online relationships..

[x_lilium_x]

how hard is it??
is it safe??
is it legal??
is it good or bad??
i want to know more about it..
it's bugging me actually..:pissed:

im confused..someone pls tell me!!:dizzy:


tnx..^^

[Itachi]

They are hard cause you dont really get to see the person face to face thats prolly the hardest thing, It is safe if you know the person and dont give them your address or anything like that and you have to watch out for the stalkers and wierdos lol, Its is legal theres no laws saying you cant lol just be careful =)

[leerock89]

uh huh... staff does this belong here??

[Corwin]

no, this is more of an off topic type of post, problems and questions is for problems and questions w/ the site

[Sun Tzu]

seriously? Online friends are great, they truly are. But they arent real. Granted they will talk to you, and listen, but you cant go out for a beer afterwards. If your going to form a lasting relationship you have to do it outside of the monitor, otherwise its just two prepubescent boys cybering with each other.

As for the legality of it, just think of the internet as international waters. You can do whatever the hell you want out here, short of killing someone, and you won't get in trouble.

Another good thing to remember is that there are absolutely, without question, no girls on the internet. Any person that claims to be a girl is looking for attention, and has a penis. No exception...

[analogZero]

seriously? Online friends are great, they truly are. But they arent real. Granted they will talk to you, and listen, but you cant go out for a beer afterwards. If your going to form a lasting relationship you have to do it outside of the monitor, otherwise its just two prepubescent boys cybering with each other.

As for the legality of it, just think of the internet as international waters. You can do whatever the hell you want out here, short of killing someone, and you won't get in trouble.

Another good thing to remember is that there are absolutely, without question, no girls on the internet. Any person that claims to be a girl is looking for attention, and has a penis. No exception...


(b) cheers

[nena-X3]

They are hard cause you dont really get to see the person face to face thats prolly the hardest thing, It is safe if you know the person and dont give them your address or anything like that and you have to watch out for the stalkers and wierdos lol, Its is legal theres no laws saying you cant lol just be careful =)
what he said...lol XD

[athrun0017]

yeah.. it may seem alot easier but there is a huge risk of what may happen.. its best to just not do it.. Online relationships are hard!! like itachi said.. the fact that you can't see them face to face, is the hardest!!
..... but to each his own!

[psychosk8r]

Another good thing to remember is that there are absolutely, without question, no girls on the internet. Any person that claims to be a girl is looking for attention, and has a penis. No exception...

i resent that!!! im a girl and i swear i have no penis. on the other hand though my boyfriend of 5 years is the father of my child and i met him in a yahoo chat room. we were friends for about a year before we met and started dating. we would talk online or on the phone even.

[x_sasori_x]

this is too hard for couples..

[Ino]

Online friends are the best but online relationship is a bit...wrong. Online relationship is pretty safe as long you don't share personal information. (like Kakashizzz, he wanted my phone number.) Dating somebody online is bad because that person might be a online predator, molester, a murderer, a pervert and sex offender. If they're saying "I'm 13-16 years old," they're liars. They're saying that to say they're young and trick you. If you're dating somebody online...be careful. If they're foolish to share information about themselves, write them down. They might be on AMW. (America's Most Wanted)

[archangle]

i don't think its good, u don't really know if they are telling the truth and like Ino said they might be online predators

[xantok]

the most i tell anyone (that i have never met in person) online is the state i live in... and if your wierd enough to wanna search the state of texas for me then you go right ahead... ya aint gonna find me...

i dont believe in online relationships but my teacher met her husband online... so its up to you

[Shigami]

seriously? Online friends are great, they truly are. But they arent real. Granted they will talk to you, and listen, but you cant go out for a beer afterwards. If your going to form a lasting relationship you have to do it outside of the monitor, otherwise its just two prepubescent boys cybering with each other.

As for the legality of it, just think of the internet as international waters. You can do whatever the hell you want out here, short of killing someone, and you won't get in trouble.

Another good thing to remember is that there are absolutely, without question, no girls on the internet. Any person that claims to be a girl is looking for attention, and has a penis. No exception...

Just like Zero said,cheer's to that.
Oh and Ino,i dont think internet is the only place you will find this kind of people and especialy perverts.Real-world is FULL of them,and actually all the guys have a perverted side somewhere in them,Including myself of course :)

[Ryuuzaki]

I'll answer all of those questions the way I see it:
How hard is it?: If you plan to have an online relationship, then yes, it is hard.
Is it safe?: No, in my opinion, it is not safe at all. You never know who the other person is.
Is it legal?: Yes it is legal but not recommended.
Is it good or bad?: In my opinion, it's very bad.

My reasons for thinking all of this? It's hard because there is no emotional connection there. You may think there is but there truly isn't. It's fully legal but like I said, not recommended; you never know who the other person is or what their intentions are. I think it's bad because, like I said you never know who the other person is and what their intentions are with you.

But they arent real. Granted they will talk to you, and listen, but you cant go out for a beer afterwards. Your very right, they aren't real, but you can go and talk to them and have what fun you can on the internet with them.

Another good thing to remember is that there are absolutely, without question, no girls on the internet. Any person that claims to be a girl is looking for attention, and has a penis. No exception... I agree with most of that; the only thing I do not agree however with that fact that there are zero females on the internet since that is not entirely true though I get your point.

