Female Problems

[Xunlai]

I dont let it affect everyday life, but I have been down with the girls, lost a girlfriend about three weeks ago, and everything has been like "BLARG" every since.


---Any suggestions, or thoughts on why this may be?

[spirit]

I dont let it affect everyday life, but I have been down with the girls, lost a girlfriend about three weeks ago, and everything has been like "BLARG" every since.


---Any suggestions, or thoughts on why this may be?

why do u mean by lost? did she die? I'm being serious... 'cause 2 days ago I found out... that my cousin lost his gf, and I didn't know that... and I asked silly question like "are they still goin out together" and then I heard from my aunt... that she died a couple months ago in a heart attack...... gosh.... i was crushed....
hey... come talk to me..... I'm a good listener ;) I'll try to cheer u up.... the best I can ;)

[Ryuuzaki]

"Blarg" as in your mood as just been changed to the , "I dun give a shit"? Or something more like, "I don't want to do anything, I just feel like crap..."? I guess the only thing I can think of is, SUCK IT UP (kidding btw). But really, just hang in there. What I would do is force yourself to do/care about something, and then just do it, or just start caring about it. In due time you'll get over it, most of us have anyway. I'll be here for morale support, not must of anything else I can say though. Hope that helped even a tiny bit. ^^

[Nahmu]

I dont let it affect everyday life, but I have been down with the girls, lost a girlfriend about three weeks ago, and everything has been like "BLARG" every since.


---Any suggestions, or thoughts on why this may be?

it sounds like you have a touch of denial. if it is pestering you so much to post about it, it obviously is affecting your every day life. i know what it's like to lose someone close to you and it sucks, but you have to admit and embrace that it sucks instead of trying to hide from it or pretend that it doesn't hurt as bad as it does. embrace it, live it and once you're done feeling "blarg", move on. feel something else, preferably a more positive feeling, just as strongly once you've found the strength to put this current situation away for good.

[monsoon 10]

I dont let it affect everyday life, but I have been down with the girls, lost a girlfriend about three weeks ago, and everything has been like "BLARG" every since.


---Any suggestions, or thoughts on why this may be?

Want some cheese with that whine?

[Xunlai]

Want some cheese with that whine?

only if it is as good as the whine.....


@everyone else- Thanks for your thought and ideas and such i will think about it more.....