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sapphireAT
04-28-2008, 12:16 AM
In most cases, you can't go wrong with a romantic dinner. Although the cinema is a traditional choice, there is virtually no intimacy or romantic atmosphere as you are both having to concentrate on a film rather than on each other. Generally the idea of the first date is to get to know each other better and perhaps more intimately. There's no doubt about it, having dinner with someone is a pretty intimate experience and it may be daunting to have to sit in front of someone you don't really know for a couple of hours and eat in front of them whilst maintaining a smooth flowing conversation! The truth is it will nearly always be better than you imagined providing you follow some fairly basic rules.

GUYS: (Conversation)ˇ

Ask her about her work, goals and desires
ˇListen to her I repeat... Listen to her
ˇCompliment her on how she looks and especially compliment her shoes...she probably spent ages getting ready and will really appreciate it.
ˇListen out for any similarities you may have so you form a 'queue' of things to discuss when appropriate
ˇKeep a mental list of easy to discuss subjects such as favourite movies, food types, music
ˇTry and find out about her views and values before openly displaying yours
ˇGive her centre stage first...find out as much as you can about her...be interested in her life and resist the temptation to talk about yours too much initially
ˇDon't bullshit about things
GUYS (Physical Stuff)
ˇDon't stare at her breasts...no matter how appealing they look!
ˇGenerally, if the date is going well, you'll both be mentally aware of it and you will know the appropriate time to make a more physical move
.Give good, confident eye contact


What To Eat

This is generally up to how comfortable you feel. So many dishes come with garlic that it is almost impossible to avoid and it really isn't a huge issue.
It may be better to avoid ordering something that will be really messy and difficult to eat, such as lobster.

Paying the Bill

Always a difficult moment, but on a first date, always offer to pick up the bill...after all, you invited her out. She may well offer to contribute which is fine.

Ryuuzaki
04-28-2008, 12:25 AM
lol Great job on this, I'm SURE theres some guys out there (and on here) who are clueless. And even though this advice is YEARS ahead of me, it may still come in handy...not that I need any advice *wink*

shiv
04-28-2008, 07:01 AM
OMG...r u jokin'...lol...haha.....

epoc
04-28-2008, 09:23 PM
never been on a date xD might be use full.
File->save as...-> dating advice.html

Jason X
04-28-2008, 09:42 PM
^ ^ pretty useful but Im just glad to have my girlfriend but to advice for guys looking for a girl shes got the tips so listen to them well Id expect so heheh she is a girl no offence so she should know

athrun0017
05-08-2008, 07:17 AM
Thats actually too basic! .. to be honest, that would be a normal date and not that much fun.. remember this, every guy is different and that is what sets us apart from the rest, besides some women love for us to be in control and others like it if we do things that she wouldn't expect.. my advice! is just don't be yourself while out on a date!..lol *smiles*

scott11
05-08-2008, 07:22 AM
good one there sappH...



just be yourseLf...haha

shiv
05-08-2008, 08:40 AM
".Give good, confident eye contact "

u dont want me to do that..i have beautiful eyes..no1 can resist to wach me straight in the eyes1

monsoon 10
05-08-2008, 12:14 PM
ˇDon't stare at her breasts...no matter how appealing they look!


Paying the Bill


Your code of etiquette is too unreasonable for any young gentleman to follow.

shiv
05-08-2008, 12:17 PM
"Don't bullshit about things" usualy this is were i mess up!

Thoza
05-08-2008, 12:31 PM
well thanks'''' for the advice....
mauhauahauauhuahuha

strike7785
05-08-2008, 03:46 PM
Thats good Advice!! I've been on many dates to where I have been stumped on what to talk about. Thank goodness something inside a restarunt goes bad and we end up talking about what happend and who got spilled on. Anyway I've been on my own for a year now. THe best advice I can offer is don't go looking for someone. If you look you will never find her/him. It will naturally happen.

KillionX6
05-08-2008, 04:17 PM
OMG...r u jokin'...lol...haha.....

i dont know what to take this as, but if your making fun of sapph your not cool

Thoza
05-08-2008, 04:24 PM
well tell me the advice dating for Silence Girls.....
its kinda hard make convertation with a quiet girls ??

strike7785
05-08-2008, 08:00 PM
I don't know, you got to find out what makes the quite ones laugh. You got to talk to them and if helps make yourslef look stupid and try to open her up. I might be wrong but Mrs. Sapph she definetly knows best. And dood Killion I was not making fun of her

Thoza
05-08-2008, 09:07 PM
well that's what i do.... try to make my self stupid in front of her....
but we are still friend.... not date yet.....
well my plan its ask her out on this summer to the beach,,,....,,,...

Break001
05-09-2008, 04:03 AM
There are different situation to all dates and circumstances, but advice givin is always good. Keep in mind it won't go all the way exatly as u plan it sometimes so don't bum urself out about it hehe

analogZero
05-09-2008, 06:40 AM
x = {q + [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + {q - [q2 + (r-p2)3]1/2}1/3 + p
where
p = -b/(3a), q = p3 + (bc-3ad)/(6a2), r = c/(3a)

and that's how you solve any 3rd degree polynomial equation...as for girls, don't ask.
french accents? mais oui, bien sur!

ps. girls stink!

monsoon 10
05-09-2008, 12:09 PM
i dont know what to take this as, but if your making fun of sapph your not cool

Now c'omn shiv is entitled to post his opinion no matter what it may be. *following the rules of course*

xantok
05-09-2008, 08:04 PM
that is WAY to much to remember... i think ill stick with winging it... maybe ill remember one or two of them things but i aint gonna remember it all... i jsut now get to go looking now after almost a year of dating someone

Break001
05-09-2008, 08:38 PM
Agreed winging it haha just be ur normal self and u'll be fine just be elegant/gentlemen about it haha and get lots of charm on that one hehe

Ryuuzaki
05-09-2008, 08:39 PM
I'm made of charm (and win)

But yeah really just be your self and everything should go smoothly ^^

Break001
05-09-2008, 08:41 PM
Yup yup XD