Girl problems...

[tripletres]

Hey all! im in a bit of a problem here... im a lovesick teenager who wants to get a girlfriend (hot preferrably.) Im a smart and nice guy, but maybe a bit too shy... any tips?

-333 (tripletres)

[spirit]

why everyone is so desperate nowadays to get a gf or a bf? could you be more specific, what kind of advice are you looking for?
Do you have already a person that you like, but don't know how to approach her?
Or why is it that you want so much a gf? ^^

[tripletres]

lets put it this way: I am the "Romeo" of my class, although little know it. I would gladly go out with about 9 people, not at the same time of course. Now, I like to be blunt, and have already asked out many of the people, all of which said no, bluntly i must add. so what should i do to get noticed?

[Sun Tzu]

http://www.animefuel.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2650

Sun Tzu's Guide To Womanizing.

[spirit]

ok. first thing if I were you I would think over why did I get rejected by those girls in a first place? I mean, if you're a fine guy, as you described yourself as a "Romeo"... it's a little bit awkward that you got rejected ;/ Maybe the way you asked those girls out was wrong?
Second. If you didn't really liked any of those girls then forget about them and focus on someone new.
Maybe your problem is that you try to hard to get someone? and maybe other ppl can see how desperate you are? ^^ -
therefore stay calm, self-confident and be a gentleman! ^^
If I were you I would first observe the person I like... to find out more about her: the way she acts, what she likes.. anything that could help you get closer to her. It would be nice if you would really like this person. Even though you're interested in going out with more than one girl, still you should concentrate only on one! It's not a "marathon". Besides, girls love to know that they are unique and only the one you would fall for.
You can start off the conversation by asking someone out for a drink- beer, tea, soda - it doesn't matter. If you say you would like to take her out to drink some beer, and she replies that she doesn't drink beer, you can always catch up with a question" so what would you like to drink then?" - or whatever.. it might be even a hot chocolate - it's up to your invention or just ask her forward what she likes.
Try to act natural, pay attention to her moves... keep your eyes on her face.... if you take a deeper look at her eyes times to times.. and sincerely smile- that could melt her heart ^^... In that moment tell her a compliment - sound like you're very surprised! Something like "wow, I've never seen such beautiful eyes..." or whatever.... but don't push too hard. Don't compliment her every two minutes 'cause she will get all embarrassed. lol

[tripletres]

uhhh... thanks sun, but remember... im just a teenager... i realize that i still have a long time to fulfill what i want... but half of those things you mentioned don't help me as of right now.

[spirit]

http://www.animefuel.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2650

Sun Tzu's Guide To Womanizing.

yeah, yeah... but Sun Tzu's thread is more of a philosophical or scientific point of view? I don't think it would help him pick someone up ^^ I mean it is all in general "how it all works between females and males"... but I guess the boy needs more detailed steps to follow, hee hee ^^ Lovesick - interesting ^^

[tripletres]

o and sp!r!t, my class is small, so everyone knows everyone... literally. and im kinda sorta i-dont-like-to-admit-it nerd... and of course the girl(s) i like are... well, not nerds.

and using the term "Romeo" just means that i love with my eyes... a fault of mine.

[Sun Tzu]

uhhh... thanks sun, but remember... im just a teenager... i realize that i still have a long time to fulfill what i want... but half of those things you mentioned don't help me as of right now.

A relationship doesnt have to have a child, but that is the goal. At least in the females mind, so what you have to do is present yourself as probable father material, and not a weak kneed pimply face teenager. Be protective of the women, provide for her, and be aggressive. Show a girl you are the best prospective mate, give her a touch of your pheremones, and voila buy yourself a hefty bag and go down.

People always search for the next best thing, women and men are no exception. You gotta show that you are better than anyone else out there, little confidence, a touch of your individuality, and the women will come screaming to you.

PS: Im only a teenager... DIE CREDIBILITY!!

[Sun Tzu]

yeah, yeah... but Sun Tzu's thread is more of a philosophical or scientific point of view? I don't think it would help him pick someone up ^^ I mean it is all in general "how it all works between females and males"... but I guess the boy needs more detailed steps to follow, hee hee ^^ Lovesick - interesting ^^

Step 1, Find girl
Step 2, Impress girl
Step 3, ?????
Step 4, Profit

[tripletres]

any tip so i can overcome shyness, so i can follow your advice?

[spirit]

A relationship doesnt have to have a child, but that is the goal. At least in the females mind, so what you have to do is present yourself as probable father material, and not a weak kneed pimply face teenager. Be protective of the women, provide for her, and be aggressive. Show a girl you are the best prospective mate, give her a touch of your pheremones, and voila buy yourself a hefty bag and go down.

People always search for the next best thing, women and men are no exception. You gotta show that you are better than anyone else out there, little confidence, a touch of your individuality, and the women will come screaming to you.

PS: Im only a teenager... DIE CREDIBILITY!!

LOL Sun Tsu!!....hey "expert" so... why are you still single? (I don't know it, but something tells me you don't have a gf) ^^ I completely understand what stands behind those worlds.... but in a more simple matter.... ppl really don't know how to act... even though they "know" but still they don't... lol
You think of it...... I've never had such a dilemma. I mean I was never wondering how to get to know the guy I had a crush on. I'm extremely shy when it comes to this sort of stuff. But I've never though about it. If I like someone... I don't let my shyness paralyze me! I just naturally come up to that person, say hi.... and make a joke about something, I smile, I flirt with my eyes... I even make the other person shy for a second - just to be "in a control of him" and feel more confident about myself.
I don't think about what I'm doing... the only thing I have on my mind.. is to see expression on someone's face. And be graceful ^^... guys also can be charming! (don't think it's too girlish!) There's nothing more attractive than a guy who is positive, confident and with a charming smile. Some guys don't even have to be all "cheerful", it's enough when he is just confident, though not arrogant and full of himself, haha ^^

[spirit]

any tip so i can overcome shyness, so i can follow your advice?a cold shower? and antiperspirant? ^^ 100ml of vodka at once?
What shyness? Think, what makes you shy?? Ask yourself if there's really something you should be shy or embarrassed about?!
Keep telling yourself that you're a great huy - you know some sort of self-therapy? I don't know what do you call it... but guys do that every morning facing the mirror ^^... I know I a guy that does that... and actually it works well on him ^^... He is a "lady-killer" but still he keeps motivating himself ^^

[athrun0017]

Thats only if your game is good spirit! ... in this guys case , its not looking too good! you know what i would do.. i would be a bit rebelious.. dress a bit drifferent, be more aggressive.. if you are a nerd like you said you are.. then people must pick on you.. and being shy.. you are not shy!!! if you asked 9 girls out and they all said no, you have guts!.. .......*whispers* the key is eye contact...
when you rebel, it will give you the attention you need.. don't get to carried away though.. take out a poetry book.. read it infront of everyone.. set your sites on the girl who you catch looking at you.. and talk with your eyes... glance at her and blow her off.. i can guarentee it would get her to look at you more.. once contact is established .. be cool.. quiet and collected..stare at her every once in a while seriously and then continue what you are doing.. do this for a couple of days everyone will get a very different picture of who you are and what you can do!!!
It works.. trust me..

[Sun Tzu]

any tip so i can overcome shyness, so i can follow your advice?

ya, take a deep breath whenever you feel overcome. I personally get a form of tunnel vision whenever I know Ive made a grievous mistake. What you gotta do is just let it all go, the worry over what they will think, what your friends think, and what everyone around you will think. That deep breath helps you in letting it all go. It grants you focus and reminds you that the only two that matter in this intricate little dance is you... and her.


Dont worry about how the outcome will turn out, chances are, if you get shot down you will merely be the focus of a little bit of laughter by your friends, but by god at least you tried. And grudgingly, whether or not you succeeded, they will give you some respect. Everyone suffers from the same amount of embarressment and worry when chasing after members of the opposite sex. The trick is trying to overcome that aversion and talk to the other party in a meaningful way. Remember that the female is just as embarressed by this situation as you are, and will be happy to forget it if it doesnt work out. If you have chosen the right girl her and her friends wont laugh at you... and even if they do screw them they are whores liable to get knocked up by some football player at the age of 18 and amount to nothing their entire life.

Remember that you will fail, just gotta pick yourself up after that, then follow your bone to the next potential victim. Dont show fear... they sense that... show your strengths and none of your weaknesses. Many people state being yourself is what counts above all, showing some individuality is ok, however too much is a bad thing. The first part of the dance is done while wearing a mask and a blind fold, only when you two are together can you start showing who you really are, and she herself.

