are you lying??

[x_sasori_x]

:dead:

..hmm.
lies,lies,lies..

can you give me some tips how to know if a person is lying??
yah know, lying is an easy thing to do..
...just asking.

they say, you can see it by looking through the eyes..
actually i tried it already...::D:

but,i can't really figure it out..:dizzy: i just get dizzy looking to his eyes..
I WANT TO KNOW IF HE IS SAYING THE TRUTH!!!!

:dancing:

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[Unknown]

Grab his balls and look directly at his eyes and ask him, "Are you lying to me?" if he says no, squeeze them a bit and ask him again. Keep repeating until you squeezed them about 2-4 times then stop. He's telling the truth.

P.S. It works. I'm not lying.

[quietchat]

Ask them somthing you know is the truth, then ask them somthing you know they lie about and see if you notice anything.

[analogZero]

there's a few signs, but it's going to be a matter of how well you can gauge a person's reactions.
a few more common reactions when a person lies are:
increased heart beat (hard to tell unless you've got your ear to his chest when you're probing his honesty)
sweating
no/avoiding eye contact
change in body language (anything from getting twitchy, fidgeting, excessive blinking, etc. signs of discomfort or nervousness)
voice changes (throat clearing, pitch changes, etc.)
attempts to change the topic (being diversionary, using humour, getting defensive, etc.)
inconsistency (getting stuck in a lie can often lead something reminiscent of trying to dig your way out of a hole. the further you probe someone, the more they're pressured to build onto their lie. It's a matter of whether or not they can support their claims or not.)

people are different, so they can have different tells, but more often than not people do give away signs that they're lying.

[leerock89]

there's a few signs, but it's going to be a matter of how well you can gauge a person's reactions.
a few more common reactions when a person lies are:
increased heart beat (hard to tell unless you've got your ear to his chest when you're probing his honesty)
sweating
no/avoiding eye contact
change in body language (anything from getting twitchy, fidgeting, excessive blinking, etc. signs of discomfort or nervousness)
voice changes (throat clearing, pitch changes, etc.)
attempts to change the topic (being diversionary, using humour, getting defensive, etc.)
inconsistency (getting stuck in a lie can often lead something reminiscent of trying to dig your way out of a hole. the further you probe someone, the more they're pressured to build onto their lie. It's a matter of whether or not they can support their claims or not.)

people are different, so they can have different tells, but more often than not people do give away signs that they're lying.

What he said. Also, if you know a person well enough, you'll know when they are lying.

[x_sasori_x]

..hmm.
thanks for that guyz.. it really helped.

but, what if...*roll eyes* i still get confused to him..
he always say that thats the truth..but he's laughing and smiling and..ugh.
i can't really figure it out...




he said,..

"if you don't believe in me,well, there's nothing i can do... it's up to you then..
but as for me, this time, im not lying..im saying the truth...."

that's what he says, i don't know if that's true..
yah know, there's so many times that he lied to me...


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[leerock89]

LOL!! Those lines bring back some memories. Look hes lying his ass off. What you can try is mock his truthfulness and see what happens. If he doesnt get mad he's lying. If he does get mad, he may still be lying but he senses your attack and throws up a feint to block it. At which point you administer what Unknown recommended, grab him by his balls and make him scream the truth out.

[kairine:))]

originally posted by: Unknown

Grab his balls and look directly at his eyes and ask him, "Are you lying to me?" if he says no, squeeze them a bit and ask him again. Keep repeating until you squeezed them about 2-4 times then stop. He's telling the truth.

P.S. It works. I'm not lying.

whew. hahah.. it got me LOL. ouch. hahahaha..
it would definitely work! *thumbs for you unknown*

[analogZero]

he sounds like he's lying, but it also seems you don't know when he's telling the truth. It's high time you start studying mannerisms if you want to know what makes him tick. ask him questions you know you'll get an honest answer too, ones that he can answer comfortably. Truth often comes with some form of serenity. If he doesn't look comfortable in his skin when you ask him something, that he's not himself, then he's lying.

[suune]

A good liar should know when to stop.

