truble need advice

[ziggie]

how do u tell ur best friend the girl he likes likes me not him?

[1,000,000]

Just tell him. He'll be hurt, and possibly even mad at you, but he will also get over it.

[ziggie]

i tried already but hes in denial and the girl denies it 2 i think i need to get her caught in the act how?

[Sun Tzu]

how do u tell ur best friend the girl he likes likes me not him?

well... thats a tough one...

I dont know you people, but I can at least offer what little at advice I have based on the sentance you gave me.

You might wanna make sure you like this girl enough that you are willing to ruin a freindship over it. People get upset over these things and often times in situations like these its just best to stay out of the affairs of others, not let a girl get between you can your freind so to speak.

The next thing I got for you is to just let it play out. Let the girl speak for herself, you can't make decisions for another person, possibly she is so conflicted between you two that she doesn't want to risk either relationship in a struggle over her.

Then again there is the possibility she is playing both ends against the middle, reveling in the attention it gets her. In this case its probably best to just stay away from the girl, they only mean trouble.

Again I dont know anything else, and I have no back information on your plight but this is the best advice I got.

[Spider]

well... thats a tough one...

I dont know you people, but I can at least offer what little at advice I have based on the sentance you gave me.

You might wanna make sure you like this girl enough that you are willing to ruin a freindship over it. People get upset over these things and often times in situations like these its just best to stay out of the affairs of others, not let a girl get between you can your freind so to speak.

The next thing I got for you is to just let it play out. Let the girl speak for herself, you can't make decisions for another person, possibly she is so conflicted between you two that she doesn't want to risk either relationship in a struggle over her.

Then again there is the possibility she is playing both ends against the middle, reveling in the attention it gets her. In this case its probably best to just stay away from the girl, they only mean trouble.

Again I dont know anything else, and I have no back information on your plight but this is the best advice I got.


Well Said.

[ziggie]

thanks sun tzu i think she is conflicted on who 2 choose i will stay away and let this play out thanxs 4 advice

[ems87]

Kiss her in front of him.

He'll get the message.


Wait, that doesn't help at all..

Hope everything worked out! :D

[Jack]

I'm assuming that you're still around the high school age so the best advice that I can give you is to avoid the girl in question as much as possible and just maintain the friendship/relationship that you already have. "Romantic" relationships between the opposite sex during that season of life are so completely warped and deformed into something that's just pathetic to behold. Anyway, that's what I'd do in a scenario such as yours... Unless the friend was in actuality a douche bag and just all-around crappy person that you may be glad to sacrifice a relationship with for a girl that either doesn't(in reality) have feelings for you or isn't well grounded enough as a person to take any sort of stance or make any sort of move on the matter. In other words, weak-minded. Like I said, that period between 9 and 25 years old can be hell within your own mind if you try hard enough.

-Jack

[newbsrule]

just tell him that she wants u not him!

[1ninja1]

I think it's best not to cross path's with your friends where girls are concerned. It would be better to find someone else and forget her. There's many more girls out there. Why allow yourself to be in a competition with your friend. She shouldn't be playing you two against each other, and you shouldn't allow her to. That's where trouble begins.

[Gabrieth]

I think it's best not to cross path's with your friends where girls are concerned. It would be better to find someone else and forget her. There's many more girls out there. Why allow yourself to be in a competition with your friend. She shouldn't be playing you two against each other, and you shouldn't allow her to. That's where trouble begins.

I agree. There are so so many girls out there.

[illuma]

Do what my friend did when he was in this situation. Call her a hooker and walk away. She might even forget about you and go out with your friend.

[fallenlife]

I think it's best not to cross path's with your friends where girls are concerned. It would be better to find someone else and forget her. There's many more girls out there. Why allow yourself to be in a competition with your friend. She shouldn't be playing you two against each other, and you shouldn't allow her to. That's where trouble begins.

that's a good bit of advice
i have some friends that where in that same position the end result being that the girl was playing both of them and it was several months before they started speaking to each other again.
so if you value your friend you should just walk away.

[KillionX6]

I agree with 1,000,000 just tell him, but if you dont want to hurt him tell him then say you dont want any trouble so you wont go for her.

[a2ng0d]

'homies over hoes' <--dunno if that breaks the rudeness rule but i think its true. girls will come and go but in the end, your friend will probably always be there for you. however if she really mean that much to you, then ur boy should understand if he really is your friend, though it may be painful to him. stuff like this is really complicated, because you wanna be fair to everybody, but in the end you gotta think about wats best for you (i dunno if any of this helps, but hope it works out for u. oh by the way i wasnt calling your girl anything bad its just a phrase i go by ^^;;).