Spend time with her and show her that you care, it is important unfortunately. But whatever you do, never get caught in the friend circle. The one she can tell all her problems to, consess things to, and lol... this happened to me a few times... discuss prospective mates. See women seem to discount their guy friends as prospective boy friend material for one reason or another, I honestly dont know why, but if you ever hear the words "Lets Just Be Friends" its either over, or you have a long hard road ahead of you to hoe. When you have your target in mind move fast and in the open. You dont have long before you get caught in the drag of that unstoppable whirlpool. Be the person she feels safe with, but dont allow her to tell you her secrets. Sometimes this is unavoidable, so try not to offer any advice afterwards, you want to be the one she runs to for physical problems, not emotional. Later this switches around and you have to be responsible for both, but in the early days your realm is purely physical and no where near mental.

Also dont expect instant lovey dovey hugs and kisses once the request has been issued and accepted. You both need time to ease into the new openness of your relationship, press the boundries every day, but never move too fast.

Its a game where you take two steps forward and then one step back. Pushing the boundries but never moving too far ahead. Forget what others will think of you, and try to show that you are better and different than all the average joes out there. Allow her to be comfortable while being close to you, hugs, arm on her shoulders, anything that brings you closer to the women is perfect. But never, ever, take advantage of the girl in any shape or form. Groping, molesting, or anything that shows that your only interest is sex is out of the question. Never force the women into anything, allow her to yield to your physical request, an arm on the shoulder, never pull her in. A hug? Do it gently and slowly giving her ample time to decide whether or not to accept it.

Gentle teasing followed by a hug or something else is perfect. Its difficult to nail, but if you can poke or prod her in different ways before eventually ending it all with a warm hug, or other form of good physical contact then you are golden. Tickling, poking, picking up, all great ways of giving you extra physical contact and making her more comfortable around you. Sometimes the word "Stop It" is said jokingly and should oftentimes be ignored, unless stated in a very matter of fact tone. Do not take any of your teases too far, they can hurt your cause as well, as long as she seems to be having fun then you can continue, but end it quickly and with a warm embrace of some kind.

Dont try to force a conversation, if the girl is quiet or unresponsive dont try to illicit a response out of her. Its annoying not only to her, but pitiful to those around you. Allow the silence to stretch and her to make the first move, and then swiftly build off of that, as long as she is responding keep the convo going.

Seems cliche, but try to make it so she talks more than you. You have to show interest in her... strong interest... and the best way to do that is by forming your questions around her, whats your name, how you doin, how was your week... anything with the word "You" in it is usually golden.

This is all difficult to nail, and I apologize if I seem jumbled I hate this keyboard and I really wanna get back to starcraft. If you forget everything else just remember that you dont care what other people think. They are meaningless and usually stupid and not very confident themselves. You do not need their approval only hers, and the best way to get that approval is by not worrying about what she thinks of you. "Does she like me," "what does she think of me?" "Should I ask her out?" General questions you should not be asking yourself. Always go with the greatest assumption when making a decisions, and then make the decision and never look back. Self confidence is by definition the comfort in knowing that you are absolutely correct. You believe in yourself, and by doing these things without worrying about the consequences you will obtain it. You are correct, and only reality can prove you wrong. However that bitch usually takes 4-6 weeks to return a damn phone call... so just go with how you feel hang the consequences.

[spirit]

I said - EYE CONTACT! Maybe you haven't read everything I wrote ^^ I mentioned that earlier on a 1st page. But I know, it's a long text to read.. even i would be lazy to read my own words ^^

Mmmm, Athrun.... I'd like to see you "in action" hee hee.. after I read your advice... I got all interested in your techniques! ^^ Wish to see you with that poem book in a front of me, yay! he heee.... I wonder If you would be able to pick me up ^^

[spirit]

Sun Tzu, what's your major? I mean who do you want to be in a future? or maybe it's not about the future.. hmm.

[athrun0017]

well if i knew you saw me with a poetry book, then i would do something very different.. if i had caught you eyeing me for a while.. when you would least expect it i would go up to you and bump you softly.. but just enough to drop you books.. i would then pick them up saying sorry about that.. * make the face* and say hi aren't you ... am Athrun.. see you around...

if you don't like those i got sooo many more up my sleeve..

[athrun0017]

am only stating things that this guy should do.. so if you catch my drift.. you will understand why i can pull out all the stops on you spirit! lol

[Sun Tzu]

LOL Sun Tsu!!....hey "expert" so... why are you still single? (I don't know it, but something tells me you don't have a gf) ^^ I completely understand what stands behind those worlds.... but in a more simple matter.... ppl really don't know how to act... even though they "know" but still they don't... lol
You think of it...... I've never had such a dilemma. I mean I was never wondering how to get to know the guy I had a crush on. I'm extremely shy when it comes to this sort of stuff. But I've never though about it. If I like someone... I don't let my shyness paralyze me! I just naturally come up to that person, say hi.... and make a joke about something, I smile, I flirt with my eyes... I even make the other person shy for a second - just to be "in a control of him" and feel more confident about myself.
I don't think about what I'm doing... the only thing I have on my mind.. is to see expression on someone's face. And be graceful ^^... guys also can be charming! (don't think it's too girlish!) There's nothing more attractive than a guy who is positive, confident and with a charming smile. Some guys don't even have to be all "cheerful", it's enough when he is just confident, though not arrogant and full of himself, haha ^^

Whenever I feel shyness I do the complete opposite of what it tells me not to do. Go Go unintended consequences.

And you are absolutely correct Spirit I am single for many reasons. Most of all I have chosen to be single.

I hold a sincere hatred for women, not sexually, but their damn personalities piss me off. Always in need of propping up, protection, and dominence. I view women as equal beings intellectually and emotionaly. It frustrates me beyond belief when I see a female belittle her entire sex by running to a man for assistance with a simple problem. All these things they do to be "cute" simply disgusts me. Not all women are like this granted, but the women I have met so far have been, silly, fickle, and stupid. Never having a thought above what they will wear tommorrow or how much make up is enough. This aversion is gained through numerous encounters with different women. Some resulting in sex, others resulting in stupid relationships.

I would rather have a deep meaningful relationship with a women (But you bastards just wanna be friends when I do that) discussing things beyond feelings and sex. With the act of consorting being something that is done whenever it is needed. In short I would like to have a intelligent women that has the same views on relationships as I do. As it is right now all I have are friendships with occasional concubines to sheath my dick in. Its not a question whether or not I can get a women, its whether or not I can have my self respect aftwards.

But college should yield different results, namely Angelica. Beautiful and intelligent. However she feels that she is alone in this terrible world and no one else can off any form of comfort. I could make a move but im over 4 hours away so... im kind of shafted. Incubating is what Im doing for another 2 months until I move up there. Thats when the real game begins.

Of course that doesnt mean I havent been successful so far. I was down there a few months back for a week, and I saw cracks in the hard outer shell she presented to the world. With more time I can perhaps widen them and be able to get inside.

[Sun Tzu]

Thats only if your game is good spirit! ... in this guys case , its not looking too good! you know what i would do.. i would be a bit rebelious.. dress a bit drifferent, be more aggressive.. if you are a nerd like you said you are.. then people must pick on you.. and being shy.. you are not shy!!! if you asked 9 girls out and they all said no, you have guts!.. .......*whispers* the key is eye contact...
when you rebel, it will give you the attention you need.. don't get to carried away though.. take out a poetry book.. read it infront of everyone.. set your sites on the girl who you catch looking at you.. and talk with your eyes... glance at her and blow her off.. i can guarentee it would get her to look at you more.. once contact is established .. be cool.. quiet and collected..stare at her every once in a while seriously and then continue what you are doing.. do this for a couple of days everyone will get a very different picture of who you are and what you can do!!!
It works.. trust me..

This is good advice, you listen to him now here?

[athrun0017]

Tzu.. you really got to sum it down... your going to make this kids' head explode! but i understand what you are saying..

[Sun Tzu]

Sun Tzu, what's your major? I mean who do you want to be in a future? or maybe it's not about the future.. hmm.

Never about the future, I plan on going to college for 8 years with no major in mind, perhaps Ill find something to catch my interest by the end of that. Its merely the pursuit of knowledge that I find to be my calling. i seek intellectual stimulation and a god damn opponent that can hold their ground when we argue.

[spirit]

NOT BAD AT ALL GUYS!! and tripletres should learn from YOU GUYS!!^^
I mean those are good advices as well as motivation ^^
And Athrun...you know how to "spice things up"! ^^

[Koopaking]

Tzu.. you really got to sum it down... your going to make this kids' head explode! but i understand what you are saying..

