a girl in love

[sapphireAT]

what do i do if my mom is dating this guy whose son i like but never met yet but will this coming weekend...should i go for it or leave it be ?:o.o:

[Ariya]

Stay passive for a bit. Just be sweet to him, but don't flirt. Treat him like a best friend. Your Mom could end up marrying the guy and you'd be his step-sister, which wouldn't be that bad. You'd live with him! :D But if they break up, keep in touch with him and go for it.

[a2ng0d]

wow thats hard =/...i guess if you get over the awkwardness of step-sibling love then everythings good to go c(^_^)b

[illuma]

wow thats hard =/...i guess if you get over the awkwardness of step-sibling love then everythings good to go c(^_^)b

I seriously doubt that you would think of dating if your mom married his dad. Go with Ariya said. It seemed very insightful, and good to me.

[a2ng0d]

and my advice doesnt sound insightful? :P

nah but seriously. wat ariya said was good. but in the end, if you like him then you like him. nobody's gonna change that. so its up to you to decide how it works out. however, if the parents AND the kids too...that is a unique situation. at least to me it is. but like i said if you too were meant for eachother, well, thats just how its gonna be =)

[illuma]

and my advice doesnt sound insightful? :P

nah but seriously. wat ariya said was good. but in the end, if you like him then you like him. nobody's gonna change that. so its up to you to decide how it works out. however, if the parents AND the kids too...that is a unique situation. at least to me it is. but like i said if you too were meant for eachother, well, thats just how its gonna be =)

if you think i was trying to put you down well sorry, didn't mean too. its just that the chances of her going for the guy if they were step siblings and highly doubtful. its like cousins shaking pretty much, but with no blood relation. it would be ok, but alot of people might be against it.

[Gabrieth]

Mess up your moms relation :)
Or explain to your mother the situation and say that she already had a lover and your young and still seek a real one blah blah blah and she might let it go ... or not but worth a try.
The last solution is to seek out an other male there are many out there and they are easy to attract just by sound ^^

[Sun Tzu]

what do i do if my mom is dating this guy whose son i like but never met yet but will this coming weekend...should i go for it or leave it be ?:o.o:

Best thing I got for you is if you like the guy just tell him. Personally I find the courting session before the first date to be excedingly frustrating, needless, and ripe with embarressment. Better to just bypass it and ask the person out right off the bat, makes things easier from the guys prospective imo, less confusion.

Then again if your not worried about how to go about it and are simply worried about the whole incest thing, clear your mind theres no blood relations, and besides a little awkwardness about where you met I don't really see a problem. Just my opinion though.

[leerock89]

ok if u like the perverted stuff, go out with him if, and after your mom gets married. if your not, be friends. unless you dont like him the first time you meet him. then its war.

[AyumiBee]

I think it depends on how serious is your mom's relationship with his father,and i agree with Gabrieth try to explain your feelings to your mom.

[a2ng0d]

if you think i was trying to put you down well sorry, didn't mean too.

nah its ok. lol it take a lot more than a different opinion to put me down ^_^.

[sapphireAT]

thanks you guys and f.y.i. i have told my mom about the situation and she says as long as they arent marriend (and they are going slow in their relationship...its been a month and they havent even kissed) she says its ok to date him because of the 'no blood relation' thing...thanks again and add me to ur buddy list or whatever if you'd like. if you need me just pm and i'll return the favor if you need my advice some time
thanx again
sapphire at

[strike7785]

your just so luvvy duvvy arn't you

[Ryuuzaki]

Strike, you do realize that this topic was made and last responded to (other then you and I) on 4/5 right? I highly doubt she still needs comments on this.

[grimmjow~]

ooo love is so complicated for us men and bulls =p

[strike7785]

yea I do I was just building my posts numbers

[spirit]

what do i do if my mom is dating this guy whose son i like but never met yet but will this coming weekend...should i go for it or leave it be ?:o.o:
Wow, Sounds like one of the manga' stories I read recently :P haha. No, but seriously.. how can you tell that you' already like that "son" though "you have never met" him?!
To be honest with you... I'd like to see your story develop like in this manga, therefore I wish you luck with this guy' son... It would be very interesting if something nice happens between you two ^^ If I were you I would definitely want to get to know that guy, just to see if there's a chance for "something". However, be careful! hehe ^^

[spirit]

lol, I haven't noticed that this post was made a long time ago - sorry guys.... next time i'll try to be more aware of it :/ Anyway I hope that this person made the right choice and that she doesn't regret it ;D

[shiv]

what do i do if my mom is dating this guy whose son i like but never met yet but will this coming weekend...should i go for it or leave it be ?:o.o:


Hmm..just go for it,,don't w8..suspans its not nice,when u have something to say to some1 just do it.

[Ino]

Be positive, but don't flirt. Get to know him more.

[monsoon 10]

I can see anonymous looking at this page with glee.

[animex09]

i say double date with your mom and her boy friend. awkward but it might help

[monsoon 10]

If you see a dead thread let it be.

[Xunlai]

GRAMMAR FTW....

*just a hint of what you need to learn*
But other then that, sex him up, he will want you....i think....

[quietchat]

That's a bit strange. OF course, you would need to remember first off that the family isn't purely biological, so while it may be a bit emberrassing, there wouldn't be anything wrong with it. Otherwise, to give in to the people around you that may view it as obscene, would be to lie to your own feelings and emotions in the matter.

[RavynMK]

I'd say to go for it... it's not like either of you are related in anyway... even if your mother marries the guy you both could still persue a relationship... of course others would think that was wierd... but what do I know... my cousin married my cousin... and no neither of them is related to eachother... there parents did marry eachother though.... so it doesn't matter... if you like the guy you can go out with him... it's not illegal or anything...