looking for a boyfriend

[sapphireAT]

where are good places to find a guy? i mean looking for one at wal-mart or something is ..weird i think but im not in school nemore so its harder for me to find one...what do you think?
saph:fruit:

[nejih94]

the mall,theres lots of places were u can find diff types of ppl,to match ur interest

[Sun Tzu]

Wal-Mart is most likely not the best place to go, in fact thats a terrible Idea. Personally I meet quite a few great people everywhere I go, internets, school, work, what have you. The trick i believe is to just forget about what they think of you and engage in a conversation.

[Koopaking]

Well going to your local apartments, hotel, or neighborhood with a pair of binoculars is a great way to meet people if you are too shy to talk to them. Just look into their window. Hopefully Voyeurism is not a felony.

[Gabrieth]

Here is a few places I go to meet people besides school:
- Bars/Pubs (With friends. A place to meet random people)
- Gatherings (anime conventions, festivals ... a place to meet people with the same interest as you)
- Concerts (A good place to meet people who like the same music as you)
- Party's (Best place to meet people where you can get information on them by your friends)
- Stalking people (This works great ^^)

But I don't think the Wal mart is a good idea hehe.

[leerock89]

im going to be blunt about this
if your hot just do what you do the guys will come to you
if your not, getting a hot chick friend, stalking(mentioned by gabrieth), and any kind of social event you can think of. Oh and church.

[a2ng0d]

Leerock: Blunt as hell (kudos)

but yea i think it doesnt go as well when you are actually looking for somebody. the right person usually just stumbles into the scene unexpectedly (people will come to you).

if you ur still in school, i think it would be the most ideal place to look for people, since you go there practically everyday. try extra curricular activities. and if that doesnt work, any place with a multitude of people, like the mall, is another place to look as mentioned by neji and gabrieth.

[strike7785]

Here some atvice though Im probably too late. STOP LOOKING FOR A GUY!! Its going to be a natural habit it will just happen. If you go out and look for someone you will never find the right one. Trust me you will know when you find your match

[Dragonliga]

HmmmMMMmmm il say at a club or pub!

Get them wasted or drugged and then take pictures of them doin lewd things, Then bribe them to be your BF.... LOL jus kiddin

Just have confidence il say, where ever you are U wont no what might happen unless u give it a go!

[Ryuuzaki]

Again, very very old topic, but great advice for those who don't know exactly how to find a boyfriend :D

[grimmjow~]

hahaha that is so funny lol

[Ryuuzaki]

...What is so funny?

[Shoga]

Hey! I'm single and free. Interested? I'll send you a pic.

[jlo_glee]

Ey!..I have a place to recommend..go to this place and you'll surely find the night in shining armor of your life!..decked with all the good male features you've always imagined!..

[jlo_glee]

ey I almost forgot!..go to the seminary!..

[jinders]

haahhah...that's a good one...
usually the ones i hear are "HOW DO I GET A GIRLFRIEND??" and "HOW DO I GET RID OF MY GIRLFRIEND??!!!!!" hahahahaha XD

well, my advice would be to just...try not to think about it too much, and just take life as it comes. from my experience, if you ask for it too hard there's a chance you might end up in a relationship that isn't right for you, and you'll be wanting out in no time.
just take things easy...if you have the affinity for that certain someone, you'll find him sooner or later. =)

[spirit]

where are good places to find a guy? i mean looking for one at wal-mart or something is ..weird i think but im not in school nemore so its harder for me to find one...what do you think?
saph:fruit:
hmmm....
match.com or e-harmony ??? - just kidding...
well, but it's true that meeting ppl, making friends or finding a "soul mate" in USA might be difficult. Especially, if you're not living in a bigger city, where are the pubs, clubs, cafeterias and so on... I guess young ppl are "doomed" to hang around friend's houses, at the lame alcoholic parties wishing to meet someone "interesting" - "the potentian guy or girl"... or wasting time, "exhibiting" themselves at the mall.
The best way to find someone is... not to look for him, someone will find you eventually - when you're not expecting it to happen.
And the INTERNET. It may sound a lil bit fearsome, but I guess ppl start to lose their lives, substituting it with "so called" relationships via internet. The internet, for sure, has its negative aspects, but it seems that nowadays it's gettin more and more easier to meet someone over the internet rather than in the real world (of course u can't be naive, must watch out for "predators").
I can somehow compare it to myself, when after the high school full of "harsh and difficult" relationships... I was free and single, and one day I have talked to this guy online... After a couple of days/weeks he asked me out, but I kept telling him that I'm not interested in meeting "online ppl"... I though it's kinda awkward and bizarre. To make the long story short. One night my ex-boyfriend came over my house... with THAT guy! At that time I though I'm gonna die! However, this guy happened to be a wonderwul person <3 ^^
So, my point is... the INTERNET might be the solution, if there are no other places to meet - like in work, or in Grocery store (haha). I guss it's even more embarassing to hit on ppl in public places, lol.