Actually as I see it, much more of this is going to cause the poor chap's head to implode from the sheer amount of philosophical and sociological information and rhetoric filling his cranium.

As for a comment on the actual thread topic... Well I have no words of advice to offer. But this is indeed fun to watch. Corrupting youth, one forum post at a time...

...and a god damn opponent that can hold their ground when we argue.

and oh really now? I challenge you sir.

[spirit]

Never about the future, I plan on going to college for 8 years with no major in mind, perhaps Ill find something to catch my interest by the end of that. Its merely the pursuit of knowledge that I find to be my calling. i seek intellectual stimulation and a god damn opponent that can hold their ground when we argue.
aww, I think you should make up your mind faster... 'cause your life is goin to pass you by!... Did you think about psychology? or becoming a writer? I don't know, You got some great potential... and it would be a waste if you can't decide which path to go...

[Sun Tzu]

and oh really now? I challenge you sir.

And I accept, the place and time? I choose noodle to be my second.

[Raven]

Wow Sp!r!t, I think you hit the nail on the head in your second post... I'll be coming to you if I ever need advise ;)

As for being shy another tip is to try to keep a natural smile on your lips; it keeps you from looking so nervous.

[Sun Tzu]

aww, I think you should make up your mind faster... 'cause your life is goin to pass you by!... Did you think about psychology? or becoming a writer? I don't know, You got some great potential... and it would be a waste if you can't decide which path to go...

Perhaps thats how I wish to spend my life? Researching new things, and arguing with the few who can stand to rants.

I was thinking of majoring in either philosophy or psychology, English was another thing that came up along with culinary.

[spirit]

Koopa? It's you again!! You follow me wherever I go! (just kidding, hahaha)
I guess Koopa doesn't have any problems with girls... 'cause he doesn't have one... and doesn't want to have it either..... The only true "gf" he needs is Anime ^^

[Koopaking]

And I accept, the place and time? I choose noodle to be my second.

Time and place are no factor to me, for I am ready at all times. The topic of such a duel is the only item of relevance to me, and I declare no second, or even a third. You may come at me sir, but outside of this thread.

[Sun Tzu]

Time and place are no factor to me, for I am ready at all times. The topic of such a duel is the only item of relevance to me, and I declare no second, or even a third. You may come at me sir, but outside of this thread.

then I insist we have a third party choose a topic.

[athrun0017]

owwww a topic huh?

[spirit]

Thank you greatly, Raven. I'm no expert, but I'm not afraid to talk about my own failures. ^^
Sun Tzu, Psychology used to be my major! ^^... that was back when I decided to treat mentally-unstable ppl... however I realized that it is not what I really want to do in my life... even though it would be "safe piece of bread" but didn't want force myself... I envied the ppl who are not afraid to follow their dreams... That's why Commercial Arts is what I study now ;)

[tripletres]

well, since this is my thread, the topic will be food and why. but do it outside of this thread. Thanks all for the advice... ill try it... maybe... maybe the rebelious one... maybe...

[spirit]

Topic? Maybe...... What should we all be afraid of.... haha^^

[Ryuuzaki]

Heh, alright again I say I am the last person to give advice, though I love to help so here gos something....

Alright, your shy so it's gonna be a little harder to get a date then, well people who aren't shy. If your shy of course just be shy 'cause you wont and can't change that, though you can always wait for one to come to you, thats something I've seen others use; though I don't recommend it since it has a low % of actually working. To the ones you haven't asked out already, try either just flat out asking them. Or of course, you can always engage them in a conversation before asking them out. It can be about anything (at least thats how I've always done it...and it seems to work). I admit I am very shy (yes, it's true), but I kinda just do what feels right at the moment, and somehow it just works.

Ok well thats all I got -.- but remember, don't try to act differently then yourself because whoever your talking to will see right through it and know it's not you. Just act yourself and things (should) go your way! :D Hope that helped even just a little bit, even as a moral booster lol

[athrun0017]

ryu.. may have some good hints.. but that why its called game.. you see when you try to be someone your not , its easly noticed .. but how bout trying to be someone different.. someone you would like to be.. raven also has a good point.. smiles are another key! buts lets be more realistic.. you need to learn what you want! and how you are going to get it! thats as blunt as am going to put it.. but the best advise would be sp!r!ts!! *whispers* remember "eye contact"

[leerock89]

Me caveman!! You cave woman!! Come with me and make cave babies!!!

[SinXxX]

Me caveman!! You cave woman!! Come with me and make cave babies!!!
NOW THAT'S WHAT I CALL A REAL MAN!!!! ALWAYS THINKING OF GETTING LAID!

Anyway, sorry about that. All I about to say is just lets her see your good points. Many have different Strengths, but dont let other's advanatge over you get the most of you. Just be yourself. Be approachable too, in times of need (or whenever) she might see that she can rely on you on many things. Just do not be so persistent. Be cool.
Also try some of those things that SunTzu, athrun and spirit are trying to say. I find them helpful for you.

[analogZero]

any tip so i can overcome shyness, so i can follow your advice?

quick tip from a guy who used to be quite introverted and shy. talk. it's as simple as that. it's like anything else, practise makes perfect. Start off just saying hi to the girls you know more often, maybe say something quick and quaint. pennies add up, and the more you interact the more people notice. your acts of superiority and heroism aren't much when people say "who's that dude?..seems kinda full of himself." words can speak louder than actions in some cases. but as said before, a little confidence and a little presentation will give ladies something to look at.
also, work on your pectorals...only your pectorals, and stuff socks down your pants.

Never about the future, I plan on going to college for 8 years with no major in mind, perhaps Ill find something to catch my interest by the end of that. Its merely the pursuit of knowledge that I find to be my calling. i seek intellectual stimulation and a god damn opponent that can hold their ground when we argue.

quick note to sun...my brother is doing that, and now he has ambitions of living in a cabin in the woods...just sayin.
also, I think everybody here should pitch in on a day at the spa for those fingers of yours.
(y)

[tripletres]

but what if im a mute? jus sayin...

[Sun Tzu]

quick note to sun...my brother is doing that, and now he has ambitions of living in a cabin in the woods...just sayin.
also, I think everybody here should pitch in on a day at the spa for those fingers of yours.
(y)

Well good for him, nature is a great place to aspire to be. Hope he makes it... though I dont really see how you can fail at that.

but what if im a mute? jus sayin...

I see what you did there.

[BlackMask]

listen the shy guys are the ones you can trust they won't leave you to hang with the guys they want leave you for anther girl. the smart ones are the ones that help you with your math homework and you don't need to help them. your the kinda guy that sounds like he'd do anything for the girl he likes. I think your fine the way you are because you seem like the perfect guy, a guy that will listen to a girl problem and will not get bored. nips not need. any girl that would let you go or turn away from a changes to date you is crazy. well unless your one of those guy that fixes everything she says your screwed!

[Sun Tzu]

listen the shy guys are the ones you can trust

They are also the ones you least expect to be serial killers.

[tripletres]

hehehe... ahem... *coughcough*

[analogZero]

but what if im a mute? jus sayin...

play the pity card my friend. any disabling, or debilitating details such as this can warrant attention on their own from time to time. there's intrigue to be had in the unconventional!
"hey, I wonder what's in this box of mystery? I bet it's candy, or something shiny! BAM!!! cobras."

baby steps, take em easy, take em as they come. there's no shotgun solution to girls, you just need to warm them up to you. then you can turn up the heat! ow!

[leerock89]

To much talking!! Not enough action!! Go forth and experience it for yourself instead of talking about it!!! You can only go so far with this!!!! GO AND FIND OUT YOURSELF!!!

[Thoza]

well the advice for shy guy.....
just do what ever it takes...
try your best ^^ dont give up before you try ....
if you failed..... you can try another girls.....

just make it easy ^^ you are a boys....

[analogZero]

To much talking!! Not enough action!! Go forth and experience it for yourself instead of talking about it!!! You can only go so far with this!!!! GO AND FIND OUT YOURSELF!!!

werd,
go forth grasshopper

[spirit]

but what if im a mute? jus sayin...

Ahhhmmm, tripletres... I wonder... have you found any USEFULL informtaion for yourself among this whole...let's call it a "circus hangover" lol

[tripletres]

well if you believe that im mute... you should be shot. there is a chance i may be, but its so low and just the way i type... no. but i have found some useful info... in fact im going to ask someone out tomorrow! good or bad... i dont know...

