Katana = I.D.I.O.T.

[Katana]

I'd appreciate it greatly if everyone was brutally honest with me on this. <3

Basically, I know this sounds really stupid, and it isn't a big deal, but there's this guy I really, really like... And, he figured out that I liked him. So, when he confronted me, I told him I did like him, a lot. But, he doesn't feel the same way. Now, that's not a problem, because we're still friends, though my feelings for him haven't changed. And it does hurt, but I want him to be happy no matter what -even if it's not with me.

The problem is that whenever he sees two of my best friends, and I'm not there, he acts like I'm dead, and when I'm mentioned, he says things like 'don't talk about her' as if I actually AM dead. I mean, I've heard he feels bad, but I don't want him to. I really don't want him to feel bad. And I've told him not to feel bad, 'cause he did try to check up on me to see if I was okay. And I am okay, because he was honest with me, and he didn't play with my feelings.

I blame myself completely for telling him how I feel, and I wish I hadn't said anything. I'm such an idiot. xPPPP I really feel stupid.

How do I fix this???

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P.S. Again, please be brutally honest. I know I've been a complete and utter idiot.

P.P.S. I know this isn't really a problem, and is very, very trivial, but I really don't know what to do.

[1,000,000]

You shouldn't feel stupid. What if something would have come of it? And if you never mentioned that you like him, you'd probably wonder later on if something could have come of it.
You're not an idiot for telling someone you like them

[Lelouch]

It's cases like these when I wish I could load the game from my last save point or push the reset button ^_^.
Well I'm not sure if you can fix this."This" is one of those things that fix themselves or something like that, everything will be back to normal in about 2 3 weeks or so ( guys have short memories) I hope :-s

[Xeohelios]

As far as I can tell, the only reason you could be considered even slightly "stupid" for this is that your letting it get to you so much. That's kind of human nature though.

You had the courage to tell someone you liked them, and you got turned down. Natural cause and effect, but at least you confronted him about it.

Now the shit of "I don't talk to her," is a tad bit dumb on his part. Mainly because I got pissed when people lie out their asses about who they talk to, and for what reasons they do or don't.

All in all, you should try to be satisfied with the results and hope for the best from all of this.

~Sorry if this made no sense, it's 10 in the morning and I haven't slept in around 26 hours, not exactly coherent.~

[Lelouch]

As Xeo said this isn't absolutely andpositively NOT your fault.So you fell inlove with him and confessed it bravo you got turned down because he didn't feel the same thing, good boy.
What I don't get is why is he doing this, as in never wants to talk about you and the rest.Does he hate you now or anything? I don't really get it.
(maybe I'm insensitive or something?)

[Katana]

@ 1,000,000: That's true; I would be wondering what would've happened if I hadn't told him. ><

@Lelouch: Lol, yeah, I do wish I could press some sort of a 'reset' button. =P But, yeah, I don't know if he hates me. My friend said he doesn't, but I'm not sure. >.< I keep thinking he does, or that I've upset him... But, yeah, I don't know. ><

@Xeohelios: Yeah, I shouldn't be letting this get to me. You're right. ((&& You did make sense. =P))

Thanks, guys! <333333

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[Katana]

Well, I found out why he doesn't want people to speak of me. xP He's stressed out by the situation. He wants me to move on. I am moving on, though. It's just taking time...

But, I DO want to remain his friend, and it's hard to do that if he's acting like I've died or something. >.< The silly goose. =3

x

[1,000,000]

heh, well good luck. You know there are plenty of other men out there that would love to have you. That's a fact

[psychosk8r]

this is what i suggest for both his sanity and yours

next time you see him just tell him "look i know youve been stressing about our situation so this is what i think. i want to get over you and you acting like i dont exist is making it kinda hard. every time i hear that you dont even want to talk about me that hurts. and when i try to tell myself that its cuz your stressed i just keep thinking that its my fault. so stop acting like a jerk and start acting like a friend and things will go a lot smoother between us and life will be peachy."

if he doesnt like that then he really didnt want to stay friends with you in the frist place and you dont need friends like that. you have friends like us who care about your feelings as you can tell by your responses and this was a problem. if it stressed you out it was a problem and you put your post in the right forum so good job lol

[Katana]

@1,000,000: Aww, thanks! <3 That means a lot. <333 ^.^
@psychosk8er: Thanks! ^^ && I just got off the phone with one of my best friends just a moment ago, and she said she already messaged him an hour ago, 'cause she's quite close to him, saying that I'm moving on and that I wanna stay friends and stuff, so -yeah- things should be okay, now! ^_^

Thankie! <3333333333333333

x

[psychosk8r]

no problem thats what im here for lol

[Xeohelios]

I wish you the best of luck on your relationship issue Katana.

[Katana]

Thanks, Xeo-kun. <3

x

[Lelouch]

http://blogtown.portlandmercury.com/files/2006/09/yay.jpg

YaY!

[Katana]

Yay, indeed! ^_^
Everything is okay, now! He && I are friends again! YAY!! =dances happily= Lol, sorry, I'm just really happy. ^^;

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[Xeohelios]

*Final Fantasy 7 victory music plays in the background*

Congratulations! You win!

[1ninja1]

I'm glad everything is ok now. You shouldn't have considered yourself an idiot for telling him how you felt though. It's not your fault that he didn't feel the same way. Your honesty in telling him was a good thing. It couldv'e turned out differently for you, but how would you have known if you weren't honest in displaying your feelings? How else would he know how you felt?

[Gabrieth]

This is quite an old topic nice bump up huhu.

Well I will just give my opinion. Even if your surely over with it.
I myself have experience rejections in my life and I felt bad back then but at least once you get over it you wont be always thinking about him and sooner or latter forget about your feeling for him. If you don't tell him your feelings they will just get stronger and it will be harder to let go later on.

So I don't think your an idiot on the contrary ;)

[KillionX6]

You cant feel bad for something you did, when it cant hurt him. You told him your feelings, Whoop deee Frickin doo!!!
Sounds childish to me hahahaha

Not to be an A** but why beat yourself over him? and sounds to me deep down he likes you ((or i am miss interpreting the whol thing and now look like an ass....

[illuma]

Well i never had this problem since i never got turned down. Although i've only asked people to go out with me twice. Even if you got turned down it should all be ok. If anyones an idiot its that guy. Hes missing out if he said no to you. I don't really know you, but you sound like some who's really nice.