[soulten]

Pie is good, give pie to men and they can't resist. But mall helps, or the see a guy in the crowd, bump into him and start a conversastion. sucsess rate probably only 25-35%

[Nahmu]

where to go to find a guy... just keep living your life, and i think what is most important is to start doing what you always wanted to do... sky dive? scuba dive? parachute? join a knitting club? that way, you'll associate and find people with similar interests and you'll have a much better chance at finding someone compatible.

[monsoon 10]

You got to go the YMCA! YMCA!

[Noodle72]

Volunteer events. You'll meet a lot of really cool people at them, and help out communities/those less fortunate/the environment. If you need help finding some locally, I can hook you up with some websites so that you can find them.

[Sun Tzu]

Volunteer events. You'll meet a lot of really cool people at them, and help out communities/those less fortunate/the environment. If you need help finding some locally, I can hook you up with some websites so that you can find them.

go go craig's list

[Noodle72]

go go craig's list

I know a few people who have tried that actually. It's a really funny story, and worked out well for the guy, all things considered. I meant something different though.

[IchigoNaru]

my advice:
-just be urself, don't switch your ego just to get the attention of the one you like. Worked for me ;D!

[tripletres]

my advice is to join a club. that way youll meet people who have the same interests as you do. but thats just me.

[Russkie]

I do not know of any places to mingle with others except my church. Does your church not have youth activities?

[klint_456]

I think one place would be in clubs or in pub places......as spirit said one would be in the internet

[Shigami]

Just go out with you're friend,to the local club or a party.You'll eventually find someone..don't rush it.And as the other guys said,if you are indeed good looking don't worry about it,you'll certainly find someone.And what the hell,who meets people in church?The only people that go there are old ladys and old men.

[monsoon 10]

Go to a strip club bunch of eligible men there.

[partyprobe]

somebody cant just do that you dont know what might happen because there are some wierd people that hang out at strip clubs, and do you think a girl would want a man that just got done watching a women dance for money.

[monsoon 10]

somebody cant just do that you dont know what might happen because there are some wierd people that hang out at strip clubs, and do you think a girl would want a man that just got done watching a women dance for money.

I'm going to answer that with a yes.

[partyprobe]

lol that would be like me going to pick up a girl at a strip club for women. First i would feel gay for being there and wow that would be quite a situation

[monsoon 10]

lol that would be like me going to pick up a girl at a strip club for women. First i would feel gay for being there and wow that would be quite a situation

The firefighters department?

[partyprobe]

lmao that has to be one of the funnest thing i read all day and its kind of true

[polakita]

LOL! I get guys hitting on me in Walmart but I would never go out with one of them it's kinda creepy. I know where I live the biggest hangouts to meet people are the seven eleven or the beach you could meet people at the library and even on-line one of my friends met her fiance on line then found out he only lives 2 blocks away from her which was kinda cool. The clubs are good for meeting people but here they're just full of snobby rich or wannabees so I don't bother. Also friends throw a party and tell your friends to bring some of their friends too. you never know!

[partyprobe]

What if i come to where you work and come on to you would that be creepy.

[Stark]

Here is a few places I go to meet people besides school:
- Bars/Pubs (With friends. A place to meet random people)
- Gatherings (anime conventions, festivals ... a place to meet people with the same interest as you)
- Concerts (A good place to meet people who like the same music as you)
- Party's (Best place to meet people where you can get information on them by your friends)
- Stalking people (This works great ^^)

But I don't think the Wal mart is a good idea hehe.
Agree.Party is the best place to meet people

[Mugen]

where are good places to find a guy? i mean looking for one at wal-mart or something is ..weird i think but im not in school nemore so its harder for me to find one...what do you think?
saph:fruit:
Library! Go to nice places to find nice guys!

[Ryuuzaki]

You all do know that this user hardly ever comes on anymore right? :serious: So this thread is rather pointless to post on.

