HIS-STORY]

If you choose one over the other thats fine just dont do the whore thing by having your cake rating it too and then eating someone else's cake also((Yumm))

[analogZero]

If you choose one over the other thats fine just dont do the whore thing by having your cake rating it too and then eating someone else's cake also((Yumm))

you're not a whore if you taste the cake, but save the cherry pie.

oh, sexual inuendo, how I do adore you.

[Maydraie]

dang i hate it when choosing between guys. you could do what my mom did, date them both at once but make sure they don't know your dating the other. wow that was lame...why did i bring up my mom? probably since all the guys in my school suck at life.

[monsoon 10]

SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T WANNA BE SEEN AS A *.*ORE. :ramen:
besides you're only allowed to have a harem in anime, not real life.
excuse my manners......excuse what's left of my manners anyways.

She hasn't been smelted yet so I wouldn't start worrying.

[Kenshy]

She hasn't been smelted yet so I wouldn't start worrying.
http://www.youfail.org/

[monsoon 10]

http://www.youfail.org/

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[chocolat12]

dont pick one then...

wait til you find the one thats the best!

who know...maybe you'll like someone else besides those boys

[Kenshy]

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[analogZero]

dont pick one then...

wait til you find the one thats the best!

who know...maybe you'll like someone else besides those boys

it's your god given right as a female human to be as fickle as can possibly be. this is sound advice....no jokes.....except against how women are fickle and it makes men go 'oh my god' in a low whisper that you can faintly hear.....but they said it. I guarantee.

[monsoon 10]

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[arcose]

Bwhahahahahaha Put Them In A Pit And Make Them Fight To The Death For U

[puppetz]

well then take out a paintball gun and start shooting them. the first one to go down is usually the sweetest one. but i would suggest that you pick out their worst traits and write them down on a piece of paper, find out the traits that you can't accept, and then throw those guys down into the pit of doom, then choose the one that's left.

im all for this guys plan

[Kenshy]

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/b/b5/Oldrly.jpghttp://www.ratemyeverything.net/image/6134/0/Epic_Fail.ashx

[monsoon 10]

http://www.ratemyeverything.net/image/6134/0/Epic_Fail.ashx

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2udJdWVa1Fw

[Kenshy]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2udJdWVa1Fw

http://www.themadhat.com/images/fail_20at_20failing.jpg

[monsoon 10]

Redundancy...

[Guardgirl]

well i found a new guy that i like so i think i will go for him but when yall said i should have a threesome i already have with a girl and a guy and then with twogirls trust me it is not fun.........

[arcose]

i still say throw them in a pet and let them fight to the death

[analogZero]

well i found a new guy that i like so i think i will go for him but when yall said i should have a threesome i already have with a girl and a guy and then with twogirls trust me it is not fun.........

whore.....so joking:D

[puppetz]

how is having a threesome with two chicks not fun? i must have missed something...

[monsoon 10]

i still say throw them in a pet and let them fight to the death

My question is how are you going to fit them in there?

[cindy]

HEY HEY HEY ... wat's with all this "go with cindy" thingy analogZero and klard :mad::pissed::mad::pissed:

[monsoon 10]

HEY HEY HEY ... wat's with all this "go with cindy" thingy analogZero and klard :mad::pissed::mad::pissed:

HEY, HEY, LISTEN! HEY LISTEN!

http://img523.imageshack.us/img523/1649/navi7po.jpg

[cindy]

HEY, HEY, LISTEN! HEY LISTEN!

http://img523.imageshack.us/img523/1649/navi7po.jpg

... huh :serious::dizzy::serious::dizzy:

[analogZero]

HEY HEY HEY ... wat's with all this "go with cindy" thingy analogZero and klard :mad::pissed::mad::pissed:

she already said she's down with some ladies on the table during dinner. just go with it.

[Kenshy]

HEY, HEY, LISTEN! HEY LISTEN!

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[spike81x]

If one wishes to find oneself sometimes those around us most be hurt, but if you want to know who really likes you and who just wants you to pull either a popularity stunt, or just to use you for amusement.

[Narutorox]

just be friends with both of them

[cindy]

she already said she's down with some ladies on the table during dinner. just go with it.

lol ... i'm confused ... -__________-

[analogZero]

lol ... i'm confused ... -__________-

that's usually the first step....

[cindy]

that's usually the first step....

... huh ...

[athrun0017]

Hey dont' get too wound up about this..
I say date both, usually what will happen is that you will get a expectation on how one or the other will comitt. the one who meeting your expectations wins.. lol.. if you do that then you have alot of guts girl and that is saying something..
... lets be honest and serious here.. am a bad guy type... though i wasn't always like this.. infact i was a good guy, but good guys finish last..(if you know what i mean) so about 4 1/2 years ago i became a total asshole and got more girls than i ever did being nice.. so take this into consideration, if they are both nice you will have your hands full.. but if you want me to tell you what might happen, then message me! i will be totally honest.

[Zieghart]

Hmm... Dump one and pick one... If that fails... dump the first one and then date the other.... Or better yet... Let them compete... Unless both of them don't know the existance of the other...:dizzy:

[analogZero]

... huh ...

exactly...

[cindy]

exactly...

... are u making fun of me ???

[athrun0017]

... are u making fun of me ???

who me? no why would i do that?

[cindy]

lol athrun ... not u ... if u made fun of me i'd cry lol ... i was talking to analogzero ...

[athrun0017]

lol athrun ... not u ... if u made fun of me i'd cry lol ... i was talking to analogzero ...

ahh.. sorry about that! got a little too caught up there! lol

[analogZero]

... are u making fun of me ???

far from it. you're just not playing along. you can get on the swings or sit in the sand...........
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fine, we'll build a sandcastle then..............................

