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05-28-2011, 07:49 PM
Uhm...I need help with some relationship issues and like everyone else I talk to really dont like him or just ignore me. But uhm...I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have been out of highschool for a year and about three months after we graduated he moved to to Daytona to be closer to his college while I stayed home and I attended the community college near home. Before he left he gave me a promise ring saying he would never hurt me and all of this other stuff but when he left hes pretty much stopped calling and texting me, I'm always having to call him. He also is always telling me that he doesn't have enough money to visit me but yet he just bought an apartment and the Iphone 4. I can't visit him because I'm on probation and I also don't have a way there...He atleast has his truck. I just really don't know what to do anymore because everytime I try to talk to him about it he just brushes it off like its nothing, But its not...I mean if he truly cared he wouldn't act like that...would he? So if like anyone could help me out that would be great...Because like I had said before I don't know what to do and I don't want to end the relationship if there is a way to fix it. :dead:
05-30-2011, 04:07 AM
don't know how to fix it..
but if he wants to call u then great...he doesn't then move with ur life don't wait 4 him..
may be insensitive but don't waste ur life waiting u don't have to do all the work if he really wants to see u then he'll find a way!
05-30-2011, 01:21 PM
Thanks. I guess you're right. I mean I truly care about him and he says he feels the same way, but I guess if he really felt that way he would also be trying to keep in contact instead of me always trying. My mother told me that maybe hes doing this because he wants the relationship to end but hes just to chicken to end it himself...instead hes trying to piss me off enough to where I end it.:serious:
Yeah, i agree with missamo.
On one hand u still have strong feelings for him, but if he does not care for your, then you will be hurted lot more in future by this fact.
So i suggest you to move on with your life too, try to forget him and do more stuff with your other friends and eventually you will meet new guy.
You just need to be strong now with cutting the bound, if you manage to do that it will greatly improve your relationship experience in future.
So if you are under 20y line, don't worry. Life is still young and there is no need to bound yourself and suppress all the good in you. So put a smile on your face and say to yourself '' screw him, i'm going to do something really nice today''
My suggestion? Go out with friends have a blast, or if they are not available, GET ice cream and watch really nice anime.
Hope anything of that helped.
10-11-2011, 07:20 PM
I also concur.
10-12-2011, 04:02 PM
you see i would reply, but this was posted ages ago and this person hasnt been online since...
so whats the point? god knows what happened and what she decided to do...
10-28-2011, 06:04 AM
i am new here,,,
it's good too visit here,,,
hey if he cares you then he will be come back for you but you dn't waset your life....
10-28-2011, 11:15 AM
This was posted 5 months ago...................JS
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