[monsoon 10]

well if you believe that im mute... you should be shot. there is a chance i may be, but its so low and just the way i type... no. but i have found some useful info... in fact im going to ask someone out tomorrow! good or bad... i dont know...

One final piece of advice the way to a woman's heart is through the ribcage remember this.

[tripletres]

well... hopefully my strategy will work. i gave her a note... i couldnt overcome my shyness, so i came up with that. It may seem weak and stupid, but thats fine.

[monsoon 10]

well... hopefully my strategy will work. i gave her a note... i couldnt overcome my shyness, so i came up with that. It may seem weak and stupid, but thats fine.

....God you are such a pansy.

[tripletres]

mybe you should go and leave if youre not going to help me.

[monsoon 10]

mybe you should go and leave if youre not going to help me.

It's constructive criticisms. :serious:

[tripletres]

im a pansy is constructive criticizm? since when?

[monsoon 10]

im a pansy is constructive criticizm? since when?

Since.....now.

[tripletres]

well, in relativity, it is impossible to cal a time 'now' because as soon as you say it, it's in the past. so when exactly is 'now' hmmm?

[monsoon 10]

well, in relativity, it is impossible to cal a time 'now' because as soon as you say it, it's in the past. so when exactly is 'now' hmmm?

Now or at least the past moment referred to as now. Is around 5 minutes old since the posting of this comment.

[tripletres]

hehe... i like the way you think. but im still not a pansy.

[monsoon 10]

Whatever you say macho man...

[tripletres]

man! you're totally off. i am no pansy, but im not a "macho man" either. im just a normal smart guy who is, well,... normal.

[monsoon 10]

Can this thread please move on? I've already lost my interest in this particular conversation.

[tripletres]

you're the one keeping it goin.

[monsoon 10]

Whatever you say macho man...

I lost interest at this point just so you know.

[tripletres]

see! you could have just left it. but NOOOOO. you had to keep it going.

[monsoon 10]

I suppose I did have to keep it going. It is my curse alone to bare.

[tripletres]

well you're using your curse to curse me.

[monsoon 10]

well you're using your curse to curse me.

Then we shall live for ever on cursed.

[tripletres]

now, relatively of course, there is no 'forever' either. everything must end at some point.

[monsoon 10]

now, relatively of course, there is no 'forever' either. everything must end at some point.

The state of nothingness last forever.

[tripletres]

nothingness isnt there.

[monsoon 10]

nothingness isnt there.

Of course it's nothing therefor it is not capable of aging or "dying" per say. And therefor is forever.

[Koopaking]

http://www.animefuel.com/forum/showthread.php?t=959

[monsoon 10]

But I hate playing nice. Fine I submit for now to not disturb the peace.

[spirit]

well... hopefully my strategy will work. i gave her a note... i couldnt overcome my shyness, so i came up with that. It may seem weak and stupid, but thats fine.

By any chance did you give her the note that you have posted in the "poem forum" (or whatever they call it)... if yes, I hope she likes it. I would like it if someone would give it to me. I liked that metaphor, it wasn't too blunt... I hope she'll catch the tip ^^
Not so many guys are able to express their interest in such a delicate way... however some girls are very dull, ehh -_-"

[spirit]

It's constructive criticisms. :serious:

lol
I've never heard about it. What's "constructive" in calling someone names? hmm -_-
I believe there is a difference between criticism and insulting. But maybe some mistook one for the other ^^

[monsoon 10]

lol
I've never heard about it. What's "constructive" in calling someone names? hmm -_-
I believe there is a difference between criticism and insulting. But maybe some mistook one for the other ^^

By stating what they are doing wrong *name calling* they are encourage to change their ways.

[spirit]

By stating what they are doing wrong *name calling* they are encourage to change their ways.

I wonder... why would they want to change other's ways, in a first place? just let them be who they are... don't try to help other by changing them. They will change gradually.. but not by force ^^... no one like to be told to do something that is againt their nature, don't you think?
I think tripletres is looking more for a motivation and support. He needs to believe that he can accomplish his "mission". That's why it's better to be more tolerant for the way he act, hee hee ^^
Young ppl are still in a journey of searching for their true self and developing their strong character.

There's a hundred ways you could pet a cat to the death ^^

[monsoon 10]

I wonder... why would they want to change other's ways, in a first place? just let them be who they are... don't try to help other by changing them. They will change gradually.. but not by force ^^... no one like to be told to do something that is againt their nature, don't you think?
I think tripletres is looking more for a motivation and support. He needs to believe that he can accomplish his "mission". That's why it's better to be more tolerant for the way he act, hee hee ^^
Young ppl are still in a journey of searching for their true self and developing their strong character.

There's a hundred ways you could pet a cat to the death ^^

I think he needs a change of character by means of pressure.

[spirit]

I think he needs a change of character by means of pressure.
naah, he doesn't need that. It's not his character but that's his nature! You can't change someone's nature ;) I think he needs to start doing something to achive his goal, that's all.
Maybe you don't like the way he is... maybe you'd like to make him more like you? Well, we can't be all alike... that would make this world sooo borring!
Umm, let's not continue this topic. Let's just see what happens.

[monsoon 10]

naah, he doesn't need that. It's not his character but that's his nature! You can't change someone's nature ;) I think he needs to start doing something to achive his goal, that's all.
Maybe you don't like the way he is... maybe you'd like to make him more like you? Well, we can't be all alike... that would make this world sooo borring!
Umm, let's not continue this topic. Let's just see what happens.

Yes you can, you'd be surprised how quickly humans change their "nature" under the right stimuli.

[Koopaking]

Yes you can, you'd be surprised how quickly humans change their "nature" under the right stimuli.

Indeed, I could be feeling calm natured one minute, then suddenly a stimulus is produced, in the form of a gnome running in and kicking me rather hard in the pelvis, and I become angry natured and suddenly have the desire to go on a gnome genocide rampage.

[monsoon 10]

But of course you refrain since you are aware that declaring war on the gnome people is to result in defeat.

[spirit]

Well, I meant the one nature that we all are born with, not the variety of behavioral/metal acts due to different circumstances and stimulation.

[monsoon 10]

Well, I meant the one nature that we all are born with, not the variety of behavioral/metal acts due to different circumstances and stimulation.

Not to insult your idealism but their is no such thing as an emotional nature, just the stacking of different actions in response to their stimuli. Eventually this may become a "personality" but it is still a very changeable thing.

[Koopaking]

But of course you refrain since you are aware that declaring war on the gnome people is to result in defeat.

Perhaps to some but not to me. After all, I will win.

[monsoon 10]

Perhaps to some but not to me. After all, I will win.

I suppose one can win at losing a war.

[spirit]

Not to insult your idealism but their is no such thing as an emotional nature, just the stacking of different actions in response to their stimuli. Eventually this may become a "personality" but it is still a very changeable thing.

Do you study psychology or something related to it? ^^

[Koopaking]

I suppose one can win at losing a war.

It's called "Gnome Extermination Laser"

[spirit]

I suppose one can win at losing a war.

*smiles* ^^
that's a good one

[monsoon 10]

Do you study psychology or something related to it? ^^

Not really I just find the psyche of humans interesting. So I read and I read about it.

It's called "Gnome Extermination Laser"

Oh you fool the gnome people have injected themselves with a chemical that makes them grow to average height for a one day, your laser is useless, face it this is the end of your laser and the end of the battle.

[tripletres]

well, after being off for two days, i see that people like to change the subject a lot dont they? it was interesting to watch, though. um... so far she hasn't answered to my note, and in my head i dont even think she read it. so thats my nature sp!r!t. kinda a downer, aint it. thas a reason why i would like a girlfriend. and after evaluating myself, i dont really care if she's hot or not. i just would like her to believe in me and back me up in what i do. that would be nice. maybe to change my nature...

o yeah... and if the off chance she says yes... how would you suggest i start a conversation?

[Sun Tzu]

o yeah... and if the off chance she says yes... how would you suggest i start a conversation?

"Question: How much does a polar bear weigh?"

"Answer: Enough to break the Ice, hi my names 333"

[analogZero]

o yeah... and if the off chance she says yes... how would you suggest i start a conversation?

nice shoes...

[athrun0017]

Well not necessarly.. simple put, but name calling , judging what someone does wrong so that they may change does not change a thing.. its merely another opinion given by someone who disagrees..

[athrun0017]

....... ....

[monsoon 10]

well, after being off for two days, i see that people like to change the subject a lot dont they? it was interesting to watch, though. um... so far she hasn't answered to my note, and in my head i dont even think she read it. so thats my nature sp!r!t. kinda a downer, aint it. thas a reason why i would like a girlfriend. and after evaluating myself, i dont really care if she's hot or not. i just would like her to believe in me and back me up in what i do. that would be nice. maybe to change my nature...

o yeah... and if the off chance she says yes... how would you suggest i start a conversation?