[LoveleSS75]

Well if this person doesnt look at your eyes and when you ask to do so looks little bit nervous\uneasy or tries to avoid to look at you.... is definitly lying.
also if gets upset when bringing the issue...

[strike7785]

Thats easy. Watch his/her body language. When the person is talking to you make sure he/she is making direct eye contact with you. If there trying to hide something they will usually look else where because the eyes say it all. Aslo if the person is stuttering or constatly changing his/her story around.

[shadowmaks]

Well I have two.

1.If they make it too specific.

2.They place their hand somewhere like the back of their head.

Note that they don't always work, but these are also commonly used by crime investigators so it must work.

[aezgaga]

Just stare at him with a serious face that show you don't believe him. If he's lying he will go quickly on defensive. if he's saying the truth he won't get your face as an offence or that you think he's lying. or change subject while keeping the one he's lying in head and come back later withou being too direct and see if the story change ...

Squezzing is ball is good too... but .... I'm sure you could find many more interesting way to make him talk >=D

[Tsvetkova]

A lot of people have had some good suggestions but I'm wondering....you obvioiusly don't trust this person...why even bother?

[Memorix]

You can usualy see it in the way that they talk when they're lying or if you you look in their eyes they're a bit more cloudy when they lie.

[leshinor]

Well I agree with everybody here. Just smth more to add:
Keep staring at him deep in the eyes without saying anything. Just put on a slight mockery smile and keep watching him. He will get uneasy and a bit more defenseless. Also, when people are cornered and feel pressured, they tend to unconsciously look at doors, windows, etc! However, my advice is, stop caring about what he says. When I was your age I met a guy that was continually lying, even for small matters. Now, I say hello when I see him but that's as far as our friendship goes.

[carolyn07]

Grab his balls and look directly at his eyes and ask him, "Are you lying to me?" if he says no, squeeze them a bit and ask him again. Keep repeating until you squeezed them about 2-4 times then stop. He's telling the truth.

P.S. It works. I'm not lying.

...ahaha!,.that sooooooo made me laugh!,.cant stop laughiing!,.yeah im not lying!,.

haha!,.i also think that'll work!,.♥

[leshinor]

...ahaha!,.that sooooooo made me laugh!,.cant stop laughiing!,.yeah im not lying!,.

haha!,.i also think that'll work!,.♥


Hahah! Carolyn you're so violent!!!

[starscream]

When a person is lying the will look down and to the left when they are remembering a true event they will look up and to the right.

[Silverleon]

This usually works, just ask them A LOT "are you sure you're not lying?" stuff like it, after a couple of aswers if they still say they're not lying say "So you WERE lying, as if you actaually knew they were lying by saying "how did you know?" or "ok, who told you?" to which you respond "you just told me" ::D:
Now if that still not works, just keep saying that they ARE lying, and act mad at them for a while and keep calling them lyers, and if after a while they don't confess then they're saying the truth. Only top notch lyars can pass that, but that's usually douchebags and other bad people.

[Utauh]

well you can tell the way if a person is lying are just keep staring in his/her eyes for about 15 mins and you can tell they have giggles comin out so i would guess that their lying and the other thing is when they lie you can see how their faces acting like if their smirking about something so thats mean their lying

but that doesnt mean that im lying *giggles* jk lol

[tripletres]

they will become nervous, maybe try to change the subjuct, but some main things are:
the wont make eye contact, they will touch their mouth or nose, they will often start to talk quicker, and sometimes even lean forward. also, if you want to see if one is lying, just ask a question, wait a few days, and ask again. if the answers dont line up, then the answer is clear.

[fazenda]

Thats easy. Watch his/her body language. when the person is talking to you make sure he/she is making direct eye contact with you. If there trying to hide something they will usually look else where because the eyes say it all. Aslo if the person is stuttering or constantly changing his/her story around.

this seems like a good way, if him making eye contact for seeing if the lie worked never crossed your mind.

i suggest you watch the show "lie to me" see if you get something from that

and the thing about looking at him strangely when you thing he is lying is good but I think you should use a more "are you serious" kind of look
if he is sitting when it is used check if he fidgets a little in his chair.