[cindy]

HAHAHAHAHA ... srry ... i'm slow ^^ ...

[cupfuel]

The answer is simple: You don't like one more than the other. Don't date them, wait until you have reason to choose one person over the other. THEN worry.


yeah. you should do just that. see how one is a little more and you might find which onw you really wana go with.

[monsoon 10]

... are u making fun of me ???
I was. *character rule*

[Kenshy]

lol ... i'm confused ... -__________-Epic Fail.

[cindy]

I was. *character rule*

hehehehehe ... okay ^^ ... =P ...


epic fail ... ??? hmmmm ... okay ^^

[lila]

i had to chose between two guys, but i didnt, i went wth both, i finally did go wth one of them, but he knows i was cheating(i felt guilty and told him haha) and will never let it go, its been a year now. worse part is in about april i figured out i liked the other guy better, but he has a gf now plus i hurt him so bad hed b insane to take me back, and probally would never drop it either. and the point of all this, DO NOT play both of them BAD idea chose who u like better, and who u think u would have more fun with, and some of the same interests

[Acess]

One word: Threesome.

took the words right out of my mouth man...LMAO

[blackfob]

do it the old fashion way
flip a coin

[a2ng0d]

well i found a new guy that i like so i think i will go for him but when yall said i should have a threesome i already have with a girl and a guy and then with twogirls trust me it is not fun.........

thats hot...

[athrun0017]

i had to chose between two guys, but i didnt, i went wth both, i finally did go wth one of them, but he knows i was cheating(i felt guilty and told him haha) and will never let it go, its been a year now. worse part is in about april i figured out i liked the other guy better, but he has a gf now plus i hurt him so bad hed b insane to take me back, and probally would never drop it either. and the point of all this, DO NOT play both of them BAD idea chose who u like better, and who u think u would have more fun with, and some of the same interests

ha.. i know exactly how that feels..

[carolyn07]

...uhmmmmm?,.

i guess,.

theres no chance for you not to hurt the other,.

of course even though you like them both,.still you like the other more than the other!,.

what you have to do is to tell the mr.two that you like mr.one better,.you like mr.two too,.but you like mr.one more!,.

and you still want to be friends with mr.two thats if he likes to be friends with you!,.

thats it!,.hurting the other is inevitable my friend!,.♥

[xXWENWENXx]

try double dating, it might be fun

[Magicbird]

Take life as it goes. Whichever one has the more guts to ask you out first, go with that one. And sucks for the other guy, he didn't take the chances.
Remember, a guy isn't a guy unless he does the asking.

[atomsk]

would i be the first to suggest a threesome
make them have a fair competition for you the one that wins obviously is more devoted. or better at what you chose

[lemonek]

Wow ! Forget about everything, start from scratch dont try to resurrect the past its dead and buried, moments are transitory. The right one will come itself u dont even have to be searching. Just dont fool urself, good luck.

[Kenshy]

Dating is excruciating. In the long run, it's a waste of time. Invest time in fighting humans.

[Kiaso]

if your under 21...date them both...its not marriage, just till you figure out who you like more. if your over 21, grow up and pick the one who is right for you and if they both are right for you pick the one you can tolerate the longest because your no longer a kid

[TomboyTech]

I believe I had a similar dilemma when I first started dating in high school. My mother let me know that when she first began dating, as long as it wasn't exclusive relationships, she would see multiple guys and once it became something more serious, then she would see only one exclusively.
This may or may not be an option for you, depending on how you feel about it, but all the dating really is, is finding out if the guy is the one for you. Don't think he is before you're even started? Don't waste the time and get yourself hurt. If you start dating and find out that you couldn't spend your lift with this man, get out before you're trapped in a permanent relationship.

In the end it comes down to this, get to know them. Friendship first, then love. You'll save yourself from a lot of frustration and indecision. You want to look back at your relationship and consider yourself so lucky that your boyfriend is also your best friend.

[Holly-Sama]

I believe I had a similar dilemma when I first started dating in high school. My mother let me know that when she first began dating, as long as it wasn't exclusive relationships, she would see multiple guys and once it became something more serious, then she would see only one exclusively.
This may or may not be an option for you, depending on how you feel about it, but all the dating really is, is finding out if the guy is the one for you. Don't think he is before you're even started? Don't waste the time and get yourself hurt. If you start dating and find out that you couldn't spend your lift with this man, get out before you're trapped in a permanent relationship.

In the end it comes down to this, get to know them. Friendship first, then love. You'll save yourself from a lot of frustration and indecision. You want to look back at your relationship and consider yourself so lucky that your boyfriend is also your best friend.

I agree with the above statements. I'm a firm believer in befriending before dating.

[Gerbil-Man]

eeny meeny miney....

[shadow16]

well i guess it depends which one u love and want to be with for the rest of your life so chosse the one that u really want to be with thats my advice to u anyways so a good luck

[dorky-emo]

if any1 needs help come to me.

[jyuukai]

eeny meeny miney....

:oo: this isn't the best method...for anything...AT ALL!!!!

The advice I have to give has been given before...become friends with them and whichever one you are drawn to more is the one on a higher scale...

This part is from my own experience:
After a while of being friends with these people you might find that your feelings were just a crush and they would annoy the hell outta you. This has happened to me many times but people can't take a hint...

[zrikin]

if u like them both i suggest that you should find a reason that you like one of them the most if dont date say u just want to be friends thts what i did wit 2 girls