Easy just say "A little less conversation, a little more action please
All this aggravation aint satisfactioning me
A little more bite and a little less bark
A little less fight and a little more spark
Close your mouth and open up your heart and baby satisfy me
Satisfy me baby"

And if she hasn't fallen for you head over heels by then you know she is a gay.

[tripletres]

Easy just say "A little less conversation, a little more action please
All this aggravation aint satisfactioning me
A little more bite and a little less bark
A little less fight and a little more spark
Close your mouth and open up your heart and baby satisfy me
Satisfy me baby"

And if she hasn't fallen for you head over heels by then you know she is a gay.

yeah... um... i dont think i could say that...

[monsoon 10]

yeah... um... i dont think i could say that...

And why is that exactly?

[tripletres]

And why is that exactly?

because thats just not me. i dont act like that... especially around women.

[analogZero]

because thats just not me. i dont act like that... especially around women.

no need to act, it's all in the hip swagger

[Russkie]

Where I live, there are few people, And I myself am a "teen". Maybe you shouldnt concern yourself with finding a girl friend and focus on more important things? By the way, If I dont make any sense (like I may be) then thats because my english is very poor.

[monsoon 10]

because thats just not me. i dont act like that... especially around women.

So you do that around men? Eww...gross. (I JK I JK)

[gunbound15]

are you sure you really need a girlfriend right now? i don't have ideas on how to get a girlfriend instantly so i would suggest you try to be a more outgoing person. try to have more best friends that are girls, and hang out with them a lot. that will ease your lovesickness a bit, and other girls will see that and think you're a cool guy.

[gunbound15]

but whatever you do, make sure you stay smart and kind. only stupid girls go out with dumb jerks. and find a way to occupy your time.

[Neophoenix]

I need to find someone on here thats my age

[Mugen]

From what I know, most girls want the one; caring, sharing, understanding.

[partyprobe]

IM curious are you a girl mugen because talking to you for awhile im lost

[analogZero]

From what I know, most girls want the one; caring, sharing, understanding.

some girls want the paper, or the image too tho. they're a bunch with a high likelyhood of insecurity. They could also just be after a rogering...

[Mugen]

some girls want the paper, or the image too tho. they're a bunch with a high likelyhood of insecurity. They could also just be after a rogering...I love that verb "rogering". But, yeah. You're true. Alot of girls have forgotten the real purpose of a relationship. Love and stuff. It is all about money...

[leerock89]

Money money money, money....MONEY!! Money money money, money....MONEY!!

[partyprobe]

Money money money, money....MONEY!! Money money money, money....MONEY!!

Well said.......

[monsoon 10]

I love that verb "rogering". But, yeah. You're true. Alot of girls have forgotten the real purpose of a relationship. Love and stuff. It is all about money...

I'm going to have to question that statement.

[Mugen]

I'm going to have to question that statement.Oh, why? Do tell. ^_^

[monsoon 10]

Oh, why? Do tell. ^_^

Well back in olden times it would appear that the term love was only for men, while women simply would marry men who they "loved" to marry up in the social ladder. Now that ideal was only discarded during the 1920's or around that time, so it is still very recent that being the case I think that type of thinking is still popular around this time.

[partyprobe]

Beware monsoon dont get on mugen's bad ite i heard he or she likes to bite.

[Mugen]

Well back in olden times it would appear that the term love was only for men, while women simply would marry men who the loved to marry up in the social ladder. Now that ideal was only discarded during the 1920's or around that time, so it is still very recent that being the case I think that type of thinking is still popular around this time.
Oh, so every woman on the Earth at the period of time would follow that rule? xD

[partyprobe]

lol as this goes on i cant stop laughing and i have to side with mugen on this one.

[monsoon 10]

Oh, so every woman on the Earth at the period of time would follow that rule? xD

It's either that or their father or mother would beat them into submission. But no I would assume every rule has its exceptions.

[Mugen]

Whoa! That's mean! Thanks for the information, buddy! ^_^

[Nahmu]

wow sun tzu, it looks as if you have got the psychological section of the dating ritual dancing down pat... however, in your analysis, i felt a lack of a key element. the emotional aspect. relationships can't boil down to a one-situation-fits-all, but i really admire your analysis and subsequent commentary on dating.


But college should yield different results, namely Angelica. Beautiful and intelligent. However she feels that she is alone in this terrible world and no one else can off any form of comfort. I could make a move but im over 4 hours away so... im kind of shafted. Incubating is what Im doing for another 2 months until I move up there. Thats when the real game begins.


keeping with my hunch that emotion is a little too overshadowed by course of actions, how would your beautiful and intelligent angelica feel that you have posted her on this forum. she sounds like a very introverted persona, she might be utterly embarrassed to know that she has been talked about online.

but the reason why i am here is because curiosity is getting the better of me, did said potential girlfriend ever answer your note, tripletres??

[monsoon 10]

Whoa! That's mean! Thanks for the information, buddy! ^_^

I hope we are talking about ways of life pre 1920's ideals. I get the feeling we are talking about different times for some reason.

[Sun Tzu]

keeping with my hunch that emotion is a little too overshadowed by course of actions, how would your beautiful and intelligent angelica feel that you have posted her on this forum. she sounds like a very introverted persona, she might be utterly embarrassed to know that she has been talked about online.



I suppose your correct, I didnt really take her feelings into account when I posted about her. She prides herself on her introverted nature, and put in the position where she discovered my commentary I suppose she would act.... now theres the clincher, I have no idea and dont wish to speak for her. Perhaps next time I get the chance Ill drag her to the computer and have her tell me what she thought.

[Nahmu]

Perhaps next time I get the chance Ill drag her to the computer and have her tell me what she thought.

well, since you have to be in a close physical range to drag (though not the most romantic move) her, i would say that is mission accomplished; friendship gained and you're on your way. especially if she doesn't try to gauge your eyes out after the dragging and embarrassment occurring shortly thereafter.

[Sun Tzu]

well, since you have to be in a close physical range to drag (though not the most romantic move) her, i would say that is mission accomplished; friendship gained and you're on your way. especially if she doesn't try to gauge your eyes out after the dragging and embarrassment occurring shortly thereafter.

trust me, if she gauged my eyes out over embarressment over this I would be surprised. She should have been decencitized by now.

[Nahmu]

trust me, if she gauged my eyes out over embarressment over this I would be surprised. She should have been decencitized by now.

desensitized? i thought you were trying to win her over, not push her away?
if you are a very eccentric person, i realize that you may interpret my response as me advising you to hide part of your persona in order to create a solid friendship, but it is definitely better for you both to be completely truthful, as you probably already know.

[Sun Tzu]

desensitized? i thought you were trying to win her over, not push her away?
if you are a very eccentric person, i realize that you may interpret my response as me advising you to hide part of your persona in order to create a solid friendship, but it is definitely better for you both to be completely truthful, as you probably already know.

Suffice to say aye, I am eccentric. I enjoy being me, and I refuse to hide my true persona to manipulate another person into liking me. I spent my entire grade school career adhering to this belief and I refuse to change it no matter how much I like this girl. Stupid and selfish? Most definitely. But if I was anything else it would be false advertising.

Funnily enough I just finished having this same conversation with a friend of mine... who for a time I thought you were. Until she convinced me otherwise.

[Nahmu]

Suffice to say aye, I am eccentric. I enjoy being me, and I refuse to hide my true persona to manipulate another person into liking me. I spent my entire grade school career adhering to this belief and I refuse to change it no matter how much I like this girl. Stupid and selfish? Most definitely. But if I was anything else it would be false advertising.

Funnily enough I just finished having this same conversation with a friend of mine... who for a time I thought you were. Until she convinced me otherwise.

anyone who associates with marvin has got to be a little off of their rocker, and i can appreciate that. however, i hope your similarities end there or you will run into trouble wooing the intelligent angelica.

speaking of similarities, it's odd that you identify my personality in a female figure in your life. i have often been told that i am more feminine than expected. and i am bothered by that not because my homophobic reality tells me to be masculine, but because people have set up expectations for me without even knowing me.

also, i seem to be in the mood for tangents today.

[Sun Tzu]

anyone who associates with marvin has got to be a little off of their rocker, and i can appreciate that. however, i hope your similarities end there or you will run into trouble wooing the intelligent angelica.

speaking of similarities, it's odd that you identify my personality in a female figure in your life. i have often been told that i am more feminine than expected. and i am bothered by that not because my homophobic reality tells me to be masculine, but because people have set up expectations for me without even knowing me.

also, i seem to be in the mood for tangents today.