[Koopaking]

It's cool to have online friends, I have made plenty from online games and on this site. But I really honestly don't see how anyone could even end up in some sort of online relationship, unless they do it intentionally at a site for that sort of thing. I mean, if you are only corresponding over the internet, it shouldn't even be called a relationship, because it's not. It can lead to all kinds of things, so it's always advised against. But of course if you are lonely/desperate/stupid enough to do something like that, it's your own fault.

[silkshadow]

yeah having freinds online is good as long as you watch what you say and stuff i dont know about where you all live but there have been some pedo busts around here so like anything out there just have to watch yourself

[animaniac]

does it count if that person is your neighbor and your friend?

[Koopaking]

does it count if that person is your neighbor and your friend?

Well if they are your friend in real life you would already know them!

[animaniac]

how about you just found out he/she was your neighbor after you asked where his/her place is?

[tripletres]

Im my opinion, just drop the cause. Its stupid to have online-relationships. most of the time, you wont even meet the person. so my vote is not to have any. have some ramen instead.:ramen:

[x_lilium_x]

yeah..ramen and milk..

[Ryuuzaki]

Mm, that makes me want some ramen ^.^

[x_lilium_x]

ramen..yum..^^

[AyumiBee]

i think on internet you can meet friends, but honestly u can't know who is just playing a role and who not. Well in my case i never lie and im always acting like i do in real life. well those who i call friends here isn't playing a role or least my women sense tell me this. i trust those until they dump me but i hope that time never will come
Online relationship like dating- well it's a risky thing, i would say that don't do it though i heard strange stories with good ending, like: they met on a suicide webpage, after that they met in real life and now they are husband and wife and they got children
but i don't recommend these kind of relatinships

[crittenz]

how hard is it??
is it safe??
is it legal??
is it good or bad??
i want to know more about it..
it's bugging me actually..:pissed:

im confused..someone pls tell me!!:dizzy:


tnx..^^

Internet relationships are hard. Their okay though so long as your carefull about it. To begin with don't take anyone at face value. Make sure you know them from more than one web forum or chat site. That way you can make sure other people know them the same way you do. My ex husband i met on the internet from an anime fan forum calles Anime Chains. Our relationship didn't work out but that's not because we met online. It's still risky though. You just need to be carefull. Sometimes people lie about themselves. I for one don't but I'm not everyone.

[leerock89]

I have massive paranoia, so I will never want to meet anyone at all from online.

[Sun Tzu]

I have massive paranoia, so I will never want to meet anyone at all from online.

Hey Leerock, wanna come down to California for a good raping... Err ice cream?

[monsoon 10]

how hard is it??
is it safe??
is it legal??
is it good or bad??
i want to know more about it..
it's bugging me actually..:pissed:

im confused..someone pls tell me!!:dizzy:


tnx..^^

http://www.lolsauce.com/RandomBS/Pedo%20bear.png

[SinXxX]

Wow what a useless bear....
Online relationship is fine. Having friends (or BF/GF) with people in the net is a beatiful thing. It is not as good though, as having friends and partners in real life. There is this feeling when you are actually close to someone. You can see their habits, their reactions, their actual behavious, can hear their voice clearly etc. You are also more into giving what you think on the spot than when typing, you might rethink of what you say based on grammar and all those letter shits.

[leerock89]

Ice cream sound great!!! Ill bring the syrup and whip cream.

[monsoon 10]

Wow what a useless bear....
Online relationship is fine. Having friends (or BF/GF) with people in the net is a beatiful thing. It is not as good though, as having friends and partners in real life. There is this feeling when you are actually close to someone. You can see their habits, their reactions, their actual behavious, can hear their voice clearly etc. You are also more into giving what you think on the spot than when typing, you might rethink of what you say based on grammar and all those letter shits.

You need to get the reference....

[Sun Tzu]

Wow what a useless bear....
Online relationship is fine. Having friends (or BF/GF) with people in the net is a beatiful thing. It is not as good though, as having friends and partners in real life. There is this feeling when you are actually close to someone. You can see their habits, their reactions, their actual behavious, can hear their voice clearly etc. You are also more into giving what you think on the spot than when typing, you might rethink of what you say based on grammar and all those letter shits.

come on man, thats Pedo Bear, dudes a freaking bad ass and it is entirely related to this thread.

[SinXxX]

Really? Sorry for kicking the balls of the bear then. Im really old and out to date, give your old man a break. Also, Im not saying I hate it, it just looks retarded its funny.

[shiv]

how hard is it??
is it safe??
is it legal??
is it good or bad??
i want to know more about it..
it's bugging me actually..:pissed:

im confused..someone pls tell me!!:dizzy:


tnx..^^

dunno.. i never had one(i almost had one here..but she is not active nemore)
never needed a cyber relation..i would like one,cause i wanna visit US next year..and would be nice to have a friend there ^^

[a2ng0d]

Online relationships? I would advise against it. Nowadays, meeting someone on the street in person is risky enough. The internet is all the more dangerous as you cannot physically see who you are talking to. You have no idea what the person is like, how they act, and you have no telling what is going through their head. All you have to go on is what you see in their typing. but who knows, there are some cases where people meet their soul mates online. I still wouldnt recommend looking online for a bf/gf though.