i don't know what to do..HELP!!

[kudosasuke]

help!!

:eyes:

:crying:

i just want advices,,

my bestfriend and i got fight! actually it's not fight, it's just that i really don't know what she wants to tell me. And some of my classmates said that my bestfriend is a backfighter..(it's not fighting in my back).. backfighter is a person who puts blame on other especially when that person did'nt know.. (it's hard to explain, but i hope you understand) i just want to talk to her and let us be bestfriends again...:crying: she's the only person i trusted so much..


i want to talk with her..
but i don't know what to say..

please give me some advice..

thanks.

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[Ryuuzaki]

Well, I really haven't gotten in many fights with my friends or even argued too much with them; so I can't give first hand experience advice. This is what I would do, first just ask in a calmly manner, just say, "What is bugging you? What is it that you can't or won't tell me?" If they don't answer or they just start to argue with you, then either just tell them that you need to know if theres something that needs to be said to you. So then continue to try and do something you were doing before this whole tussle started. If that doesn't work, I'm sure some of the others here that have first hand experience can help you out a lot more then I can. Good luck with it though and I hope you get your best friend back! ^^

[Minato]

just ask her wat wrog and tell her u sorry even tho u didint had nothing to do for the case u now wat i mean...just try to talk to her if she ur bestfriend she definetly be ur bestfriend again just try and i hope it goes well GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!

[strike7785]

First you should let things cool down between you to for what ever reason that may be. Then when she is alone apporach and talk to her to see whats been said and going on

[AyumiBee]

In a peacefull moment ask her what's the problem, why did she argued with you, what did you do wrong. if u got the anserw then try to talk it over with her. if she is your best frind she will listen you and i think you can definitely find the anserw you can become best friends as you always were.

[analogZero]

step 1. buck up, give yourself an the situation some time to cool off.

step 2. Think of what the root could be. In the worst case she's blown something completely out of proportion, so it could even be something small. being able to think clearly about all possible causes will give you a clearer head when you talk to her about it.

step 3. don't listen to gossip regardless of it's source. In courtrooms it's called heresay, and it counts for dick all. consider it the greatest sin never written.

step 4. confront her about it. tell her that you want her friendship but she'll have to explain what precisely it is that's caused such a rift between the two of you.

step 5. don't get into an argument over it. conflict is like fire, it likes to eat everything in it's path, so don't get over emotional even if she does.

step 6. I hope everything works out!

[monsoon 10]

Clearly the only way to win back her friendship is to pull her hair, kick dirt in her face, and run away.

[leerock89]

I have a friend that does the same thing. So all I do is talk shit in front of his face, so that he knows that I will tell it to his face not behind his back.

[kudosasuke]

thank you for the advice!^^

hope i can make it..

[soulten]

the best thing to do is honestly talk it out, but if you do have an AK-47 it may go faster.

[kudosasuke]

uhmm...what's AK-47? just wondering...

[NightWolf]

Ok so i didnt get a chance to read everyones answer to this. but i agree with strike on this, . . . you've got something to tell the person, yet you dont want them to still be upset. the hardest part is letting go of that friend for a while and let things settle down. and you'll know when that other person seems to be ready to talk to you. usually its best not to try and talk when theres a lot of people around, it makes things seem a little more tense. so a calm, quiet , mature conversation, can lead back to friendship, may not immediately go back to the status it was, but easyier to get back there.
. . . all i can say

[NightWolf]

Oh and btw AK-47 is a machine gun >_<

[Rock]

i usally dont fight with friends but when it comes to it then its like BOOM and couple of hrs later insulting eachother tru chat were fine in the end ^^

P.S. got no idea how to help u ! /slap ur friend and say i love ya lets just be together?

[Shigami]

i usally dont fight with friends but when it comes to it then its like BOOM and couple of hrs later insulting eachother tru chat were fine in the end ^^

P.S. got no idea how to help u ! /slap ur friend and say i love ya lets just be together?

Wont that take it to a whole other stage since he's friend is actually a girl Rock?:oo:

[Rock]

Wont that take it to a whole other stage since he's friend is actually a girl Rock?:oo:

then just say to her thant u love u and all u want is to be together with here. cut the part ''/slap'' out and there u go in that case^^

yeah slaping girls wouldnt make it better heh

[monsoon 10]

Oh and btw AK-47 is a machine gun >_<

Wrong the AK-47 is a 7.62 mm assault rifle developed in the Soviet Union by Mikhail Kalashnikov

[BlueSano]

i personally go with analogzero's opinion (tried it personaly it really works)
and if every thing works out you two must agree to face each other if there is something you heard or was said about you or her to avoid future conflict ....good luck hope every thing works out