The fact that she was female is completely moot. It was simply something she might do, no what tuned me into her possibly being you was the fact that she and you suffered earily similar problems at the exact same time. Your both from California, along with a few other things. It was simply 15 minutes where I thought you were her, and there was no evidence proving me wrong. Now I simply realize that I was simply looking at the evidence that supported my "theory" and ignoring all else.

While deep down I feel you might still be her, just screwing with me for her own devices, its also entirely possibly your a different person. Who knows California is a big place ::D:

BTW dont feel bad If that made no sense, it wasnt supposed to.

[Nahmu]

While deep down I feel you might still be her, just screwing with me for her own devices, its also entirely possibly your a different person. Who knows California is a big place.

i guess only time will differentiate between your friend and i. who knows, maybe we even know each other, but a primary cause for my love of the internet are multiple, brand-new slates of recreation. maybe i am not who you think i am... maybe she isn't either.

[Sun Tzu]

i guess only time will differentiate between your friend and i. who knows, maybe we even know each other, but a primary cause for my love of the internet are multiple, brand-new slates of recreation. maybe i am not who you think i am... maybe she isn't either.

you toss the wrench of doubt quite deftly into the machinery of my mind my friend.

My question to you is this, if the rule I before E except after C is absolute then you do you spell the word weird the way that we do?

[Nahmu]

My question to you is this, if the rule I before E except after C is absolute then you do you spell the word weird the way that we do?

it is possible that the significance of the word is so powerful that it bent the rules of grammar at will. it's not so far fetched: i also am weird and do what i feel like because i can. so, it can be stipulated what weird simply created an exception for itself and its neighbor because he could.

[Sun Tzu]

it is possible that the significance of the word is so powerful that it bent the rules of grammar at will. it's not so far fetched: i also am weird and do what i feel like because i can. so, it can be stipulated what weird simply created an exception for itself and its neighbor because he could.

Perhaps, but can you explain the words pie, die, and Leonard Skinnard

[Nahmu]

Perhaps, but can you explain the words pie, die, and Leonard Skinnard

let us see if my bs-ing skills are up to par.

first off, to the best of my knowledge, it is written "lynyrd skynyrd", which is weird in and of itself and i will go no further in trying to explain the inexplicable that is lynyrd skynyrd.

as for die, as it concerns death, the end of all things... i don't think it gives a crap about grammar. who is going to pick a fight with death about inconsistencies of the english language?

lets see... pie... ooh, pie. that sounds so delicious. ah ha! pie prides itself on getting away with such a vile act of rule breaking because it can get away with it.
"inconsistant, am i?" said the delicious pie.
and then the questioner of the ludicrous rule is gripped with either a) fond childhood memories b) a fix for whipped cream c) drowns in his own salivation. pie has mighty powers that should not be reckoned with.

[Sun Tzu]

let us see if my bs-ing skills are up to par.

first off, to the best of my knowledge, it is written "lynyrd skynyrd", which is weird in and of itself and i will go no further in trying to explain the inexplicable that is lynyrd skynyrd.

as for die, as it concerns death, the end of all things... i don't think it gives a crap about grammar. who is going to pick a fight with death about inconsistencies of the english language?

lets see... pie... ooh, pie. that sounds so delicious. ah ha! pie prides itself on getting away with such a vile act of rule breaking because it can get away with it.
"inconsistant, am i?" said the delicious pie.
and then the questioner of the ludicrous rule is gripped with either a) fond childhood memories b) a fix for whipped cream c) drowns in his own salivation. pie has mighty powers that should not be reckoned with.

you are quite good at this, though unfortunately you cant kill grammar, the damn thing keeps dragging me back to English class no matter how many times I pass.

Pie is infallible, if reality and pie were to clash, then reality would be wrong. Pie is always correct, and I expect I knew this before I posted.

So you have shot down all 3 points and answered the fourth, congrats, would you like an Earl Gray tea? Or you more of a green man?

[Nahmu]

So you have shot down all 3 points and answered the fourth, congrats, would you like an Earl Gray tea? Or you more of a green man?

hmm... i am pondering just how far to take my mysterious namelessness. how much would you learn about me as a person if you knew what tea i drink? this is to be my last post of the night and now i have to face a difficult choice... shall i extend a hand of friendship or preserve my anonymity?

green tea.

and good night.

[Sun Tzu]

hmm... i am pondering just how far to take my mysterious namelessness. how much would you learn about me as a person if you knew what tea i drink? this is to be my last post of the night and now i have to face a difficult choice... shall i extend a hand of friendship or preserve my anonymity?


it would only help me if I knew you,

fare thee well, may the winds of fortune sweep into the harbor of your dreams.

gods How I love bullshit metaphors that dont mean anything

[Nahmu]

it would only help me if I knew you,

fare thee well, may the winds of fortune sweep into the harbor of your dreams.

gods How I love bullshit metaphors that dont mean anything

well, maybe you already do know me or we are soon to meet if i somehow win a surprise trip to europe... and there is always the possibility that we will never encounter one another besides through animefuel, but enough of that talk.

as for your winds of fortune, i hope they blow hard enough to chisel away your unhappiness yet strong enough to push good people, good opportunities and good experiences in your direction. farewell and good luck.

[gunbound15]

well, maybe you already do know me or we are soon to meet if i somehow win a surprise trip to europe... and there is always the possibility that we will never encounter one another besides through animefuel, but enough of that talk.

as for your winds of fortune, i hope they blow hard enough to chisel away your unhappiness yet strong enough to push good people, good opportunities and good experiences in your direction. farewell and good luck.

say wha? are you trying to make a fool out me foo!? the only winds we talk about here are the ones that koopa breaks whenever he's out in public.

[hanahime16]

If i were in your situation triple, i would first try to make friends with the girl. i mean, you said you have a very small class right? Any girl in that situation would have preconceived notions about you she thinks you are, you know? But dont let that discourage you. You just have to show her that you are the cool person you know you are. I was in a very small class as well, and there were some guys who really suprised me with how fun and nice they were. I just needed to get to know them. The most important thing is, please, dont trip over yourself trying to impress her. Its not what matters. Just show her you are a good friend and good person, and the rest will follow. i hope i could help.

[strike7785]

If i were in your situation triple, i would first try to make friends with the girl. i mean, you said you have a very small class right? Any girl in that situation would have preconceived notions about you she thinks you are, you know? But dont let that discourage you. You just have to show her that you are the cool person you know you are. I was in a very small class as well, and there were some guys who really suprised me with how fun and nice they were. I just needed to get to know them. The most important thing is, please, dont trip over yourself trying to impress her. Its not what matters. Just show her you are a good friend and good person, and the rest will follow. i hope i could help.

Great Advice newbe

[suune]

Try hanging out with only a few people and get to know different types so you can find out which one does suit your own personality best. You don't go to a starnger and say "BE MY GIRLFRIEND!"

You have to admit...it's IDIOTIC!

The problem these days is that everyone wants everything right now... Sorry won't happen....take some time. You don't want too much mistakes that you will regret someday...

[monsoon 10]

The stupid OP hasn't been here for three weeks the mere fact that this thread continues to drag on its pitiful existence angers me.

[tripletres]

The stupid OP hasn't been here for three weeks the mere fact that this thread continues to drag on its pitiful existence angers me.
who is that stupid OP anyway, monsoon? jus curious.

[RzXzB]

My tip is just be yourself

[monsoon 10]

who is that stupid OP anyway, monsoon? jus curious.

The one that can't type "just" properly. Also an update on the situation would be nice.

[tripletres]

k. as soon as i can overcome my uberly high shyness, i would see if she would like to hang out with me some time... maybe iceskate, movies... somthin like that. any advice on what to do?

[monsoon 10]

k. as soon as i can overcome my uberly high shyness, i would see if she would like to hang out with me some time... maybe iceskate, movies... somthin like that. any advice on what to do?

Why must you butcher the German language?

[tripletres]

Why must you butcher the German language?
well... it just seemed appropriate. so are you going to help me, or just be a pain?

[monsoon 10]

well... it just seemed appropriate. so are you going to help me, or just be a pain?

Can I be both?

[tripletres]

Can I be both?
*sigh...* you can be a pain as long as you give your opinion while you do it...

[monsoon 10]

...Fine here we go. I think it's pathetic you have made little or no progress since you started telling us about your problem, and frankly before I can help you I need to know if you are just attracted to this girl physically or if there is more to it than that.

