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sapphireAT
05-12-2008, 05:23 PM
ok heres the thing ... i met a guy....(tho i do already have a bf but this is bothering me so bad) he's name is steve. 27 years old... me 21...we flirted but nothing bad...the only thing that got to me was that he wouldnt date me because im way to much out of his league..aka ...im too hawt (hottttt). should this bother me bc i cant date the average guy? help!!!!
saph:fruit::mad:

animaniac
05-12-2008, 05:26 PM
that just means he thinks you deserve better then. Be proud though I don' look to my advise much I wouldn't know.

Ryuuzaki
05-12-2008, 05:28 PM
Ok well first, theres no way to change your, "hawtness". Second he's probably just saying that as another line. Third, you already have a boyfriend so why would you need to care if you can't go out with some other guy? If you and your boyfriend were unhappy then I can see where this would be a problem but as far as I can tell you two are fine together. So unless you plan of ditching your current boyfriend I wouldn't care about what some other person who is 6 years older then thinks.

Don't take any of that in a rude way either lol

sapphireAT
05-12-2008, 05:31 PM
i dont plan on ditching neone it just bothered me bc i was never told that b4....the part where i was too hot for them...didnt know exactly what to do but thanks guys
and me and arcose are happy together ..very happy =^.^=

Shoga
05-12-2008, 07:35 PM
So what I do modeling and some acting work,(mostly as an extra or get 1 or 2 lines). Send everything to Hell and go for it if you want it. Just because I do modeling doesn't mean I will only date models. How foolish! Set the bastard straight and go for it if you want to. I have more than 2 jobs. I cook at night, work on a golf course during the day, and go on shoots whenever my agent calls. There's no excuse if you like somebody! Get over yourself girl and do whatever makes you happy!

Corwin
05-12-2008, 08:35 PM
Basically if the guy feels he can't date you it's like Ryu said, it's either a line, or he has such low self confidence that he doesn't feel you'll say yes, so he's satisfying the desire to flirt but avoiding the letdown of rejection, it's sad but it happens

Ino
05-12-2008, 10:48 PM
Actually, you shouldn't panic. There's a ton of girls that can't date average guys, it doesn't mean you can't date them. Are you ready to date a guy or not? Keep a journal (or Diary) to keep all your personal thoughts. Always remember, be yourself.

leerock89
05-13-2008, 12:12 AM
Wait, wait, wait. This guy said he coulnt date you becuase your too hot? Is this guy ok?? I mean if I got the chance to date a hot girl I would take it! He's a closet gay??

analogZero
05-13-2008, 12:59 AM
k, goofy dude from knocked up and many other films, seth rogen, hooked up with notably one of the top supermodels of last year, daria. girls are never too hot for a guy, he's either a) got bad ass low self esteem, b) gay, c) doesn't realize I stole a hot girl away from him...hey! wink (jk)


http://www.timeout.com/img/31521/w513/image.jpg
http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/040817/040817_models_hLarge_1p.hlarge.jpg one on the far left

spirit
05-13-2008, 05:56 AM
k, goofy dude from knocked up and many other films, seth rogen, hooked up with notably one of the top supermodels of last year, daria. girls are never too hot for a guy, he's either a) got bad ass low self esteem, b) gay, c) doesn't realize I stole a hot girl away from him...hey! wink (jk)

one on the far left

which one? they all look-alike :o.o: haha jk ;)

xantok
05-13-2008, 02:49 PM
if he really really likes you he'll tell you he does even if hes afraid to get let down... i started liking a really really pretty girl but i though she was dating someone... i told her how i felt and she actually wasnt dating anyone and started dating me... i didnt think i stood a chance with that girl but we ended up together for 6 months or so untill she moved 3 hours away

basically if he like you he'll get up the guts to tell yuou he does and/or ask you out

leerock89
05-13-2008, 03:05 PM
im telling you hes gay!!!!!!!!! Dont want to go out with you cause your to hot...... HAHAHAHA!!!! IDIOT!!!

strike7785
05-13-2008, 05:14 PM
He is just saying that. Dont worry about it!! He might think your high maintanance though. Who knows but I guess you can take that compliment of being to damn hot for him

kakashizzz
05-13-2008, 07:41 PM
stay with arcose sapph='-'=

Ryuuzaki
05-13-2008, 09:41 PM
stay with arcose sapph='-'=
Shes not planning on leaving her current boyfriend. Shes just asking what should she do about a guy saying shes too hawt (hot), thats all.

Break001
05-13-2008, 09:54 PM
All the others have already said it all -_-' but yea don't let it bum u out just let it come by as a compliment :happy: and a very good compliment at that hehe