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strike7785
07-29-2008, 02:54 PM
Ok it's been a wile since I've gone out on a date. I am going to the movies with this girl Im meeting for the first time so basically its a blind date. ANy suggestions on what I might ask her or talk to her about before watching the movie or during and things not to do. I know Im the first to give others suggestions but now I need help.:eyes:
cindy
07-29-2008, 03:50 PM
introduce urself with a smile and buy her the movie ticket ... ask her first-time questions like ... how old r u, where u from, wats ur favorite food, wats ur favorite color, do u have siblings, etc ... and don't hesitate (sp?) wen u ask her questions (alot of guyz do ... lol) ... and ask her if she wants any popcorn, snack, or drink ...
leerock89
07-29-2008, 04:03 PM
Finding a topic of mutual interest is important. Once you find that link it should be easier to talk to her. And I forgot where this came from but, first you treat her like a human, then a princess, then a queen, then a human again, so seeing as how this is your first time with her make sure to treat her like a human.... unless after you talk to her you noticed some things that say otherwise... good luck with that one...
strike7785
07-31-2008, 03:21 PM
well it turns out that she has gone from Bi to stickley lesbian. So I ended up lucking out. Man that sucks sooooo bad, but she is still cool to hang out with
cindy
07-31-2008, 03:29 PM
thats okay strike ... she's not like the only girl u can have ... lol ... there's soo many other girls waiting for u ... u just have to wait as well ... lol ... u'll find someone someday ^^ ..
Red17
07-31-2008, 05:41 PM
Lesbian :O?
Hey 2 things, first off has anyone noticed that girls like more bad-ass guys then the nice ones? All the girls at my school view me more as a friend the boy-friend material just because, I am pretty curtious, etc.
And second the general discussion is spelled wrong.
^^
leerock89
07-31-2008, 06:13 PM
Ouch sorry to hear that.
tripletres
07-31-2008, 06:53 PM
Lesbian :O?
Hey 2 things, first off has anyone noticed that girls like more bad-ass guys then the nice ones? All the girls at my school view me more as a friend the boy-friend material just because, I am pretty curtious, etc.
And second the general discussion is spelled wrong.
^^
yes, i have noticed that. im one of the nicest guys around, and all girls ask of me is for help, which i will gladly do, but u no... its kinda dissapointing when i overhear them in the hallway (which isnt hard, considering how loud they talk) 'I hate it! i want a guy whose nice and sensitive, and listens to me...' etc, when i no of a great guy who's like that (fyi, thats me) and is closer than they think... *sigh...*
strike7785
07-31-2008, 07:22 PM
Yea I hear ya. We are here but its like they dont notive until they have expirenced the bad ass guys themselves then they come a runnin too ya
tripletres
07-31-2008, 07:25 PM
and then the bad ass guys come following and then we get to show our nice sides and settle things with some 'punch' and other refreshments.
leerock89
07-31-2008, 07:28 PM
aahhh the joys of love. I say kill all the men and leave me with all the women.
strike7785
07-31-2008, 07:43 PM
and then the bad ass guys come following and then we get to show our nice sides and settle things with some 'punch' and other refreshments.
Then grab there balls and show the women how much of a pussy they really are
arcose
07-31-2008, 08:47 PM
yes, i have noticed that. im one of the nicest guys around, and all girls ask of me is for help, which i will gladly do, but u no... its kinda dissapointing when i overhear them in the hallway (which isnt hard, considering how loud they talk) 'I hate it! i want a guy whose nice and sensitive, and listens to me...' etc, when i no of a great guy who's like that (fyi, thats me) and is closer than they think... *sigh...*
yea well im like the in real life im nice and gice advice but they dont like pople like us
spirit
07-31-2008, 09:26 PM
Why would a lesbian go on a date with a guy if she knows she is NOT interested in guys in a firt place? Especially when she is making it so official "she has gone from Bi to stickley lesbian" ??? It's not like she has just found that she was a lesbian. @__@
Something is telling me, she was just looking for someone to pay for her date. It's like telling someone up front "I am less, I am NOT interested in you." Therefore, you knew at the beginning that nothing is going to come up from it, but still you couldn't just cancel it.
Some girls are just sly, or have a sly intentions :/
Bishop
07-31-2008, 09:30 PM
she may be trying to get after your sister :o or one of your close (girl) friends
analogZero
08-01-2008, 12:08 AM
well, for next time, just open fire with questions about her. girls like the attention and the fact that you want to know about them...
as for those nice guys having teenage girl issues.....nice guys finish last, and boy chasing teenage girls shouldn't be chased themselves. facts of the universe. question them and the universe will scold you.
Oblivious
08-05-2008, 11:01 PM
If she's lesbian, then why did she go out with a guy?
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