[tripletres]

...Fine here we go. I think it's pathetic you have made little or no progress since you started telling us about your problem, and frankly before I can help you I need to know if you are just attracted to this girl physically or if there is more to it than that.
actually, im in agreement with you. it is pathetic. but then again, its my fault... well, each coin has two sides...

[spirit]

...Fine here we go. I think it's pathetic you have made little or no progress since you started telling us about your problem, and frankly before I can help you I need to know if you are just attracted to this girl physically or if there is more to it than that.
impossible! monsoon speaking in human words.... lol.....
But to be serious about it..... it's been a while since you've started off this topic.... I was hoping you would progress by goin "with the flow".... I'm not sure if that's due to your age, personality or being unexperienced with girls (or maybe all together). But if you really care... if you really want to make something out of it... then you should act faster and be more self-confident!... you can't just wait until something happens on its own....
And yes, monsoon made a good point. Are you physically attracted to this girl... or do you have some feelings towards her?
Do you feel comfortable talking to her? You just need to be natural... as you are talkin to me or any other person....
You think too much but don't act!
yo... it doesn't really matter.... what you plan to do with her... or the places you take her. If you have a problem with that - just ask her if there's something she would like to do/go etc.
When I was younger... I just asked boys to come over my house.... and we had some fun watching movies, playing games... eating... talking etc

[monsoon 10]

impossible! monsoon speaking on human words.... lol.....


Pssh...you're just mad because I already shot down your olive branch twice.

[analogZero]

dude! you're still lagging?! a real warrior would've jumped on her, like a beast!

[tripletres]

tomorow, i will call her and see if she would like to, um... do something, i guess. i promise. does that satisfy you all? ill keep you informed on the outcome.

[athrun0017]

actually that doesn't sound like a good idea at all.. i have a better idea! but let me know if you want to hear what it is.

[milo]

Be confidint in the fact that you are smart and nice and if you find someone you like in the real world become a friend and when a chance that you two do like each other find a way to ask I am shy myself but when I thought I would lose my chance I took the shyness and threw it to the side for that minute of course after that I got back to being shy but I live without regrets!

[sparkrose]

dont be yourself you have to act a bit but not so much that when you reveal the real you they can accept it
it sounds different then what most would say but normal things arent fun
do something extraordinary
do something glamorous
get noticed by doing something thats totally strange but totally you
Be true to yourself and have fun
oh and relax
good luck

[analogZero]

I just recalled a statistic that could help you! saying a girl's name when speaking to her actually makes you stick in their head better. so instead of saying plain ol' "hi", say "hi (insert name of sexy mama you're addressing)"
take the tidbit and advance one space.

[Aikes]

Women like alpha males. It is something psychologically deep within women. You could call it a genetic throw back. In nearly all animals, the dominate specimen is preferred as a mate because their offspring are more likely to survive. The better provider is, in the animal kingdom, almost always the specimen that is bigger, stronger, faster, and willing to take risks that others are too afraid to venture (the bad boy syndrome).

Men are no different. Men are attracted to womanly attributes that make them seem to be better providers on a base level. Curved hips mean easier child birth and larger breasts mean more milk production for offspring.

In todays society we have a whole new collection or provider rules but our instinct and genetics tend to lead us back to more animalistic tendencies.

The bottom line? Make yourself into a better provider. Stability, strength, wealth, daring or courageous behavior, self confidence... these are all signs of virility.

[spirit]

tomorow, i will call her and see if she would like to, um... do something, i guess. i promise. does that satisfy you all? ill keep you informed on the outcome.
Tomorrow? Why not today? or a week a go? Why do you plant to do everything in the future and not right now?.... the time is now.
Does that satisfy us all? --- Wait a second, are you doing this for us?? or for your own sake ?? .... If you feel like you're pushing yourself... 'cause you feel pressure .... and just want to please some ppl on AF... then .. this is all wrong.... ;/
Wake up, boy.... you need to sit down, and think.... to realize what is that you want?.....
Do you want girls to notice you more?.... Are you looking for them to be attracted to you?..... or maybe you're looking for a serious relationship?.... what is it?...... and is THIS girl... the one you are interested in... or just some "random" person.... you picked from the mass....
You need to talk to her.... in order to get to know her better.... therefore... to to know if you really like her... and then by knowing her personality/ interests etc -> meet her expectations.... If you gonna isolate yourself...... then northing's gonna change... If you want someone to like you - same thing - You need to put yourself out there! Don't wait.... try to spent with her as much time as you can.... and she allows you to....... If she's not interested/busy or whatever - then she will tell you...... You can't make some presumptions... that someone dislikes you before you even let them get to know you! Give them a chance! Before you... give up on trying... lol
If I were you... and really wanted to spend some time with a boy I like..... I would be on my way to him right away.... or at least I would call him.... Sometimes having a nice talk on a phone is enough to break the ice....... Just call her, ask if she has some time, and if she wants to talk to you about anything..... tell her you would like to get to know her.... but you don't want to feel like some kind of intruder.... lol ^^

[Muse]

-Edit-

god! wrong thread xP sorry!

[Nahmu]

Women like alpha males. It is something psychologically deep within women. You could call it a genetic throw back. In nearly all animals, the dominate specimen is preferred as a mate because their offspring are more likely to survive. The better provider is, in the animal kingdom, almost always the specimen that is bigger, stronger, faster, and willing to take risks that others are too afraid to venture (the bad boy syndrome).

Men are no different. Men are attracted to womanly attributes that make them seem to be better providers on a base level. Curved hips mean easier child birth and larger breasts mean more milk production for offspring.

In todays society we have a whole new collection or provider rules but our instinct and genetics tend to lead us back to more animalistic tendencies.

The bottom line? Make yourself into a better provider. Stability, strength, wealth, daring or courageous behavior, self confidence... these are all signs of virility.


http://www.animefuel.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2650

[partyprobe]

This is odd for me but im good with the girls but they are just like how can i explain this. They grab a piece of the cake but they dont stay for the whole thing. Every time i get close to a girl and get in a relationship they pull out within a few weeks or a couple months. What could the problem be.

[monsoon 10]

This is odd for me but im good with the girls but they are just like how can i explain this. They grab a piece of the cake but they dont stay for the whole thing. Every time i get close to a girl and get in a relationship they pull out within a few weeks or a couple months. What could the problem be.

Make your own thread this other problem hasn't been solved yet. Also they probably became bored of you.

[analogZero]

This is odd for me but im good with the girls but they are just like how can i explain this. They grab a piece of the cake but they dont stay for the whole thing. Every time i get close to a girl and get in a relationship they pull out within a few weeks or a couple months. What could the problem be.

look up the word fickle in the dictionary. then look it up in a thesaurus to find women listed amongst the various alternatives of it's use.

[animex09]

i have the same problem as 333. see i like this girl but we barrely know each other. i dont know anithing about her or what she like but im to shy to aproach her. 333 has the advantage of knowing the girls, i dont. plus i hardly ever see her wich makes it harder.

[monsoon 10]

i have the same problem as 333. see i like this girl but we barrely know each other. i dont know anithing about her or what she like but im to shy to aproach her. 333 has the advantage of knowing the girls, i dont. plus i hardly ever see her wich makes it harder.

Give up. *Best advise I can give to you, seeing as how you're probably only interested in this girl based on physical attraction.*

[analogZero]

i have the same problem as 333. see i like this girl but we barrely know each other. i dont know anithing about her or what she like but im to shy to aproach her. 333 has the advantage of knowing the girls, i dont. plus i hardly ever see her wich makes it harder.

monsoon's right, you should go through life never trying to get to know anyone. Physical attraction is a sin!

[illuma]

but its the best kind of sin, oh wait no lust is the best kind of sin.

back to the point though finding a girl is indeed hard, but holding on to a girl is even harder. the first thing that should be done is to find out at least the basic shit about her. i mean if i was animex09 i would at least go out of my way to get her to acknowledge my existence. If i knew the girl though i would just get closer and send signals. it won't be as easy as how i write it though.

[tripletres]

OK all! listen up!! the other day, a girl came up to me, one whom ive known for most of my life, and asked me out. obviously, you can guess what i answered. so i guess lifes wierd like that, giving you what you want in ways you didnt expect. In fact, the girl that asked me out and the girl i had problems talking to are really similar, i cant believe i never thought of her as a gf. soooooo... this thread really was just 18 pages of wasted type. but thanks for your help anyways, guys!