[Xunlai]

................................................ That is for you to find out, if your nice, and attractive, or just great with words, just walk around and you will find someone...But the thing is, i think you dont like the fact of the affection you get from a boyfriend, you just like the titles, I talked with Killion and he said you "dated" ((lol)) six or seven guys from this site, with fake hugs and kisses......Kinda sad, but i dont mean to come off an ass, are you looking for a title or someone to be there for you?


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[spirit]

................................................ That is for you to find out, if your nice, and attractive, or just great with words, just walk around and you will find someone...But the thing is, i think you dont like the fact of the affection you get from a boyfriend, you just like the titles, I talked with Killion and he said you "dated" ((lol)) six or seven from this site, with fake hugs and kisses......Kinda sad, but i dont mean to come off an ass, are you looking for a title or someone to be there for you?


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I think you have some kind of amnesia or that you are a hypocrite.

[gunbound15]

ummm, i'm a guy so i like simple methods. girls if you want to find a boyfriend, wear a miniskirt, and walk into the guys' PE room. then ask them if any of them wants to go out with you. or you can just look at the "guy" friends that you are ready have. if any of them are especially nice to you or spend a lot more time around you than most other people, then they might like you. or if you're truly desperate, go to GAP or BELK and hit on the first guy you see there.

[cindy]

hmm ... well i think lookin for a boyfriend at walmart is weird ... cuz it's not like ur going to go up to a guy or the guy is going to go up to a girl and say "will u be my boyfriend/girlfriend" ... lol ^^ ... if it was me and i can't find a boyfriend in school or college ... y not join a club in real life or internet where u chat with ppl or something ... add guy friends ... chat with them alot and c if they live close by ... and be really good friends with him ... and maybe the outcome will come out the way u want it ... noone knows unless u try ... ^^ ... hope this is a lil helpful ... ^^ ...

[leerock89]

You guys are cute. Meeting at a GAP....Walmart.... So great!! Let me guess can't go to clubs and bars yet eh? Well wait till you get older. The adult world is WAY funner.

[Xunlai]

I think you have some kind of amnesia or that you are a hypocrite.

Hypocrite? ? ? Ummmm by the way killion is saying it she has gone out with 6 or 7 different males, and i have only flirted with one, mainly being you, so forgive me for putting in my statement.....


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Have I asked anyone out? or looked around and posted threads looking for girls? I have only talked to you ever about stuff like that

[monsoon 10]

................................................ That is for you to find out, if your nice, and attractive, or just great with words, just walk around and you will find someone...But the thing is, i think you dont like the fact of the affection you get from a boyfriend, you just like the titles, I talked with Killion and he said you "dated" ((lol)) six or seven guys from this site, with fake hugs and kisses......Kinda sad, but i dont mean to come off an ass, are you looking for a title or someone to be there for you?


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I think you are confusing sad with pathetic. I mean internet dating just seems like the bottom of the barrel when it comes to relationships in my opinion.

[Xunlai]

I think you are confusing sad with pathetic. I mean internet dating just seems like the bottom of the barrel when it comes to relationships in my opinion.

True that, I love Real life girls......internet girls who are looking for someone on an anime site, ummmmm 51 year old man?

[monsoon 10]

True that, I love Real life girls......internet girls who are looking for someone on an anime site, ummmmm 51 year old man?

I'd play it safe and round that up to a 60.

[Plun]

Here is a few places I go to meet people besides school:
- Bars/Pubs (With friends. A place to meet random people)
- Gatherings (anime conventions, festivals ... a place to meet people with the same interest as you)
- Concerts (A good place to meet people who like the same music as you)
- Party's (Best place to meet people where you can get information on them by your friends)
- Stalking people (This works great ^^)

But I don't think the Wal mart is a good idea hehe.

Stalking people? Lol, that's what my friend did and he was call a Pervert.

[monsoon 10]

Stalking people? Lol, that's what my friend did and he was call a Pervert.

Friends that stalk aren't your friends.

[soulinacup]

If youre looking for someone with the same interests as you, then anime convetions are always a good place to go, scince everyones very friendly and you can talk to/hug anyone without it bieng awquard ^^

[Oblivious]

Er, no offense, but if you're like 14 or younger, then having a boyfriend at the moment isn't quite necessary.

But good places to look for a boyfriend is just really up to you. The more places you go to in the outside world means more opportunities to meet new people, or you can ask your friends for a hook-up.