-333

[analogZero]

OK all! listen up!! the other day, a girl came up to me, one whom ive known for most of my life, and asked me out. obviously, you can guess what i answered. so i guess lifes wierd like that, giving you what you want in ways you didnt expect. In fact, the girl that asked me out and the girl i had problems talking to are really similar, i cant believe i never thought of her as a gf. soooooo... this thread really was just 18 pages of wasted type. but thanks for your help anyways, guys!

-333

well it's good to hear you got something for your efforts. now ride the wave.

[illuma]

Man i am just so happy for you! If i was Gai or Lee i would give you a thumbs up with that sparkling smile. Anyway just don't screw up with her because it seems you have a hard time getting courage.

[monsoon 10]

OK all! listen up!! the other day, a girl came up to me, one whom ive known for most of my life, and asked me out. obviously, you can guess what i answered. so i guess lifes wierd like that, giving you what you want in ways you didnt expect. In fact, the girl that asked me out and the girl i had problems talking to are really similar, i cant believe i never thought of her as a gf. soooooo... this thread really was just 18 pages of wasted type. but thanks for your help anyways, guys!

-333
I agree the only thing left for this thread now is deletion.

[Mugen]

i have the same problem as 333. see i like this girl but we barrely know each other. i dont know anithing about her or what she like but im to shy to aproach her. 333 has the advantage of knowing the girls, i dont. plus i hardly ever see her wich makes it harder.Stalk her, my friend. Stalk her. Just aproach her, dude. What's the very worst that can happen? "Go away". That's about it.

[TheScryer]

Don't be afraid to say hello and introduce yourself! It's hard to keep the straight forward out of your head.

[TheScryer]

Thats only if your game is good spirit! ... in this guys case , its not looking too good! you know what i would do.. i would be a bit rebelious.. dress a bit drifferent, be more aggressive.. if you are a nerd like you said you are.. then people must pick on you.. and being shy.. you are not shy!!! if you asked 9 girls out and they all said no, you have guts!.. .......*whispers* the key is eye contact...
when you rebel, it will give you the attention you need.. don't get to carried away though.. take out a poetry book.. read it infront of everyone.. set your sites on the girl who you catch looking at you.. and talk with your eyes... glance at her and blow her off.. i can guarentee it would get her to look at you more.. once contact is established .. be cool.. quiet and collected..stare at her every once in a while seriously and then continue what you are doing.. do this for a couple of days everyone will get a very different picture of who you are and what you can do!!!
It works.. trust me..

Wow... You really have a way with words.... I'm already swooning and it's not because I'm your stalker...

[RavynMK]

I don't know about other girls but when a guy makes eye contact with me and smiles my heart flutters... you should try that... Also a guy that reads is attractive.. no matter what the book is.... Also guys who work out... maybe even once a month for about a half hour is attractive... just because of the attempt.... you don't need to work out because well really it means nothing... a guy who walks up and starts a conversation is also awesome... so long as they keep it focused on the girl at first... and make sure to point out similarities... I mean I'm no expert on dating... given my own bad record.... but seriously it's better to start out freinds with the person you want to date before you try to date them.. make sure you have things in common before you even seriously think about asking them out... because if you have nothing in common there will be nothing to hold that relationship together.

[spirit]

OK all! listen up!! the other day, a girl came up to me, one whom ive known for most of my life, and asked me out. obviously, you can guess what i answered. so i guess lifes wierd like that, giving you what you want in ways you didnt expect. In fact, the girl that asked me out and the girl i had problems talking to are really similar, i cant believe i never thought of her as a gf. soooooo... this thread really was just 18 pages of wasted type. but thanks for your help anyways, guys!

-333

wow, surprise... surprise..... ^_^.... and congrats ! ;)

[monsoon 10]

Wow... You really have a way with words.... I'm already swooning and it's not because I'm your stalker...

No double posting.

[analogZero]

Also guys who work out... maybe even once a month for about a half hour is attractive... just because of the attempt....

awesomeness has been quoted here

[TheScryer]

No double posting.

What the heck is doubling posting? And if it's what I think it is, I didn't.

[analogZero]

double posting is monsoon's achilles heel

[Plun]

You're not Shy anyways. It's not a problem for you then.

[monsoon 10]

double posting is monsoon's achilles heel

No it's my sworn enemy.

[Klard]

Bah, I've given up on girls. I don't care that I don't have a girlfriend. (This is clearly counter productive but I need to vent). People are so needy anyway, I have my own problems and concerns to deal with, I don't need an extra helping of them.


Just be yourself trip. If you have to change who you are to get a girl to like you, then she doesn't really like the real you.

[monsoon 10]

Bah, I've given up on girls. I don't care that I don't have a girlfriend. I'd rather be by myself anyway.(This is clearly counter productive but I need to vent). People are so needy anyway, I have my own problems and concerns to deal with, I don't need an extra helping of them.


Just be yourself trip. If you have to change who you are to get a girl to like you, then she doesn't really like the real you.

http://mimesisandviolence.files.wordpress.com/2007/10/ceiling_cat_is_watching_you_masturbate.jpg

Not as alone as you think Klard.

[Klard]

http://mimesisandviolence.files.wordpress.com/2007/10/ceiling_cat_is_watching_you_masturbate.jpg

Not as alone as you think Klard.

Dude, that's just weird. Here's how I respond, I didn't mean I like to touch myself, I meant that I don't want a girlfriend at the moment. So what's your point again?


http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn67/Winterwabbit/you-fail.jpg

[monsoon 10]

Dude, that's just weird. Here's how I respond, I didn't mean I like to touch myself, I meant that I don't want a girlfriend at the moment. So you what's your point again?


http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn67/Winterwabbit/you-fail.jpg

I'm sorry it's too late for apologies now.

[Klard]

Dude, it's called an edit button.

[monsoon 10]

Dude, it's called an edit button.

I suggest you use it.

[Klard]

I suggest you use it.

Are you trying to pick a fight with me? LET IT GO!

[monsoon 10]

Are you trying to pick a fight with me? LET IT GO!

NOT AFTER THAT CAPS LOCK.

[Klard]

NOT AFTER THAT CAPS LOCK.

It was intentional.

[monsoon 10]

It was intentional.

That's the very same reason why I'm making fun of it.

[leerock89]

Ok both of you STOP WASTING POST COUNTS ARGUING. Back to the thread. Girl problems eh?? Theres a thread here, Sun Tzu's art of Womanizing, go check that out if you want a swift kick in the nuts.

[Klard]

Ok both of you STOP WASTING POST COUNTS ARGUING. Back to the thread. Girl problems eh?? Theres a thread here, Sun Tzu's art of Womanizing, go check that out if you want a swift kick in the nuts.

Yes sir!
http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j22/Snake122286/DSCF0052.jpg

[gravion17]

I am going to give you a bit of advice that I wish that some one had given me when I was your age! I 2 was the Romantic at your age and it made 4 a really lonely time in High school. Ahem....."STOP BEING THE NICE GUY!" look around you my friend, who are the guys in your class and school who are ALWAYS with a chick or 3? of course you got the jocks, and the preps!(that's a given) but for reasons beyond comprehension, the guys who are complete DOUCHEBAGS seemed to be doing all right with the Ladies right? I am not saying turn your self into the Scourge of Humanity but a sharp tongue, an Aloof attitude, and proper grooming habits will work wonders! You don't have 2 believe me BUT there is a reason why there's the saying "Nice guys finish last"...DEAD LAST!!!

[saprintha]

o and sp!r!t, my class is small, so everyone knows everyone... literally. and im kinda sorta i-dont-like-to-admit-it nerd... and of course the girl(s) i like are... well, not nerds.

and using the term "Romeo" just means that i love with my eyes... a fault of mine.

i think you should express that smartness. yeah the girls are not nerds, but you may never know. some of them might not admit it just like you. if that's also wrong then sorry, but i know that a bunch of girls like guys who are smart. i do, cause i don't like people to fail because i care.(i'm a girl by the way.) and if i had a bf, i wouldn't like him to fail either. but then again, it may be different for you. but my advice is find out what kind of things the girls you like are and impress them from there. and it will gradually grow from there. or be friends with them actually talk to them first and then do what you have to do. just looking won't do any help at all. that's what i see my guy friends do. good luck. sorry if it's not helping. but it's okay to be the nice guy. just not too nice.

[chocolat12]

aww...tripletres

you should make friends with a lot of girls first...flirt with them...then soon one will totally fall for you...

hopefully a hot one...hehehe

[carolyn07]

...uhhhhmmmmmmmmmm?,.

i guess,.

know first why do you get busted by those who you date before and change it,.

or maybe,.you just got the wrong girl!,.♥